Age Differences in Relationships

[eliteballer]

What's your take?

Do you have one universal rule? It depends?

[highwhey]

if she 17, i

[bballer]

half your age plus 7. isn't that the thing?

[warriorfan]

My lady is 5 years younger. It

[dude77]

for a relationship .. probably 21 is cutoff .. certain girls seem to have some type of maturity by then .. keyword some .. don't give a shit about age .. if you like her and she likes you that's that .. some of y'all's grandparents and great grandparents had huge age gaps and y'all are here now so that's that .. for just sex .. at least 18

[iamgine]

A real relationship? Or just fun relationship?

[kennethgriffen]

dated a 40 year old mother of 2 last year.. she had an 18 year old son and a 15 year old daughter. i never went to her house to avoid the awkwardness


dated 18-21 year olds till i was about 30 ... since then mostly 27+



age is just a number until you get older and the bags under your eyes/random grey hairs in your beard prevent you from getting prime p*ssy.

[highwhey]

dated a 40 year old mother of 2 last year.. she had an 18 year old son and a 15 year old daughter. i never went to her house to avoid the awkwardness


dated 18-21 year olds till i was about 30 ... since then mostly 27+



age is just a number until you get older and the bags under your eyes/random grey hairs in your beard prevent you from getting prime p*ssy.
how many of them knew you

[Prometheus]

got 7 years on my gf

i highly recommend that

[Vino24]

Women are attracted to wealth and status both of which come with age. Women love older men.

[TheMan]

got 7 years on my gf

i highly recommend that
:cheers:

I was 32 and my wife was 24 when we started dating

[Spurs m8]

Im going on a date with my first milf this friday night.

Never dated a mom before.

[Spurs m8]

got 7 years on my gf

i highly recommend that

Depends...had this same age gap in my last relationship....was nice to fvck a heaps fresher girl, but fvck me, the maturity difference ruined it in the end.

Oh, and the fact she was a fvcking psycho

[Prometheus]

:cheers:

I was 32 and my wife was 24 when we started dating

rn I'm 31 and she's 24

:hammertime:

[HylianNightmare]

6 year difference with my ex and it was kind of awkward sometimes the things that she was into that

[DCL]

the last time i dated a teenager was when i was 25. she was 19.

the difference was only six years, but at the time, i thought the gap was enormous. i was already done with school, working and all that, but she was still just a clueless kid.

i felt more like a babysitter than a boyfriend. we were on totally different phases in life and our interests were different. i easily dominated all conversations like how a father might talk to a daughter, but that wasn't any fun. i think we all like some intellectual stimulation from our partners.

[pauk]

For me personally I think age is just a number until you get old or unattractive, whether it be genetics/lifestyle and/or let yourself go...
Which is what happens for most after 35 or earlier...

If a girl/woman finds you attractive she will be interested and/or even hit on you/make the first move....

If you look young & handsome, are in great shape... you will get hit on by girls far younger than you, even 15+ years younger than you, whether you like it or not...

I say this speaking from experience because i am one of those "rare" cases, i am 38 and look way to young for my age, no gray hair, hairline intact, no wrinkles, a better looking body than ever before, no beard perhaps helps, i dont look no day older than 25 and i must agree... as i look around people in their 30s today i cant disagree, they do look 30, many/most actually i would say look old and/or have let themselves go, some wrinkle here n there, some gray hair, some are balding etc, many in their 30s i would say look even like 40 / 40+.... every single human i told my age to couldnt believe it, i definitely dont look over 27-28-29, especially not nearing damn 40s...

My point is i always did and still do get hit on by teens (18-19) sometimes and some could have been even 16-17 unfortunately (not sure these days, you dont know), its unavoidable.... my GF is 24 and looks good, 14 year difference, she is mature for her age, has a decent job, wants to settle/marry asap, i dont see any problem, she definitely doesnt....

[Prometheus]

who knew lil pauk was out here crushin the game. :oldlol:

[pauk]

who knew lil pauk was out here crushin the game. :oldlol:

My game sucks tho, was kinda shy / unsocial and was always way to picky, earlier (high school especially) i was introverted, i would sometimes get way to nervous of girls hitting on me, didnt like the stress/butterflies and would choke when having a conversation... :/ had no problem talking to them, but when... you know... things got hot, i would mess up...

I always was jelous of guys who had "GAME", think actually that is a better thing than being good looking.

[eliteballer]

There

[JohnnySic]

I get flirted with by girls 25 years younger than me. It sure helps to keep in shape and generally keep yourself together.

[Ben Simmons 25]

[QUOTE=highwhey]how many of them knew you

[Ben Simmons 25]

the last time i dated a teenager was when i was 25. she was 19.

the difference was only six years, but at the time, i thought the gap was enormous. i was already done with school, working and all that, but she was still just a clueless kid.

i felt more like a babysitter than a boyfriend. we were on totally different phases in life and our interests were different. i easily dominated all conversations like how a father might talk to a daughter, but that wasn't any fun. i think we all like some intellectual stimulation from our partners.

Holy shit this post is ****ing IDENTICAL to an experience of mine.

I was 25... she was 19. I quickly figured out the maturity difference and it was over after a few weeks and honestly it only lasted that long because I was her supervisor and I wasn't trying to stir up shit at work so I had to ease out of it and make her think it was her idea to break up... :roll:

Turned into a dip and dodge type situation, heh.

But I'm 35 now... I haven't dated anyone in a few years... I've been jaded for a hot damn minute.

My cutoff now would probably be 25... maybe... that's pushing it... there are definitely some mature 25 year olds but any younger than that and it typically becomes ridiculously difficult to try to have any type of serious conversation that doesn't revolve around taking her clothes off.


The girls I've dated in their 30s have typically been through the ringer and on the **** carousel. Hell, most of the girls in their mid 20s already have as well. If I don't find someone within the next 3 years to settle down with, I don't foresee myself ever getting married. It's very unlikely given how much of an obnoxious asshole I am, despite being a great guy.

[eliteballer]

I get flirted with by girls 25 years younger than me. It sure helps to keep in shape and generally keep yourself together.

Doesn't necessarily mean anything...women will flirt just for the hell of it to have fun.

[Vino24]

Holy shit this post is ****ing IDENTICAL to an experience of mine.

I was 25... she was 19. I quickly figured out the maturity difference and it was over after a few weeks and honestly it only lasted that long because I was her supervisor and I wasn't trying to stir up shit at work so I had to ease out of it and make her think it was her idea to break up... :roll:

Turned into a dip and dodge type situation, heh.

But I'm 35 now... I haven't dated anyone in a few years... I've been jaded for a hot damn minute.

My cutoff now would probably be 25... maybe... that's pushing it... there are definitely some mature 25 year olds but any younger than that and it typically becomes ridiculously difficult to try to have any type of serious conversation that doesn't revolve around taking her clothes off.


The girls I've dated in their 30s have typically been through the ringer and on the **** carousel. Hell, most of the girls in their mid 20s already have as well. If I don't find someone within the next 3 years to settle down with, I don't foresee myself ever getting married. It's very unlikely given how much of an obnoxious asshole I am, despite being a great guy.
Why would you limit yourself to that age? By then a woman's metabolism is definitely slower and she will never be hotter physically from 18-21 Not only that she will have experience in the world and will most likely be fvcked up from it :lol

[Duderonomy]

8 1/2 years . She is horny soo much I can sex chores.

[fsvr54]

60 is about my cutoff point right now.

Definitely interested in hanging with women in their 30s right now.

I'm 28.

[Rocket]

My wife of 26 years is 9 years older than me. I met her when I was 23 and she was 32. She looks younger than I do still.

[BarberSchool]

I'm almost 30 and I still match with hella 18yr olds on tinder and I ain't changing for sh!t lol
Now a relationship .... thats different.
But age is a number (shouts to Robert kelly)
Maturity can vary based on life experience.
Girls with tragic childhoods grow up faster.

[fsvr54]

What kind of grown man goes out with an 18 year old?

I'm 28 and I literally have nothing to talk about with them, I feel old as shit. There are vast gulfs of intellect between me and a young girl (doesn't matter what she went through in life), it's just too much. They don't even understand half the things I say.

I need a WOMAN, that understands the world.

I guess it's different with white woman (who age like milk). Latinas look GOOD AS HELL til at least 50 if they take care of themselves.

[BarberSchool]

What kind of grown man goes out with an 18 year old?

I'm 28 and I literally have nothing to talk about with them, I feel old as shit. There are vast gulfs of intellect between me and a young girl (doesn't matter what she went through in life), it's just too much. They don't even understand half the things I say.

I need a WOMAN, that understands the world.

I guess it's different with white woman (who age like milk). Latinas look GOOD AS HELL til at least 50 if they take care of themselves.You'd be surprised how many 18-24 yr olds love 90's and 00's true school hip hop, and 90's fashion. Way more are into sh!t that used to be mostly male interests; govt/finance/policy/video-games/etc. It works yo.

[red1]

sometimes you just want to **** sometimes you want someone that you can do things with. you know - actually experience life and all of that.


bitches under the age of 25 are only good for one category.

[fsvr54]

Yeah, but you have to actually talk to them to get to the ****ing part.

[warriorfan]

You'd be surprised how many 18-24 yr olds love 90's and 00's true school hip hop, and 90's fashion. Way more are into sh!t that used to be mostly male interests; govt/finance/policy/video-games/etc. It works yo.

True. I was talking music with the last 19 year old I hooked up with. She threw on some Aaliyah and rode it like a champ. Had me pleasantly surprised.

[red1]

Yeah, but you have to actually talk to them to get to the ****ing part.
do you have a point that you're making here?

[fsvr54]

18 year old girls are usually dumb as **** and hard to talk and relate to, most also have no conversation skills either.

If that's not your experience, fine. Hasn't been mine. Of course there's cool 18 year old chicks out there, but they're definitely the exception. They're still babies and act like it.

[warriorfan]

18 year old girls are usually dumb as **** and hard to talk and relate to, most also have no conversation skills either.

If that's not your experience, fine. Hasn't been mine. Of course there's cool 18 year old chicks out there, but they're definitely the exception. They're still babies and act like it.

Why the hell are you talking to girls if you are looking for a real conversation? Make some small talk and go for it. If you are trying to hold some deep conversation about the meaning of life then you are doing it wrong.

[fsvr54]

I hate small talk.

But then I dont have much casual sex anyways. I dont need it. Never heard the song Mind Sex by Dead Prez? I like to **** women i can have a connection with, but thats me. Everyone's different and has their own world views.

[Hawker]

Dated a girl that was 9 years my senior (25 and 34) - great sex but I was still trying to get my career together and was taking risks which wasn't compatible with her. I told her as soon as I could and then she broke it off. Price of oil went down and so I didn't end up moving and asked her a few months later if she wanted to get back together. Didnt happen though. Wouldn't have lasted long anyway - we met up a couple years later and she basically told me how unfair it was that she and her friends couldn't have kids since they were getting old.

Warning to all the girls out there.

I was in a year long relationship with a girl that was 8-9 years younger than me. 29 and 20. Like DCL, it did feel like babysitting. She was super idealistic and didn't know how to deal with a man that basically had his shit together. She could only really hold conversations about abortion. She couldn't believe she was attracted to a republican from Texas. :lol

She broke it off with me and I was pretty sad. Took me 2-3 weeks to get over her - two months later she hits me back up to get back together and I say nah. She basically tried to guilt trip me acting like, "I wasn't dealing with the break up and being immature about it." wtf? She couldn't handle that I was saying no to her.

Wouldn't have lasted much longer anyway. She was started nursing school and I pretty much came to the conclusion I was kinda forcing it.

Funny enough, after breaking up with her, I started just falling into ***** for some reason. Dated/hooked up with girls from 25-35. The sex was WAY better than with the 20-21 year old.

Now I'm seeing a girl 5 years younger than me but we are in similar stages of life so it doesn't matter.

[Draz]

There's nothing more attractive than a female who has her shit together at a young age, competitive, making money, and can be wifey type.

It's very rare. My wife's younger than me and she's doing financially better than me. Shit is crazy.

I stopped being totally attracted to women based on looks, it's about their success and will to educate themselves that get me rock hard.

[Ben Simmons 25]

I stopped being totally attracted to women

We know.

[Vino24]

There's nothing more attractive than a female who has her shit together at a young age, competitive, making money, and can be wifey type.

It's very rare. My wife's younger than me and she's doing financially better than me. Shit is crazy.

I stopped being totally attracted to women based on looks, it's about their success and will to educate themselves that get me rock hard.
Career women make the worst wives. That's why there are so many of them single/divorced :oldlol:

[step_back]

Maturity is a big factor and that isn't always linked to someones age. My last girlfriend was a year older than me (she was 30 I was 29) and she threw temper tantrums like a spoilt toddler if she didn't get things her own way all the time. She even had a mini outburst when we were in a restaurant and they had run out of the meal she ordered. After 4 months I'd had enough.:facepalm

I asked her out around the same time I had a lot of interest from a woman 9 years my junior that I worked with. Despite the woman that was 9 years younger being a very nice person (And easy on the eyes) she just had that naive 20 year old outlook which we all had at that age. I also thought she should be with someone closer to her age. She wanted to be out partying at the weekend and I got the whole clubbing and getting drunk thing out of my system years ago.

I actually bumped into her back in August after having not seen her for over a year. She's 22 now but still in that phase. I noticed that conversation wasn't flowing so didn't ask her out.

I think 25+ is the lowest I could go. The only time I'd go lower is if a girl wanted to just hookup for fun and knew what the score was. Even then 21 would be the lowest I would go.

[Jasper]

my mum married my step dad who was 20 years her senior.

A friend of mine after a 30 year marriage divorced and married a gal 20 years younger.

I have been in relationships where the gal was older than me ...
Not an issue at all ...

If you like or love someone is doesn't matter.

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Some years ago , I knew of a guy married to a very fat wife...
I would not do it , but he had a connection with her that was inseparable.