Can "hanging out" be seen as a date?

[NBAplayoffs2001]

Asking a girl to "hang out," you and her... is that considered a date?

I met this girl awhile back. She gave me her phone number no problem, we talked sporadically and got to know each other. I've seen signs that she likes me (physically) and we've had enough face to face interaction where meeting her in person again wouldn't be weird.

She said yes to hanging out and going out for a bite.

I want to be causal with her before I ask her out for like a more date date type of thing like dinner/going to the city etc.

[Velocirap31]

Dates are just hanging out where you pay for everything.

[NBAplayoffs2001]

Dates are just hanging out where you pay for everything.

Alright cool thanks.

[sammichoffate]

Hanging out is a casual date

[KiiiiNG]

OP is a good guy.

[Hawker]

Maybe I'm getting old but why wouldn't you meet up with this person after getting her number instead of "talking" for awhile before asking her out.

[NBAplayoffs2001]

Maybe I'm getting old but why wouldn't you meet up with this person after getting her number instead of "talking" for awhile before asking her out.

Distance. She goes to school hours away. I would have done this if that wasn't an issue.

[Jameerthefear]

I asked this girl to hang out recently and she told me she was busy and had to study. F*ck that hoe.

[Draz]

Hanging out is a casual date
This. You aren't man enough or smart enough to realize this until you're at that stage of reading females. It's definitely a casual date.

[NBAplayoffs2001]

Lol at Jameer. Girls with high career goals and work hard to achieve them are appealing once you get older youngblood :cheers:.

[Hawker]

Distance. She goes to school hours away. I would have done this if that wasn't an issue.

I would take her on a legitimate date then.

[Hawker]

I asked this girl to hang out recently and she told me she was busy and had to study. F*ck that hoe.

Sucks. If she was into you, she probably would've actually told you when she was available.

Move on to the next girl dude. At least you're asking girls out.

[Jameerthefear]

Lol at Jameer. Girls with high career goals and work hard to achieve them are appealing once you get older youngblood :cheers:.
I bet. But is she really studying? Doubt it

[Hawker]

Lol at Jameer. Girls with high career goals and work hard to achieve them are appealing once you get older youngblood :cheers:.

Depends dude. I was an engineer working a lot of hours and I probably will be again in the future making good money. I really don't need to date a girl working a lot of hours or making a lot of money because that will more than likely mean we won't hang. I just need the personalities to vibe. I couldn't care less what she did for a job.

[Jameerthefear]

Sucks. If she was into you, she probably would've actually told you when she was available.

Move on to the next dude. At least you're asking girls out.
That's what I mean. I blocked her after that since she's not worth my time.

[Hawker]

That's what I mean. I blocked her after that since she's not worth my time.

lolz just realized I told you to move on the next dude.

Meh. Probably didn't need to block her but just delete the contact to prevent drunken texting/calling.

Hope you're enjoying college Jameer.

[Jameerthefear]

lolz just realized I told you to move on the next dude.

Meh. Probably didn't need to block her but just delete the contact to prevent drunken texting/calling.

Hope you're enjoying college Jameer.
It's alright I guess. I'll change majors soon most likely though.

[NBAplayoffs2001]

It's alright I guess. I'll change majors soon most likely though.

Pretty much my logic freshman year. Stayed with my major though :roll:

[Hawker]

It's alright I guess. I'll change majors soon most likely though.

Getting out of engineering?

[Jameerthefear]

Getting out of engineering?
I'm in comp E right now. Just doesn't seem like my kind of thing.

[Lakers Legend#32]

An official date is when you get together with someone for the purposes of getting to know them better.

[UK2K]

Distance. She goes to school hours away. I would have done this if that wasn't an issue.

The first year of dating, my girlfriend lived 1,001 miles (exactly) away. After that year, I moved across the country INTO a new apartment with her. Been dating four years now.

[Steven Kerry]

Dates are just hanging out where you pay for everything.
So true.

[Steven Kerry]

Sucks. If she was into you, she probably would've actually told you when she was available.

Move on to the next girl dude. At least you're asking girls out.
No, he's asking to hang out. They'll probably friend zone him.

[Steven Kerry]

The first year of dating, my girlfriend lived 1,001 miles (exactly) away. After that year, I moved across the country INTO a new apartment with her. Been dating four years now.
Is she racist too? Just want to make sure you to are a match for each other :cheers:

[UK2K]

Is she racist too? Just want to make sure you to are a match for each other :cheers:

Yes... I met her on a white supremacist message board her senior year at Miami.

Love at first sight.

[Hawker]

I'm in comp E right now. Just doesn't seem like my kind of thing.

Hopefully its that and not too much work/too hard.

[Steven Kerry]

Yes... I met her on a white supremacist message board her senior year at Miami.

Love at first sight.
Makes sense. I'm sure you 2 make a good power couple. White power to be precise.

[UK2K]

Makes sense. I'm sure you 2 make a good power couple. White power to be precise.

https://a4-images.myspacecdn.com/images03/23/0fa9b70138ba4f95bff77421478a82de/300x300.jpg

[NBAplayoffs2001]

Tomorrow night :applause:

[TheWinningFam]

If your mack game is good they should want to ''just hang out'' at yours/her crib http://www.thecoli.com/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/dame2.png

[TheWinningFam]

Also if your mack game isn't strong and u cant get her to just chill at the house. dont do any of that dinner and a movie shit in 2016 http://www.thecoli.com/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/mjlol.png
Unless you over 30, then its cool

[Tarik One]

Also if your mack game isn't strong and u cant get her to just chill at the house. dont do any of that dinner and a movie shit in 2016 http://www.thecoli.com/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/mjlol.png
Unless you over 30, then its cool
Yeah, I only do the dinner and movie thing with women I'm already with. If she likes you and trusts you, she will have no problem coming to your house.

[tmacattack33]

Well you're not just going to "hang out" with her like one of your buddies. So it's obviously not just hanging out, and there is some sexual attraction there and it is the reason you will be seeing each other.

[NBAplayoffs2001]

It was fun.

[Doomsday Dallas]

It was fun.


and?

details?

[NBAplayoffs2001]

and?

details?

We talked for 2 hours, kept it casual. Said we should do it again.

[Doomsday Dallas]

We talked for 2 hours, kept it casual. Said we should do it again.


where?

while doing what?

do you want to continue to keep it casual? or get more serious?


We need facts.

[NBAplayoffs2001]

where?

while doing what?

do you want to continue to keep it casual? or get more serious?


We need facts.

Some local restaurant (Food's pretty good, been here before). We just had dinner. We said we'll meet up again when she's back in town. We were both nervous at first but it became a lot smoother through conversation.

[TheWinningFam]

Some local restaurant (Food's pretty good, been here before). We just had dinner. We said we'll meet up again when she's back in town. We were both nervous at first but it became a lot smoother through conversation.
If your mack game was on point you woulda tried to **** her before she went outta town B. http://www.thecoli.com/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/dame2.png

Next time you meet a girl from outta town just be like, ''You should let me hit that before you leave'' or somewhere in between them lines, You'd actually be suprised how much that shit actually works, take it from a tru mack. If it works, great if it doesn't who cares? Life goes on and you wont see her again..http://www.thecoli.com/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/dame2.png

[Jasper]

Asking a girl to "hang out," you and her... is that considered a date?

I met this girl awhile back. She gave me her phone number no problem, we talked sporadically and got to know each other. I've seen signs that she likes me (physically) and we've had enough face to face interaction where meeting her in person again wouldn't be weird.

She said yes to hanging out and going out for a bite.

I want to be causal with her before I ask her out for like a more date date type of thing like dinner/going to the city etc.
slow and easy, bro and be a gentleman. (NOT A DICK wad)

[TheWinningFam]

slow and easy, bro and be a gentleman. (NOT A DICK wad)
The longer you wait to get to the point with a chick, the harder it will become to get her, if you go slow you risk someone else just coming in and taking ya girl.

If you haven't established y'all are dating/in a relationship/fukk buddies by the 2nd date you already lost.

[NBAplayoffs2001]

From what it seems, I can't really tell what's up with her. I forgot to mention to, she texted first after our little dinner date which I've heard is a great sign of possible interest. It wasn't the next day either, it was later in the day. Tried hitting her up recently but she was busy. We do have plans for a second date but not for awhile (maybe a few months since when she becomes free, I get really busy for about a month). School's been keeping both of us way too busy.

[HarryBergeron]

This thread makes me sad. Y'all need to relax. Bitches can smell the desperation and NBApo01 and Jimmy, you guys REEK of it.

[NBAplayoffs2001]

This thread makes me sad. Y'all need to relax. Bitches can smell the desperation and NBApo01 and Jimmy, you guys REEK of it.

Just trying to feel out someone I'm kind of into. I could really careless if she wanted to just be friends.

[HarryBergeron]

If that were the case you wouldn't make a thread about it here (okay maybe you would have because you are autistic and spam, the forum with awful threads).

I'm saying that your desperation towards females in general is a turnoff.

[dankok8]

Most guys these days try hard not to be desperate but then end up looking aloof and arrogant and the girl just moves on. Early on when you just meet a chick she's not invested in you so you do have to strike quickly while the iron is hot so to speak. If you get a girl's number text her the next day and ask her to meet you that same night even if it's something like coffee and bowling. Doesn't matter...

I am 29 years old and been hitting up chicks for years and years so I've made every mistake in the book. As you get experienced you realize that getting a girl is more about time and place then it is about "game". There are some dudes out there who go out every night and date two girls every day. But that's a pathetic existence IMO. Most of those people have some serious emotional issues that go beyond dating girls.