Asking girls to set you up with their friends?

[ISHGoat]

Just being direct like "do you have any cute friends to set me up with?" to girls that you don't wanna bang.

Thoughts?

[dunksby]

Good luck.

[Draz]

Nah. Don't do it. You come off as a creep 10 out of 10 times.

[Pushxx]

Women are too instinctively jealous to set up friends unless they're already happily married themselves.

[imnew09]

Let's go out to clubbing/drinks. I will invite my friends, and you invite yours. Usually works out the ratio :cheers:

[nathanjizzle]

no you pathetic small dicc motherfuxer. If she does, it will be her inferior friends that are equally pathetic and small diccked

[InsanityKills]

Let's go out to clubbing/drinks. I will invite my friends, and you invite yours. Usually works out the ratio :cheers:
And then your friends "flake" on you, leaving you with all of them.:cheers:

[warriorfan]

op is a shorty

[ISHGoat]

Idk why I'm getting so much hate in this thread. Girls try to hook me up all the time. Why can't I be assertive with it? It's an easy way to meet girls who already pass my filters for background, status, education, etc since I know the friend and they will be from the same group.

[InsanityKills]

OP getting hooked up with the gay friends, that's why it happens all the time.

[JohnnySic]

Idk why I'm getting so much hate in this thread. Girls try to hook me up all the time. Why can't I be assertive with it? It's an easy way to meet girls who already pass my filters for background, status, education, etc since I know the friend and they will be from the same group.
Hot girls usually aren't keen on being hooked up unless its with a "somebody" (rich guy, pro athlete, etc) or a guy who's unusually good looking. Hot girls get more than enough attention on their own.

Girls are gonna try to hook you up with their fugly friends.

And furthermore, girls are horrible matchmakers. They think "I like her, I like him, they're a great match, I think I'll hook them up!"; the most important factor, "will he think she's hot" doesn't occur to them.

[Pushxx]

Hot girls usually aren't keen on being hooked up unless its with a "somebody" (rich guy, pro athlete, etc) or a guy who's unusually good looking. Hot girls get more than enough attention on their own.

Girls are gonna try to hook you up with their fugly friends.

And furthermore, girls are horrible matchmakers. They think "I like her, I like him, they're a great match, I think I'll hook them up!"; the most important factor, "will he think she's hot" doesn't occur to them.

Women are a little smarter than that. They usually know the guy would barely be able to **** her friend, but it makes her happy that her friend doesn't make the cut. Puts her one peg higher. This is female instinct at work.

Women are hard-wired to want other women to fail unless it benefits them all (see feminism). Women have scorn for other women. Very few girlfriends genuinely take care of each other 100%, especially if men are involved. This goes back to survival, finding optimal mates, self-validation, and ticking biological clocks.

[NBAplayoffs2001]

Nah. Don't do it. You come off as a creep 10 out of 10 times.

This. Unless she's like your BFF and she's asking you if you need some options.

[NBAplayoffs2001]

So in college, I caught attention to this girl who I honestly felt was way out of my league. I didn't even find her to be that cute although a lot of my floor mates thought she was one of the best looking in our dorm. I was mostly aloof around her, straight to the point, helpful to an extent where it didn't seem like I went out of my way, etc. She wasn't my type but I've noticed if you play it cool and be yourself, it's best to meet people that way. I wouldn't ask other girls to set you up. It does come off as creepy and desperate. Girls don't like that and some girls may even tell their friends that you've said that etc. Or sometimes you get lucky and the girl you're asking to set you up happens to have a friend who actually likes you. But even then depending on the friend circle, they may not even do that because they're too nervous to make what they think would be the "first move."

[KnittingRyu]

Nah. Don't do it. You come off as a creep 10 out of 10 times.
That is likely the OP in any interaction with females though.

[JEFFERSON MONEY]

Hot girls usually aren't keen on being hooked up unless its with a "somebody" (rich guy, pro athlete, etc) or a guy who's unusually good looking. Hot girls get more than enough attention on their own.

Girls are gonna try to hook you up with their fugly friends.

And furthermore, girls are horrible matchmakers. They think "I like her, I like him, they're a great match, I think I'll hook them up!"; the most important factor, "will he think she's hot" doesn't occur to them.

Only if they're immature.

If their intentions are right they have the ability to sense things guys don't and sometimes that makes all the difference.

[StephHamann]

Just being direct like "do you have any cute friends to set me up with?" to girls that you don't wanna bang.

Thoughts?

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[ArbitraryWater]

That is likely the OP in any interaction with females though.

someones jimmies rustled


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eww, delet pls?

[LJJ]

Women are hard-wired to want other women to fail unless it benefits them all (see feminism). Women have scorn for other women. Very few girlfriends genuinely take care of each other 100%, especially if men are involved. This goes back to survival, finding optimal mates, self-validation, and ticking biological clocks.

If anything you are describing typical guy behavior here. Guys will think of all women around them in terms of potentially bangable and will never go out of their way to introduce a hot girl they know to a peer. Friend or not.

Women for the most part aren't like that. They don't look at guys they are friends with and think "hey, in the right circumstances I might get to bang him in the future".

A guy asking a girl friend to introduce him to some of her friends is much, much more likely to get results from that than vice versa. Doesn't mean it's a good idea though, I agree with my fellow Johnny.

[SaltyMeatballs]

No, you only do that with guy friends. If you do it with girl friends, they're gonna think you're weird and they'll feel like something's wrong with the way they look cause you're basically telling them "You're cool, but lemme get a taste of your friend"

[ILLsmak]

If anything you are describing typical guy behavior here. Guys will think of all women around them in terms of potentially bangable and will never go out of their way to introduce a hot girl they know to a peer. Friend or not.

Women for the most part aren't like that. They don't look at guys they are friends with and think "hey, in the right circumstances I might get to bang him in the future".

A guy asking a girl friend to introduce him to some of her friends is much, much more likely to get results from that than vice versa. Doesn't mean it's a good idea though, I agree with my fellow Johnny.

Depends on the situation really.

Girls **** block super hard. I've seen some real vile behavior from females. The funny part is it makes them look like shit, too, so it's kind of like a suicide tactic. Gimme the girl who keeps a straight face while getting **** blocked; it's a good test. Cuz more than likely someone will come in and try to do it... you can learn a decent amount about a girl in that moment. Does she get flustered, does she get mad... is she able to brush it off? etc.

If you are worth it and around a girl and her friends are there, you don't need to ask shit. But it's generally bad mojo. I think a lot about after effects; I would advise against dealing w/ girls who are your friends friends cuz it means they are just gonna gossip about you. Which, even if they do it... is better somewhere that you don't know about it.

Plus you create a triangle anyway cuz you gotta talk to her about the girl even if it works out and potentially she could still sabotage you. I would suggest keeping it 1:1 when you can.

Also, if it's an ugly girl that is hanging out with hot girl she might be that ugly girl that the hot girls hang out with or she might just be hanging out with some really ****ed up hot girls, like they are all addicted to crack or something. Jussayin.

-Smak