The only difference with Tinder and escort sites is...

[hateraid]

Escorts get paid cash. On tinder women get paid in gratification and attention. Both exploit themselves for a quick fix and hook up.

I'm glad I found my wife way before Tinder culture. The normalization of this culture is shocking

[Stanley Kobrick]

my partner was escorting on myspace 15 years ago, i'm sure your wife also. don't be silly

[hateraid]

my partner was escorting on myspace 15 years ago, i'm sure your wife also. don't be silly

My wife has been my partner since 1996. Sorry bro. We're way before that culture.
And comparing Myspace to Tinder? Might as well say Facebook is Tinder. Again, the normalization is shocking

[Patrick Chewing]

my partner was escorting on myspace 15 years ago, i'm sure your wife also. don't be silly

Did he enjoy escorting?

[hateraid]

Lol, this reminds me of the applause gimmick

[warriorfan]

Did he enjoy escorting?

That seems kinda unusual for him to call his in home caregiver his “partner” but what do I know.

[SouBeachTalents]

The fck do you care what consenting adults do? People enjoy having sex, I've also found it so strange that something we're instinctually driven to want and enjoy is met with backlash and disdain by so many people, some real puritan ish

[Axe]

You're a virgin, lol.
./.

[Axe]

Did he enjoy escorting?
Welcome back :cheers:

[hateraid]

The fck do you care what consenting adults do? People enjoy having sex, I've also found it so strange that something we're instinctually driven to want and enjoy is met with backlash and disdain by so many people, some real puritan ish

Am I wrong? One is paid cash, the other gratification. The process is the same. Both consenting
Its how it's normalized.
If that's part of your normal culture fill your cup. Its part of that casual dating NSA type world. But at the same time women can't complain that all they meet are pigs.

[warriorfan]

What op doesn’t realize is if his wife was born 20 years later she would be hoing out on all of these sites for sure. But now she never got blown up so she is successfully and discretely taking pipe behind his back.

If he was born 20 years later he would have seen the signs and known better.

[MrFonzworth]

You're a virgin, lol.

:roll:

[hateraid]

What op doesn’t realize is if his wife was born 20 years later she would be hoing out on all of these sites for sure. But now she never got blown up so she is successfully and discretely taking pipe behind his back.

If he was born 20 years later he would have seen the signs and known better.

Great perspective! So every girl is a ho by nature. Gee you got it all figured out

[warriorfan]

Great perspective! So every girl is a ho by nature. Gee you got it all figured out

No but now adays their screening is much easier and transparent.

Now you have a deep undercover ho as a wife.

It’s okay though, ignorance is bliss. Just pretend this exchange never happened.

[hateraid]

No but now adays their screening is much easier and transparent.

Now you have a deep undercover ho as a wife.

It’s okay though, ignorance is bliss. Just pretend this exchange never happened.

I can tell you're not married or have any experience with the opposite sex

[warriorfan]

I can tell you're not married or have any experience with the opposite sex

I can tell you are cucked and have bad bacne

[iamgine]

Escorts get paid cash. On tinder women get paid in gratification and attention. Both exploit themselves for a quick fix and hook up.

I'm glad I found my wife way before Tinder culture. The normalization of this culture is shocking

With this logic, your wife is also paid in attention and money.

Try stop paying any attention to her and not give her any money, see how long before she leaves.

[hateraid]

I can tell you are cucked and have bad bacne

Nice triggered response from the virgin

[warriorfan]

Nice triggered response from the virgin

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Good luck bro.

[hateraid]

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Good luck bro.

Thanks virgin

[hateraid]

With this logic, your wife is also paid in attention and money.

Try stop paying any attention to her and not give her any money, see how long before she leaves.

Nope. We built something organically. No quick fix.
Don't get me wrong, people can establish relationships online dating. But let's not kid ourselves thinking Tinder is one of those places. Its hookup first, relationship maybe. But mainly hookup

[iamgine]

Nope. We built something organically. No quick fix.
Don't get me wrong, people can establish relationships online dating. But let's not kid ourselves thinking Tinder is one of those places. Its hookup first, relationship maybe. But mainly hookup

Whether you built it organically or not, she's still paid in attention and money.

[hateraid]

Whether you built it organically or not, she's still paid in attention and money.

Long term commitment is not quick fix gratification. Totally different. You're pretty much validating exactly what I said. Normalizing promiscuity

[Nanners]

The currency on tinder isnt "gratification" or "attention"... if you look like a hobbit, and/or have zero money and/or have zero conversation skills, you probably wont have much luck on tinder regardless of how much attention and gratification you are giving these broads.

What you're actually selling on Tinder is yourself... you are the currency. If you are highly attractive, and/or your photos make it clear that you have loads of money and/or a great sense of humor, you will probably have good luck on tinder regardless of how much attention or gratification you are giving out.

[ZenMaster]

Went on Tinder first time at 30+ in between and in relationship breaks.
It's a bit different here since it's a smaller place with lots of tourists and expats. More people use it to look for relationships or even just friends than in other countries. You can still find for hookups, but there's not much of the raw just come over without having ever met.

It's definitely been an experience and while it's positive to get the sex, I do find it weird that you sort of get sucked into this spiral, where even if you've met someone you think you might like, you're still sort of expected to look for others as well at the same time. If you don't, it'll decrease your future chances if it doesn't work out with the one you actually like.
Also, when dating someone you met on there but haven't had any talk about deleting profiles or whatever, knowing that she has a list of open sex offers right in her pocket all the time is kind of strange as well. I don't mind competition, I'm quite contempt with my looks (though I'd like to shave some pounds from this corona lockdown) and at my age have realized that you can't be attractive to everyone, but it's not optimal overall in terms of trust and commitment.
Met women from quite a few places and have had most luck with Eastern Europeans, maybe it's because they're usually quite firm politically and hate commies, I don't know.

The very top women is almost impossible to get there, I'm confident that in all bigger cities at least, it's more or less the same 100 chads rotating through the 9's and 10's.
I met someone from the UK on there about a year ago who was really wild, she said that in London quite a few guys only motivation is to date and they use Tinder to just go through women in different parts of the city over time, with no intention of ever settling down.

Overall I don't know if I can say the experience has been good or bad, I regret going on there not long after coming out of a relationship and looking back at it I definitely needed more time to settle down.

Current girl I'm dating I met through there, been going for almost 6 months and deleted Tinder about 4 months ago but I don't know about her.

[Overdrive]

I can tell you're not married or have any experience with the opposite sex

He's a crackbaby incel, who hates women because his crackwhore mother sold him to a dealer for some drugs when he was 2 years old.

[Axe]

He's a crackbaby incel, who hates women because his crackwhore mother sold him to a dealer for some drugs when he was 2 years old.
That is very alarming indeed.

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[ArbitraryWater]

tinder chicks being down just for hook-ups is a myth

at least it doesnt apply much here in berlin

most even state in their profil

i see a profile that says something like "up for fun" or "looking for experiences" like once a week

its possible the high end chicks do this, but most of them honestly just have a profile for further praise and validation, never the less actually being first to text after matching

[Patrick Chewing]

Welcome back :cheers:

:cheers:

[highwhey]

tinder chicks being down just for hook-ups is a myth

at least it doesnt apply much here in berlin

most even state in their profil

i see a profile that says something like "up for fun" or "looking for experiences" like once a week

its possible the high end chicks do this, but most of them honestly just have a profile for further praise and validation, never the less actually being first to text after matching
thats a lie lol, they put that disclaimer in their bio "not looking for a one night stand" as a defense mechanism bc they don't want to be viewed as hoes, but most of them absolutely are down for a quick hook up lol. whatever their bio says, just assume the opposite for the most part.

but the validation part is true. they live off of it. shoot, some of them even say "i never message first" as if it's some sort of accomplishment.

[TheMan]

thats a lie lol, they put that disclaimer in their bio "not looking for a one night stand" as a defense mechanism bc they don't want to be viewed as hoes, but most of them absolutely are down for a quick hook up lol. whatever their bio says, just assume the opposite for the most part.

but the validation part is true. they live off of it. shoot, some of them even say "i never message first" as if it's some sort of accomplishment.

AW thinks that just because he never gets any play, no dude on Tinder does...stupid Iraqi virgin snitch.

[ArbitraryWater]

thats a lie lol, they put that disclaimer in their bio "not looking for a one night stand" as a defense mechanism bc they don't want to be viewed as hoes, but most of them absolutely are down for a quick hook up lol. whatever their bio says, just assume the opposite for the most part.

but the validation part is true. they live off of it. shoot, some of them even say "i never message first" as if it's some sort of accomplishment.

:oldlol:

tru

[ItsMillerTime]

thats a lie lol, they put that disclaimer in their bio "not looking for a one night stand" as a defense mechanism bc they don't want to be viewed as hoes, but most of them absolutely are down for a quick hook up lol. whatever their bio says, just assume the opposite for the most part.

but the validation part is true. they live off of it. shoot, some of them even say "i never message first" as if it's some sort of accomplishment.

Word. This dude Tinders.

Almost every chick on Tinder will fvck on the first night if you click well enough

[hateraid]

thats a lie lol, they put that disclaimer in their bio "not looking for a one night stand" as a defense mechanism bc they don't want to be viewed as hoes, but most of them absolutely are down for a quick hook up lol. whatever their bio says, just assume the opposite for the most part.

but the validation part is true. they live off of it. shoot, some of them even say "i never message first" as if it's some sort of accomplishment.

This guy knows

From what I hear from all wifey's single friends on Tinder is the same shit. "All the dudes want is to just have fun"
And this is specifically Tinder. It's where girls who are 5-7s with low self esteem can get gratification. Because they don't have the confidence to meet a guy organically, and let's face it, their nets are just as big as an 8-9.
And the guys eat it up because it's less work. Highwhey, you can correct me if I'm wrong but I'm assuming most dudes on Tinder are in it for the fun and will swipe right to 95% of the profiles. Just any connection will pretty much be acceptable.
Bottom line girls put themselves out there. Boys bite and fill the ladies need of gratification.

[hateraid]

The same guys that frequent Tinder would likely use Leolist if Tinder never existed

[LAmbruh]

I can tell you're not married or have any experience with the opposite sex

He's a crackbaby incel, who hates women because his crackwhore mother sold him to a dealer for some drugs when he was 2 years old.

:oldlol::roll:

[HylianNightmare]

Escorts get paid cash. On tinder women get paid in gratification and attention. Both exploit themselves for a quick fix and hook up.

I'm glad I found my wife way before Tinder culture. The normalization of this culture is shocking


nailed on the normalization is crazy. I can't wrap my mind around the way this we just accept and promote hoeing around. both male and female.

[highwhey]

I can tell you're not married or have any experience with the opposite sex

:oldlol:

[hateraid]

nailed on the normalization is crazy. I can't wrap my mind around the way this we just accept and promote hoeing around. both male and female.

Werd. I find the people who defend it are the women who don't want to come off as hoes and the dudes who don't want to lose that meal ticket of easy sex and have middle to low standards.
It's naive to believe it's a relationship site or pawn it off that way.
I especially love when I hear all my wife's friends say," Why can't I find a good man." Lol

[Manny98]

I'm going to try Tinder soon
Maybe I can finally lose my virginity :pimp:

[ArbitraryWater]

Word. This dude Tinders.

Almost every chick on Tinder will fvck on the first night if you click well enough

Lol, do you think tinder is some kind of hub where only women register that want meaningless sex?

its the largest dating app/platform in the world

thus, as with reality, with women you approach, most are not down for instant hook ups never the less ONS's.

take my current acquaintance:
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met a few times now and hitting it off, and she wasnt there to look for quick fun. and this is someone with racy pics, too...

i actually took a risk on the first text and she was like nahh im not like that.. but i managed to turn the convo

[Norcaliblunt]

The actual sex is way different.

[hateraid]

Lol, do you think tinder is some kind of hub where only women register that want meaningless sex?

its the largest dating app/platform in the world

thus, as with reality, with women you approach, most are not down for instant hook ups never the less ONS's.

take my current acquaintance:
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met a few times now and hitting it off, and she wasnt there to look for quick fun. and this is someone with racy pics, too...

i actually took a risk on the first text and she was like nahh im not like that.. but i managed to turn the convo

So tell me AW, is this situation common or a one off? Ornate.most women like the one I describe?
A girl like that on Tinder is like like finding a person who thinks Kobe is better than Jordan. They're out there. Its just rare.

[macmac]

Hateraid why do you feel like guys are doing it for quick fun but girls are doing it for attention and gratification? Why can’t women just be doing it for quick fun as well? Seems like you have some antiquated views on the opposite gender

[FultzNationRISE]

Hateraid why do you feel like guys are doing it for quick fun but girls are doing it for attention and gratification? Why can’t women just be doing it for quick fun as well? Seems like you have some antiquated views on the opposite gender


First of all: STFU bitch

Second of all: It’s a sliding scale. Women who are less coveted will USUALLY put out quicker. This is well known. Yes any guy can get laid just by opening the app, IF he swipes right on everything he sees and takes any 2-3/10 that’s down. Some guys do that and it’s perfectly fine if its their preference. Some guys prefer quantity, other guys prefer quality. If youre a guy like Miller Time who is ready to wife up a pasty, overweight, blue-hair-with-short-bangs feminazi... you can find it easily.

VERY few people are slamming a new 8+ every week just by using Tinder, unless youre an aesthetic God. And weve seen what most people on ISH look like. Thats no one here.

Arguments about who’s getting what on Tinder usually just come down to what different people settle for. It’s easier to get a 2 than a 9. There are 9s out there and those of us with game get them from time to time. But anyone who acts like theyre swimming in a sea of only the hottest ladies... probably has a habit of embellishing their lives a la highwhey.

[highwhey]

Lol, do you think tinder is some kind of hub where only women register that want meaningless sex?

its the largest dating app/platform in the world

thus, as with reality, with women you approach, most are not down for instant hook ups never the less ONS's.

take my current acquaintance:
https://i.gyazo.com/03196823b2ce17370eea2cddfd774201.png


met a few times now and hitting it off, and she wasnt there to look for quick fun. and this is someone with racy pics, too...

i actually took a risk on the first text and she was like nahh im not like that.. but i managed to turn the convo

keep being her friend, she'll eventually bang, and she's cute from what i can see https://www.thecoli.com/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/troll.png

[LoneyROY7]

It's all the same.

I've had sex with girls that escorted for free by just sending them some of my nude shots and then they were trying to f*ck. Tomato, tomatoe.

[Hakkim90cc]

Oh please just looking at that pic I can see she's DTF...

Maybe she sees you as a simp

[FultzNationRISE]

It's all the same.

I've had sex with girls that escorted for free by just sending them some of my nude shots and then they were trying to f*ck. Tomato, tomatoe.


Uhh, no.

You sent them MY nude shots (women tell me constantly they see cat fishes using the nudes I have in circulation) and they were “trying” to **** only until they realized you werent me.

[LoneyROY7]

Uhh, no.

You sent them MY nude shots (women tell me constantly they see cat fishes using the nudes I have in circulation) and they were “trying” to **** only until they realized you werent me.

Stop trying to overcompenstate, Chris. It's not a good look.

[FultzNationRISE]

stop trying to overcompenstate, chris. It's not a good look.


IM HUNG LIKE a HORSE YOU ****IN ******

[hateraid]

Hateraid why do you feel like guys are doing it for quick fun but girls are doing it for attention and gratification? Why can’t women just be doing it for quick fun as well? Seems like you have some antiquated views on the opposite gender

Did I say it was exclusive for women finding relationships? ONS or relationships, it is instant gratification for women. But at the end of the day it's the women who put themselves out there. It's the men who are swiping at everything hoping that one girl will match.
I find it also amusing that the women think the guy specifically analyzed their profile and showed specific interest when in reality men pretty much will swipe at anything 5 or above