You have to look for reasons to find someone attractive...not ones that don't.

[stalkerforlife]

Would you want someone to look at you and look for a reason to find you unattractive?

Treat people how you'd like to be treated.

If you want people to focus on your good qualities, focus on theirs.

[You Cant Ban Me]

plain white rice...plain white rice.....see how it boils...see how it boils http://sites.psu.edu/siowfa15/wp-content/uploads/sites/29639/2015/09/Yawning.jpg

[Smoke117]

You don't have any good qualities...you wretched little cockroach.

[stalkerforlife]

stalker, you seem to be a lot more positive lately. :applause:

i hope you feel the same way about yourself...in a positive way.

Not positive necessarily...I just think it's right to do unto others as you'd have done unto you.

I love you.

[StephHamann]

stalker, you seem to be a lot more positive lately. :applause:

i hope you feel the same way about yourself...in a positive way.

He saw the light

https://s-media-cache-ak0.pinimg.com/564x/53/c0/1f/53c01f99e33f23ace403edcd36a612c9.jpg

[stalkerforlife]

You don't have any good qualities...you wretched little cockroach.

That's mean, but I know you don't mean it. You are just hurting right now and need to vent.

I love you.

[stalkerforlife]

He saw the light

https://s-media-cache-ak0.pinimg.com/564x/53/c0/1f/53c01f99e33f23ace403edcd36a612c9.jpg

:applause:

[imdaman99]

Always a positive outlook on life OP :applause:

Except when it comes to Lebron :oldlol:

[JEFFERSON MONEY]

Jesus taught unconditional love indeed.

And Virgin Mary wore a headdress to conceal her beauty.

[Patrick Chewing]

OP gives fat ladies hope.

[Smoke117]

That's mean, but I know you don't mean it. You are just hurting right now and need to vent.

I love you.

I absolutely mean it just like I want you to absolutely kill yourself already you pathetic maggot.

[stalkerforlife]

I absolutely mean it just like I want you to absolutely kill yourself already you pathetic maggot.

:kobe:

Love you, still.

[gigantes]

Would you want someone to look at you and look for a reason to find you unattractive?

Treat people how you'd like to be treated.

If you want people to focus on your good qualities, focus on theirs.
it's a complex issue, for sure.

one on hand i'd say-- it's not our responsibility to try to like someone. that pretty much gets taken care of on its own. not to mention, i think that perception and appreciation of others tends to evolve as we age. so it's sort of a self-repairing problem, so to speak.

OTOH one of my favorite quotes is:

"To get the best out of a man go to what is best in him."
--Daniel Considine