Would you date a girl that lives an hour away?

[ISHGoat]

For the Toronto brahs, I live in North York and work DT, while she lives/works in Sauga. We both have cars but I can kinda see how after-work plans may be inconvenient.

Would you let this distance/convenience stop you?

[Nick Young]

I have done this. I actually liked it because I didn't have to spend all my time dealing with their shit. I'd see the girl once or twice a week, have a nice time, then go home. It is my favorite type of relationship honestly.

Didn't have time to get sick of them like I do with a girl you see 3-5 times a week, and had more time to get work done.


If you're one of those needy dudes who does check up phone calls and texts and need to call goodnight every night, it will probably be annoying for you and the girl.

[NBAplayoffs2001]

Depends on the girl honestly. I know some really gorgeous women I know who are from the TO area so if she's a looker and you like her as a person, then distance won't matter. Age and maturity might be a factor.

[ISHGoat]

I have done this. I actually liked it because I didn't have to spend all my time dealing with their shit. I'd see the girl once or twice a week, have a nice time, then go home. It is my favorite type of relationship honestly.

Didn't have time to get sick of them like I do with a girl you see 3-5 times a week, and had more time to get work done.


If you're one of those needy dudes who does check up phone calls and texts and need to call goodnight every night, it will probably be annoying for you and the girl.

Nah but this is just so foreign to me. I only saw my ex like 1-2 times a week, except for the beginning where we banged like 4 times a night for 5 times a week.

Im used to dating girls from highschool or uni, where everyone lives close together, or at least spend a lot of time in the same geographic area. This is like venturing into adult dating where people go out of the way to hang out and spend time. My ex used to go to a uni which was sorta on my way home, so we could go to my place together after work and we could go to school/work together again in the morning.

[Draz]

No. I couldn't even do 15 minutes away. I did that long distance shit when I was 16-17 but as a man I need my pussi quick and when I want it tbh

[highwhey]

No, next question.

[imdaman99]

Yes but make sure she isn't clingy. I made that mistake. She wanted to be on the phone all the time because she missed me. I don't like talking on the phone, especially with my womanses. I do my best talking in person and she knew that. It was hard to drop everything just to go down and see her, so it was her driving up most the time :oldlol: So basically all my days off from work, went towards her.

As long as she is secure and mentally stable and has her own life, I think you should do it bro :cheers:

[imdaman99]

No. I couldn't even do 15 minutes away. I did that long distance shit when I was 16-17 but as a man I need my pussi quick and when I want it tbh
Man, I went out with a girl literally 4 blocks away. She was borderline stalkish, would sometimes watch me as I came out of my building from far away to see if I was texting anyone else. Brown girls... some are jealous psychos, a lot are insecure clingy girls with daddy issues... what to do :oldlol:

[Draz]

Man, I went out with a girl literally 4 blocks away. She was borderline stalkish, would sometimes watch me as I came out of my building from far away to see if I was texting anyone else. Brown girls... some are jealous psychos, a lot are insecure clingy girls with daddy issues... what to do :oldlol:
She wanted to make sure you wasn't tryna have a second wife fam

Brown girls crazy asf my ex the moment she stepped out of my house she had to stay otp with me. That phone did NOT hang up she would sleep otp too.

When she fell asleep I'd mute the phone and connect another line talking to the next girl :roll:

[ISHGoat]

She wanted to make sure you wasn't tryna have a second wife fam

Brown girls crazy asf my ex the moment she stepped out of my house she had to stay otp with me. That phone did NOT hang up she would sleep otp too.

When she fell asleep I'd mute the phone and connect another line talking to the next girl :roll:

Cheating on your girl? Not cool man.

[Draz]

Cheating on your girl? Not cool man.
Ex. Thank God I did.

[SugarHill]

north york huh? gonna come for your booty op

[outbreak]

I've done it. But I have my own place so she just stayed here a lot and she worked near me so was close by most of the time.

[Jailblazers7]

I have done this. I actually liked it because I didn't have to spend all my time dealing with their shit. I'd see the girl once or twice a week, have a nice time, then go home. It is my favorite type of relationship honestly.

Didn't have time to get sick of them like I do with a girl you see 3-5 times a week, and had more time to get work done.


If you're one of those needy dudes who does check up phone calls and texts and need to call goodnight every night, it will probably be annoying for you and the girl.

Yeah, that sounds pretty ideal as long as the communication isn't onerous between dates. I prefer to keep a routine during the week so keeping dates and drinks to the weekend for the most part is definitely what I prefer. If she wants to stay at my place sometimes during the week then it's cool.

Kind of a lazy attitude but it's the best from my experience for a relationship in my 20s.

[L.Kizzle]

Some people drive to work an hour away ...

[NBAplayoffs2001]

Man, I went out with a girl literally 4 blocks away. She was borderline stalkish, would sometimes watch me as I came out of my building from far away to see if I was texting anyone else. Brown girls... some are jealous psychos, a lot are insecure clingy girls with daddy issues... what to do :oldlol:

I can attest to this. Some brown girls are absolutely crazy.

[d.bball.guy]

If she gives some good phuck then phuck yeah. Gotta be pretty special tho since hot college bltches are everywhere.

But yeah, I dated my ex over the summer when I went home to take summer classes at a CC. Shit was worth it whenever we see each other but as some people here said, it depends on the girl. When there's a constant threat of cheating then hell nah. Fcked me up bad.

[ISHGoat]

If she gives some good phuck then phuck yeah. Gotta be pretty special tho since hot college bltches are everywhere.

But yeah, I dated my ex over the summer when I went home to take summer classes at a CC. Shit was worth it whenever we see each other but as some people here said, it depends on the girl. When there's a constant threat of cheating then hell nah. Fcked me up bad.

yeah Im still only 24 and work and have activities close to my campus so plowing some college chicks are definitely ideal. working girls might be expecting a serious relationship or something and I really just want some easy poon without serious commitments or effort at this time

i got a lot of shit to do and play a lot of sports so i'd like to stick to that routine. also, its infinitely easier to eat healthy and train when i dont have a girl

[DeuceWallaces]

If you're an adult and you love her that's nothing. Worrying about an hour is high school shit.

[Akrazotile]

If you're an adult and you love her that's nothing. Worrying about an hour is high school shit.


:roll:


Guy is corny AF.

Literally didn't bag a chick til he was 35. Got exposed for lying about it online earlier in his 30's. You can tell he finally managed to lose his virginity because for the past year he keeps bringing up "his lady" and talks down to everyone about relationships like he's the love doctor.

Never has any stories about hookups or wild situations or just random guy shit. Tries to posture himself as some sensitive romantic white knight.

Bro you're ugly and beta and a dork, you had 10 friends on your myspace and a 'single' relationship status after telling everyone here you had a gf. You got engaged to the first ugly chick you had sex with and now you're posing yet again. Everything always posing with you. Most uncool poser the world has ever known.

[ISHGoat]

:roll:


Guy is corny AF.

Literally didn't bag a chick til he was 35. Got exposed for lying about it online earlier in his 30's. You can tell he finally managed to lose his virginity because for the past year he keeps bringing up "his lady" and talks down to everyone about relationships like he's the love doctor.

Never has any stories about hookups or wild situations or just random guy shit. Tries to posture himself as some sensitive romantic white knight.

Bro you're ugly and beta and a dork, you had 10 friends on your myspace and a 'single' relationship status after telling everyone here you had a gf. You got engaged to the first ugly chick you had sex with and now you're posing yet again. Everything always posing with you. Most uncool poser the world has ever known.

:biggums:

[raprap]

That would suck if you have to use public transpo.

[Hawker]

Yeah, that sounds pretty ideal as long as the communication isn't onerous between dates. I prefer to keep a routine during the week so keeping dates and drinks to the weekend for the most part is definitely what I prefer. If she wants to stay at my place sometimes during the week then it's cool.

Kind of a lazy attitude but it's the best from my experience for a relationship in my 20s.

This is exactly why the average marriage age has increased so much. Not that it's a bad thing but I totally agree. If you schedule too many of those events during the week, it's hard to find time to better yourself plus drinking during the week is just unhealthy. Would rather exercise or just come over and make dinner together and then she leaves.

Dates on the weekday are sometimes necessary if the chick isn't an 8-5er. Plus, it can set you up for the big one on the weekend. Just gotta bite the bullet at work the next day.

[NBAplayoffs2001]

If you're an adult and you love her that's nothing. Worrying about an hour is high school shit.

Definitely this. I tried to date a girl who lived far away and visited only like twice a year. I probably aggravated her more by wanting to talk as much as we can online. I probably should have been more patient. I'm sure now in my 20s, I would have handled it a lot better than my 16-17 year old self at the time. Kind of stinks because I had strong feelings for her but was too young and immature at the time.

[Meticode]

Depends on how much each person cares about one another, how strong the connection is and how long you have to date for an hour away. You'll constantly have to make plans and set aside a large portion of your day to see each other. Which can be extremely difficult if you have bigger priorities.