Guys get me on this one

[hateraid]

Argument with wife over a story between our close friend and his new girlfriend

Your new girlfriend had a f*ck buddy 3 months before dating you. He broke it off with her for a new girlfriend. One night around midnight he text her "how's it going?" After 4 months of no communication

What do you think this guy wants?

[1987_Lakers]

The answer is pretty obvious.

[hateraid]

The answer is pretty obvious.

Well the wife thinks there is a small chance dude just wanted to say hi. I said there's a 100% chance dude is having problems with his girl, is drunk and wants to smash previous p*ssy

[dude77]

well it's possible he's saying hi .. but if he's sending that text at that time that's probably not the case .. he's probably having sexual thoughts .. we all know how it goes .. it's different at that time of night

[Overdrive]

Who cares what he wants? The girl's reaction is important.

[Nanners]

Who cares what he wants? The girl's reaction is important.

bingo

the guy wants what every guy wants... the only thing that matters is whether the girlfriend is willing to give it

[And1AllDay]

Who cares what he wants? The girl's reaction is important.


bingo

the guy wants what every guy wants... the only thing that matters is whether the girlfriend is willing to give it

this

to answer op of course he is hitting her up to smash but as above what does the girl say/text

should be nothing if she still in a relationshipo

[hateraid]

I agree with everyone about it being a trust issue. The fact his GF told him means there is trust there.

What concerns me is how naive women can be to think this is a random hello message. Both my wife and his GF thought it could just be a random hello. You got to be naive or very stupid to not see that.

[hold this L]

Nobody texts someone of the opposite sex at midnight unless they want to ****. How is this even a question?

[hateraid]

Nobody texts someone of the opposite sex at midnight unless they want to ****. How is this even a question?

Like I said, women are naive thinking it could be anything else.

[HylianNightmare]

Women are so annoying with shit like this. Like half the dudes you know wouldn't drop whatever they're doing if a female said come over, they're just friends type bullshit

[hateraid]

Women are so annoying with shit like this. Like half the dudes you know wouldn't drop whatever they're doing if a female said come over, they're just friends type bullshit

Exactly. We always think sex before friendship. A random text at midnight? That's why certain ladies can't find the right guy. Even the "friend zone" guy will sacrifice the friendship to bang

[CelticBaller]

A smart man will not allow any ex/fwb near his girlfriend. That's just asking for trouble

[CelticBaller]

Women are so annoying with shit like this. Like half the dudes you know wouldn't drop whatever they're doing if a female said come over, they're just friends type bullshit

Women want to act like they know men better than men sometimes lol

[AlternativeAcc.]

Its a good test because if the bitch texts him back then you cut it off immediately.

[Overdrive]

I agree with everyone about it being a trust issue. The fact his GF told him means there is trust there.

What concerns me is how naive women can be to think this is a random hello message. Both my wife and his GF thought it could just be a random hello. You got to be naive or very stupid to not see that.

Telling him is good, but did he know about the guy beforehand?

Else that's really tough to explain and being open about it is pretty decent, but believing it's just a "hello" and maybe even texting back will cause problems.

Part of the right reaction would have been, "Sorry not interested I got a bf now."

[n00bie]

Well the wife thinks there is a small chance dude just wanted to say hi. I said there's a 100% chance dude is having problems with his girl, is drunk and wants to smash previous p*ssy

Be careful. Your wife doesn't seem to know how guys think. Guys can slide into her DMs and she'll think they're just being friendly.

[bluechox2]

pretty obvious, hes hitting her up to take her to church in the morning

[hateraid]

Telling him is good, but did he know about the guy beforehand?

Else that's really tough to explain and being open about it is pretty decent, but believing it's just a "hello" and maybe even texting back will cause problems.

Part of the right reaction would have been, "Sorry not interested I got a bf now."

She's got to do more than that. Guys with FWB don't leave that easy. They don't care you have a BF. She'll always be the girl who's available. He'll just try again the next drunken lonely session. She's got to block and delete the number.

[hateraid]

Be careful. Your wife doesn't seem to know how guys think. Guys can slide into her DMs and she'll think they're just being friendly.

Lol. I think she's forgetten how to even get guys in her DMs. We've been married 16 years and dating for 7 before that. After 23 years we don't even have a DM :roll:

[SATAN]

Seems like there's some control freaks on this forum. Block and delete the number? What?? She could just mention something about her partner in a non rude or weird way instead of being an asshole?

[hateraid]

Seems like there's some control freaks on this forum. Block and delete the number? What?? She could just mention something about her partner in a non rude or weird way instead of being an asshole?

It's a booty call dude. You want your girlfriend having him around? They don't stop at "I have a boyfriend"