What happened to the girl you lost your virginity to?

[stalkerforlife]

I was 17. She'd already had sex with 4 people. Anyhow, the last time we had sex, she said, and I swear on my life, "Are you finally going to make me feel like a woman?"

I have a small package and the only way I can be good in bed is if I have skills, especially orally. Needless to say, I had zero skills considering I was a virgin.

She dumped me and has been with the same black man for about 13 years now.

[ISHGoat]

No idea..

[Levity]

shes dead.

no joke.

[Ncrazyballa]

your dick game so weak bruh :cry:

what you mean bruh? i managed to get her to fucc me even when she was a lesbian.

[TheMan]

He's in a retirement home
:biggums:

[Smook A.]

The girl I lost my virginity to was my cousin's friend's sister. We were both 16. Last I heard, which was about a year ago, she has 4 kids (none of them are mine, thank god), has been divorced 2 times, and doesn't really have a good job. Pretty safe to say she's probably not doing so well :oldlol:

[Theoo]

i dont remember to be hoensti were around 10 at time and were so drunk , have sex withi think 3-4 women at same time and yea dont remember wich one i have sex with firstjust know there are all calling me still , it are kind of sad lol maybe i well pick up one day i just have so many sex girls callingtome

[Legends66NBA7]

She's alive, but haven't seen her in a long time.

[Draz]

Reserved

[riseagainst]

I was 17. She'd already had sex with 4 people. Anyhow, the last time we had sex, she said, and I swear on my life, "Are you finally going to make me feel like a woman?"

I have a small package and the only way I can be good in bed is if I have skills, especially orally. Needless to say, I had zero skills considering I was a virgin.

She dumped me and has been with the same black man for about 13 years now.


:lol
:roll:

[To4]

Still way back in highschool, my girlfriend before. Honestly she is still obsessed with me. Trying to message me in Facebook and what not. Thats like 6-7 years now. :SMH:

[HitandRun Reggie]

She's doing pretty damn good for herself from what I've heard and her husband is good looking and makes great money. I'm not exactly waiting for my EBT card to be refilled, but she probably isn't bragging about my notch on her bedpost. :oldlol:

[FreezingTsmoove]

I'm still in love with her to this day. I thought we had something special going relationship wise after it happened. We were talking everyday, calling, and even hung out some days :(

She thought I was in love with her so she stopped all communication with me. I literally cried almost everyday not being able to speak to her. After I found out from a friend that the reason she wasnt talking to me anymore was because she thought I loved her I called her and told her that I didnt love her, I couldnt love someone I only hung out with a handful of times, and that I just always wanted to be close friends with her :(

I loved her so much that I would rather friendzone her than never talk to her ever again (or have awkward moments when I did see her because she thought I was in love with her)

I could have the greatest girl in the world and I would still pick her over anyone else. If I could have her I would never let her go. Now when we randomly smash I always think just give her a baby so she would be forced to stay with me

Shes the reason I have a cold heart and dont do relationships.

We still talk. We still party. I still have a spot in her heart because she always gets wild with me whenever she sees me and stuff does happen. But I just want more, I want to see her everyday

Shes perfect. She made me perfect (in my own eyes). I literally built the perfect male body because she always talked about how she loved muscular guys (which made me extremely good in basketball. Played HS and in College, I didnt weight train before I met her), she loves to dance so back in the day I used to watch music videos EVERYDAY so the next time we party I would be DATNIGGA on the dancefloor :lol (and I am I turn all the way up), and The only reason I use instagram and snapchat so often is so she can see what I am up to (this has led to me gaining a ton of female followers)

But alas I would give it all up to be with her. She has serious emotional problems that I just want to fix. Before she met me she was hurt so badly by her ex boyfriends that she just doesnt want to do relationships and I understand completely. Problems to the point where she is anemic. I just want to help her, I just want to be there for her and I am.

But I dont know what I will do when the day comes where she finds a new boyfriend. I just dont know what I will do

[StephHamann]

i dont remember to be hoensti were around 10 at time and were so drunk , have sex withi think 3-4 women at same time and yea dont remember wich one i have sex with firstjust know there are all calling me still , it are kind of sad lol maybe i well pick up one day i just have so many sex girls callingtome

He is back

:bowdown:

[Bay Area Baller]

let it go Freeze we all have first loves but you gotta realize that its passed and you got to try to work on making yourself happy with a new partner which can be just as exciting/ rewarding

[iamgine]

During my late teens, I dated a beautiful girl for several months and we both fell deeply in love with each other. But as fate would have it, my family moved literally across the country and our hearts were broken. We kept in touch for a year calling and writing each other. We hoped to get together again after high school.

Then the letters and calls ended abruptly from her end and I heard from a friend that she met another man, dated, and even became pregnant. She lost the baby and eventually broke up with him. That was the last bit of information I had heard about her even to this very day.

I was devastated, to say the least. I was madly in love with her and it was like a knife was pushed and twisted into my heart. I suffered in a deep depression that lasted at least 10 years. I tried to bury the memories and kill the pain with alcohol and drugs.

I eventually pulled myself together and realized I was on a path to self-destruction that needed to stop. In a nutshell, I sobered up, met a woman, got married, have children, and have a terrific job. But now I am older and I have not ever stopped loving my childhood sweetheart.

I have thought about trying to find her and getting in touch with her again. In this age of the Internet, easy information and access to a private investigator, I may have a chance to find her if she is alive. I have some faint hope of rekindling a relationship.

My question for you is: Should I lay this notion to rest? What are the consequences of finding and contacting her after all of these years? Am I just a person in a futile quest for a relationship that cannot be reciprocated? Am I in for another bout of disappointment and depression? Is it a venture that will only destroy my family and marriage I have now?

I guess I want closure and/or an answer before I die. A friend has told me it is like a junkie trying to get back to the extreme feeling again of the first-time high of a drug. It ain

[stalkerforlife]

I'm still in love with her to this day. I thought we had something special going relationship wise after it happened. We were talking everyday, calling, and even hung out some days :(

She thought I was in love with her so she stopped all communication with me. I literally cried almost everyday not being able to speak to her. After I found out from a friend that the reason she wasnt talking to me anymore was because she thought I loved her I called her and told her that I didnt love her, I couldnt love someone I only hung out with a handful of times, and that I just always wanted to be close friends with her :(

I loved her so much that I would rather friendzone her than never talk to her ever again (or have awkward moments when I did see her because she thought I was in love with her)

I could have the greatest girl in the world and I would still pick her over anyone else. If I could have her I would never let her go. Now when we randomly smash I always think just give her a baby so she would be forced to stay with me

Shes the reason I have a cold heart and dont do relationships.

We still talk. We still party. I still have a spot in her heart because she always gets wild with me whenever she sees me and stuff does happen. But I just want more, I want to see her everyday

Shes perfect. She made me perfect (in my own eyes). I literally built the perfect male body because she always talked about how she loved muscular guys (which made me extremely good in basketball. Played HS and in College, I didnt weight train before I met her), she loves to dance so back in the day I used to watch music videos EVERYDAY so the next time we party I would be DATNIGGA on the dancefloor :lol (and I am I turn all the way up), and The only reason I use instagram and snapchat so often is so she can see what I am up to (this has led to me gaining a ton of female followers)

But alas I would give it all up to be with her. She has serious emotional problems that I just want to fix. Before she met me she was hurt so badly by her ex boyfriends that she just doesnt want to do relationships and I understand completely. Problems to the point where she is anemic. I just want to help her, I just want to be there for her and I am.

But I dont know what I will do when the day comes where she finds a new boyfriend. I just dont know what I will do

Damn dude, that's sad.

I'd say cut off all communication with her, but do what you have to do. She just seems like a leech and an abuser.

[KyrieTheFuture]

Haven't met her yet

When the **** did rep come back?

[FreezingTsmoove]

Damn dude, that's sad.

I'd say cut off all communication with her, but do what you have to do. She just seems like a leech and an abuser.

Nah were still great friends, we just went to a party together on friday. We Just made out and got a lap dance. She was so drunk I didnt want to **** because I didnt want to take advantage of her

[d.bball.guy]

I still love her. We dated, broke up a few months ago. Our feelings were never really on the same page and she kinda rebounded with me. Only sucky thing is we were great friends after we broke up but it was broken when I got in a car accident. Now, it's really awkward and even though I tried to befriend her again, it's just not there anymore.

She lost her virginity with me as well tho. We fukked good. She sucked good.

Now that I think about it, I wouldn't want to spend my life with someone that thinks like her, but I just wish I'm still friends with her like I am with my other exes. Glad I met her, she gave me a good time :pimp:

[d.bball.guy]

He is back

:bowdown:
The goat theoo holy shit :bowdown:

[KiiiiNG]

You have a lot of tremendously deep issues. After you get the **** off the couch and finally get a job, you can start paying for therapy.

I'm rooting for you, you good-for-nothing ****ing loser.

[Pushxx]

Had some fun awkward sex and moved on cause we were really just friends that talked on the bus to high school every day (first two and last two stops).

She's married now I hear. Good for her. She was one of the smart and normal ones.

[ISHGoat]

I still love her. We dated, broke up a few months ago. Our feelings were never really on the same page and she kinda rebounded with me. Only sucky thing is we were great friends after we broke up but it was broken when I got in a car accident. Now, it's really awkward and even though I tried to befriend her again, it's just not there anymore.

She lost her virginity with me as well tho. We fukked good. She sucked good.

Now that I think about it, I wouldn't want to spend my life with someone that thinks like her, but I just wish I'm still friends with her like I am with my other exes. Glad I met her, she gave me a good time :pimp:

whats it like being friends with exes?

[Draz]

[QUOTE=iamgine]During my late teens, I dated a beautiful girl for several months and we both fell deeply in love with each other. But as fate would have it, my family moved literally across the country and our hearts were broken. We kept in touch for a year calling and writing each other. We hoped to get together again after high school.

Then the letters and calls ended abruptly from her end and I heard from a friend that she met another man, dated, and even became pregnant. She lost the baby and eventually broke up with him. That was the last bit of information I had heard about her even to this very day.

I was devastated, to say the least. I was madly in love with her and it was like a knife was pushed and twisted into my heart. I suffered in a deep depression that lasted at least 10 years. I tried to bury the memories and kill the pain with alcohol and drugs.

I eventually pulled myself together and realized I was on a path to self-destruction that needed to stop. In a nutshell, I sobered up, met a woman, got married, have children, and have a terrific job. But now I am older and I have not ever stopped loving my childhood sweetheart.

I have thought about trying to find her and getting in touch with her again. In this age of the Internet, easy information and access to a private investigator, I may have a chance to find her if she is alive. I have some faint hope of rekindling a relationship.

My question for you is: Should I lay this notion to rest? What are the consequences of finding and contacting her after all of these years? Am I just a person in a futile quest for a relationship that cannot be reciprocated? Am I in for another bout of disappointment and depression? Is it a venture that will only destroy my family and marriage I have now?

I guess I want closure and/or an answer before I die. A friend has told me it is like a junkie trying to get back to the extreme feeling again of the first-time high of a drug. It ain

[Draz]

whats it like being friends with exes?
Chill. Don't be friends with exs. Exs are exs for a reason. Way too much puszie out there to be friends with an ex. For what reason? They know your weaknesses. Their not there to protect you. Their competition.

[d.bball.guy]

whats it like being friends with exes?
Only works if you end in good terms. At least from my experience.

[Hawker]

She got married to a dude that cheated on her while they were engaged.

They have a kid too.

[ROCSteady]

Shes perfect. She made me perfect (in my own eyes). I literally built the perfect male body because she always talked about how she loved muscular guys (which made me extremely good in basketball. Played HS and in College, I didnt weight train before I met her), she loves to dance so back in the day I used to watch music videos EVERYDAY so the next time we party I would be DATNIGGA on the dancefloor :lol (and I am I turn all the way up), and The only reason I use instagram and snapchat so often is so she can see what I am up to (this has led to me gaining a ton of female followers)


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I'm sure you were the perfect candidate to #MakeHerDay :pimp:

[Derka]

Don't know, don't care.

It was a summer romance that extended into the fall and winter and she was on the rebound from a long term relationship falling apart. She was the first girl I ever said I love you to. She even said it back. Then two things happened:

1. I found out after the fact that she was boning my best friend at the same time as me. Neither my bro or I had any idea the other guy was up in that, so neither of us got mad at each other...we just both laughed that we had been suckered by a whore.

2. She went back to her ex and promptly got knocked up.

I was personally devastated by the whole thing. Took me over a decade to consider trying to love someone again.

[alenleomessi]

she is still teaching elementary school last i heard

[Andrei89]

Got married and has two kids

[rufuspaul]

I'm friends with her on Facebook. She's married with 2 kids. I never had feelings for her beyond great thankfulness that my V-card was finally stamped. I'd like to think I gave her the best 3 minutes of her life.

[enayes]

I married her on 8/22/15.

[NBAplayoffs2001]

Chill. Don't be friends with exs. Exs are exs for a reason. Way too much puszie out there to be friends with an ex. For what reason? They know your weaknesses. Their not there to protect you. Their competition.

Pretty much all this although I do know this guy who was quite the player in high school and all of his exes are on friendly terms with him.

But I've also seen couples break up and involve sadly a lot of their friends in the huge rift they have against each other. I remember seeing this a few times in college. Couples fighting in the middle of the street after a party and then you find them like 2 hours later making up lol.

Also childhood sweethearts can be tricky at times, puppy love tends to feel way stronger at the time as a kid/teen. It never materialized romantically in my case just flirty. I had that type of "love" for a chick before and when I met her again in my late teens, I kind of felt "that's it?" She did move when we were starting to really hit it off but she moved back about 2 years later once I went out of state for college. We both admitted to talking to other people and we eventually grew apart. I tried to rekindle what was left into a possible date during the winter break of my freshman year in college. Didn't work out because she was really busy apparently (highly doubt some of her excuses). She simply outgrew me because we got into a huge fight and she kind of stated how over the past 2 years, feelings change. I know the guy she's been dating for awhile now and I realized they are better off together because very similar outgoing personalities and her boyfriend was a really good smoozer, he used to have a ton of female friends back in high school.

[NBAplayoffs2001]

Only works if you end in good terms. At least from my experience.

Yeah if you're on good terms, I can see it being nice to have especially if you guys don't have feelings anymore towards each other. I know someone whose in their late 20s now who once in awhile still talks to his first girlfriend back in high school. They live far apart now (halfway across the country) but they still keep in touch. They both moved on and I remember that they had a really strong friendship before they dated so it can definitely work out.

[pastis]

she studies medicine. we are emailing once in a while

[Marv_Albert]

She's a prostitute. my dick game so strong she's been chasing the same sensation for years

[Clifton]

My question for you is: Should I lay this notion to rest? What are the consequences of finding and contacting her after all of these years? Am I just a person in a futile quest for a relationship that cannot be reciprocated? Am I in for another bout of disappointment and depression? Is it a venture that will only destroy my family and marriage I have now?
You're married. It'd be an injustice to your family.

I definitely understand where you're coming from. I'm married and sometimes I wonder "what could have been." But nothing matters more than what is.