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DaHeezy
02-21-2019, 11:45 AM
Let's say you met her at a party or a club. So you've never spoke with her before

How long do you wait to call?

Do you call or text?

If you text what do you text?
If you call how do you start?

https://youtu.be/JV-m9bJTrh8

rufuspaul
02-21-2019, 11:53 AM
You text her a dick pic after 2 days. Works every time.

Kblaze8855
02-21-2019, 12:35 PM
Text never call. Not for first contact. Those days are over. Maybe two days later. Give her a say to wonder if you will.

Charlie Sheen
02-21-2019, 01:37 PM
Text never call. Not for first contact. Those days are over. Maybe two days later. Give her a say to wonder if you will.

Eh. There's no script. Talking to women isn't a perfect science. Never call? A lot more dudes should. Charm is a skill that needs to be practiced. That doesn't come from being penpals.

egokiller
02-21-2019, 01:41 PM
Why are you making a new thread. Just ask when you should call that trans and what you should say in the thread where the story last left off:

http://www.insidehoops.com/forum/showthread.php?t=461912

DaHeezy
02-21-2019, 01:47 PM
Eh. There's no script. Talking to women isn't a perfect science. Never call? A lot more dudes should. Charm is a skill that needs to be practiced. That doesn't come from being penpals.

I agree fully. But the landscape today with interaction is so different. Girls don't answer their phones. It's like they communicate exclusively text. I know when I give digits I almost always get a text. If I call they don't answer and text back immediately, "did you call?" :lol

warriorfan
02-21-2019, 01:49 PM
Don

DaHeezy
02-21-2019, 01:54 PM
Why are you making a new thread. Just ask when you should call that trans and what you should say in the thread where the story last left off:

http://www.insidehoops.com/forum/showthread.php?t=461912

Did you archive so you can jerk off to it?

:lol

Maybe you should pay attention to this thread. You might learn something and one day communicate with the opposite sex :lol

Straight_failing on a date:

Date: Hey they have 3 sliders for $9

Egokiller: Lebron went 3 for 9!

Date: I'll take the dinner pairing

Egokiller: Lebron had to pair with 2 superstars to win!!

Date: This date is failing

Egokiller: Like Lebron failed to recruit Anthony Davis???

Levity
02-21-2019, 02:19 PM
its best not to put too much thought into these things

simplest text is - It was great meeting( or hanging out with) you last night(the other night, tonight - depending when you decide to text her). Lets do that again sometime.

plain and simple.

also, depending on the situation, a text saying "just making sure you got home safe" the night you hang out with them, is always appreciated by a girl

rufuspaul
02-21-2019, 02:54 PM
also, depending on the situation, a text saying "just making sure you got home safe" the night you hang out with them, is always appreciated by a girl


DaHeezy: Just making sure you got home safe

Club Ho: Yes, you're so sweet to check up on me

DaHeezy: Great, here's a pic of my dick so you can rub one out before you sleep.

TheMan
02-21-2019, 03:00 PM
Let's say you met her at a party or a club. So you've never spoke with her before

How long do you wait to call?

Do you call or text?

If you text what do you text?
If you call how do you start?

https://youtu.be/JV-m9bJTrh8
Is she a legit female or is "she" a tranny?

Levity
02-21-2019, 03:06 PM
DaHeezy: Just making sure you got home safe

Club Ho: Yes, you're so sweet to check up on me

DaHeezy: Great, here's a pic of my dick so you can rub one out before you sleep.

:lol doctor prescribed.

DaHeezy
02-21-2019, 03:08 PM
Is she a legit female or is "she" a tranny?

She's your mother. I'll have her back by the weekend. Or I can drop her off at border security and have her deported back to you.

Hawker
02-21-2019, 03:30 PM
Eh. There's no script. Talking to women isn't a perfect science. Never call? A lot more dudes should. Charm is a skill that needs to be practiced. That doesn't come from being penpals.
Girls are *******. They want to text so they don

Kblaze8855
02-21-2019, 03:54 PM
Eh. There's no script. Talking to women isn't a perfect science. Never call? A lot more dudes should. Charm is a skill that needs to be practiced. That doesn't come from being penpals.

I would much prefer to call that just isn’t how things are done these days. You start to call after you know each other well. Early? They will want to hear from you....ignore a call...then text back to flirt.

There’s a good segment of the population now that are more likely to **** someone they barely know than to sit and talk on the phone with the same guy.

red1
02-21-2019, 04:22 PM
You text her a dick pic after 2 days. Works every time.
agreed.


any earlier than 2 days is premature she needs to earn it.

Rolando
02-21-2019, 05:50 PM
[QUOTE=Kblaze8855]I would much prefer to call that just isn

TheMan
02-21-2019, 06:30 PM
She's your mother. I'll have her back by the weekend. Or I can drop her off at border security and have her deported back to you.
Oh look, yet another mom joke...how original of you :rolleyes:

Kblaze8855
02-21-2019, 06:33 PM
This is true, even for older ladies like I date. Text is how it is done. You have to resist the urge to call. Also, often you get a text that is ambiguous...still don't call.


Yea the only people who cold call in 2019 are old men chasing young women. A sugar daddy will call without being asked. Ive seen it discussed.

DaHeezy
02-21-2019, 06:47 PM
Oh look, yet another mom joke...how original of you :rolleyes:

Lighten up kid. Why don't you just sit back and enjoy the thread. Your socially awkward self could learn something about North American hotties and not get scared back home to dirty little street chicas.

Jasper
02-21-2019, 07:14 PM
first date , keep it simple , and be a gentleman...

doesn't mean 2nd date be a dick , always be a gentleman.
pek on cheek o.k.

and if it starts to warm up on third on the lips.

TheMan
02-21-2019, 07:26 PM
Lighten up kid. Why don't you just sit back and enjoy the thread. Your socially awkward self could learn something about North American hotties and not get scared back home to dirty little street chicas.
Bruh, I'm married and have kids.

I had both American and Mexican gfs, eventually married a Mexican girl of Argentine ancestry, I know my way around women, I'm not the one asking if I should text or call a chick I recently met, rookie.

Charlie Sheen
02-21-2019, 07:58 PM
[QUOTE=Kblaze8855]I would much prefer to call that just isn

egokiller
02-21-2019, 08:21 PM
OP has already been caught trying to come out of the closet in the link I posted now he's making threads like this in an half assed attempt to cover his tracks. :lol

sammichoffate
02-21-2019, 10:00 PM
first date , keep it simple , and be a gentleman...

doesn't mean 2nd date be a dick , always be a gentleman.
pek on cheek o.k.

and if it starts to warm up on third on the lips.You're p modest, guys that don't shag by the 3rd date or p rare these days.

Ben Simmons 25
02-21-2019, 10:12 PM
Eh. There's no script. Talking to women isn't a perfect science. Never call? A lot more dudes should. Charm is a skill that needs to be practiced. That doesn't come from being penpals.

This is 100% correct.

But anyways... contacting immediately (day of) is incredibly desperate... if you wait too long, they think you're a player and they will blow you off unless they are themselves desperate.

So... with some girls, you might be able to get away with a next day contact but 2 days after initial contact is the "safe" play, statistically speaking. It doesn't come off as desperate and it's not too long where she will blow you off. But guess what? If you really are desperate and a nervous autist around women, it's going to come out anyways, even if you strike at the perfect time in terms of contacting her again.

So with that in mind...

You know what you really should do, to be honest? Just keep swinging over and over and over. I kinda doubt you're serious about this girl if you just met her in the club. And if you're not serious about it, what is there to lose? The more you keep swinging at the ball, the better you're going to get at hitting it and the less autistic you will be... such as coming on here and asking a bunch of internet trolls for dating advice.

There is no substitute for experience.

You can read all day long about hitting a baseball and you're not going to be able to do it without practice and a bunch of swings and misses.

Gatorade Sax
02-22-2019, 04:21 AM
first date , keep it simple , and be a gentleman...

doesn't mean 2nd date be a dick , always be a gentleman.
pek on cheek o.k.

and if it starts to warm up on third on the lips.

That

masonanddixon
02-22-2019, 04:24 AM
Just call her whenever you want. I used to give a shit about dating etc and worrying about women but now if I can tell she's not right I just give up. Nothing more pathetic than a guy who pins his emotions on a woman.

DaHeezy
02-22-2019, 04:52 AM
Bruh, I'm married and have kids.

I had both American and Mexican gfs, eventually married a Mexican girl of Argentine ancestry, I know my way around women, I'm not the one asking if I should text or call a chick I recently met, rookie.

So you settled with the first homeland girl that gave you a chance. Congrats. Thanks for getting at least one desperado out of the way. Us homies wanna share deets. Some of us have options you've never had a chance to enjoy.
:cheers:

DaHeezy
02-22-2019, 04:56 AM
Just call her whenever you want. I used to give a shit about dating etc and worrying about women but now if I can tell she's not right I just give up. Nothing more pathetic than a guy who pins his emotions on a woman.

You gotta admit. Landscape is different. Text is so universal.

Gus Hemmingway
02-22-2019, 05:11 AM
Did you archive so you can jerk off to it?

:lol

Maybe you should pay attention to this thread. You might learn something and one day communicate with the opposite sex :lol

Straight_failing on a date:

Date: Hey they have 3 sliders for $9

Egokiller: Lebron went 3 for 9!

Date: I'll take the dinner pairing

Egokiller: Lebron had to pair with 2 superstars to win!!

Date: This date is failing

Egokiller: Like Lebron failed to recruit Anthony Davis???
:roll: :roll:

TheMan
02-22-2019, 01:12 PM
So you settled with the first homeland girl that gave you a chance. Congrats. Thanks for getting at least one desperado out of the way. Us homies wanna share deets. Some of us have options you've never had a chance to enjoy.
:cheers:
Some of us are old fashioned and prefer not having trannys as "options" :confusedshrug:

egokiller
02-22-2019, 01:24 PM
Some of us are old fashioned and prefer not having trannys as "options" :confusedshrug:

:roll: :roll: :roll:

Picture him on a date.

Nanners
02-22-2019, 01:32 PM
Heezy, next time your stupid ass accuses me of harassing you (because I commented sarcastically in one of your dumb ass threads or something), I am gonna link you back to this discussion. Obviously its not just me... this entire site thinks you are a jabroni :oldlol:

egokiller
02-22-2019, 02:06 PM
Heezy, next time your stupid ass accuses me of harassing you (because I commented sarcastically in one of your dumb ass threads or something), I am gonna link you back to this discussion. Obviously its not just me... this entire site thinks you are a jabroni :oldlol:

Remember that thread where he thought he was a mod on ISH? This guy just tells him the same shit over and over until he convinces himself to believe it. It's like he mindfvcks himself to the point where he cannot distinguish reality from fiction. :oldlol:

Hawker
02-22-2019, 04:04 PM
[QUOTE=Gatorade Sax]That

DaHeezy
02-22-2019, 05:19 PM
Heezy, next time your stupid ass accuses me of harassing you (because I commented sarcastically in one of your dumb ass threads or something), I am gonna link you back to this discussion. Obviously its not just me... this entire site thinks you are a jabroni :oldlol:

You think so?
Take a poll. I bet you knock it out the park. You're like the itch everyone wants to scratch out.

But if you think TheMan who's socially inept and straight_altin is "everyone" then you live in a very small box on ISH. A couple of losers who are hyper focused on me isn't all of ISH unfortunately