View Full Version : Is it wrong to check out girls stories on IG if you're married/attached?
hateraid
01-12-2021, 01:32 PM
Where does it draw the line? My thoughts are if you go out of your way to check out specific females. Is it not a big deal at all if there is trust involved? Or should it just be avoided altogether?
rawimpact
01-12-2021, 01:34 PM
I don't think there's any harm in it. It's no different than checking out a girl in person... eyes wonder to what they're attracted to. I'd be stupid to assume taken females dont do the same.
The line is where communication is made on those intentions.
hateraid
01-12-2021, 02:24 PM
I don't think there's any harm in it. It's no different than checking out a girl in person... eyes wonder to what they're attracted to. I'd be stupid to assume taken females dont do the same.
The line is where communication is made on those intentions.
I agree on the communication. I also question the intent. Like if a guy goes out of his way, or if the GF/wife has no idea who the person is and the guy is constantly checking her out specially. Not really a good look
I just recently discovered IG prioritizes stories you spend the most time or view the most to the front of your story line. Ask your GF or wife to open her IG. You get an indicator of what/who she spends most times creeping
hold this L
01-12-2021, 02:48 PM
Nothing wrong with that, that's not cheating. If you have no intent to cheat. If going out of your way to see someone's story is considered as such, you may as well call porn the same.
Patrick Chewing
01-12-2021, 03:21 PM
My fiance doesn't approve of me following all those ho's on IG. She considers it cheating she told me.
hateraid
01-12-2021, 03:49 PM
Nothing wrong with that, that's not cheating. If you have no intent to cheat. If going out of your way to see someone's story is considered as such, you may as well call porn the same.
My wife actually thinks watching porn is cheating
DoctorP
01-12-2021, 03:53 PM
Chewing spends more time on insidehoops than with his fiance, the canine.
coin24
01-12-2021, 04:39 PM
Chewing spends more time on insidehoops than with his fiance, the canine.
Do you monitor everyone’s usage while you cycle alts for 24hours a day on here??
Probably wouldn’t point at other people’s partners when you’re a virgin
welfarefan
01-12-2021, 04:55 PM
Do you monitor everyone’s usage while you cycle alts for 24hours a day on here??
Probably wouldn’t point at other people’s partners when you’re a virgin
poo poo pee pee, look who needs their huggies changed
DoctorP
01-12-2021, 05:37 PM
Do you monitor everyone’s usage while you cycle alts for 24hours a day on here??
Probably wouldn’t point at other people’s partners when you’re a virgin
Meltdown
coin24
01-12-2021, 05:59 PM
Meltdown
Loser:oldlol:
DoctorP
01-12-2021, 06:20 PM
Loser:oldlol:
I will shit talk your boyfriend all day, darling
SATAN
01-12-2021, 06:32 PM
I think you know it's not a morally sound thing to do...
hateraid
01-12-2021, 07:01 PM
I think you know it's not a morally sound thing to do...
I agree. All depends on intention and going out of your way. We're all gonna have friends of the opposite sex. That's unavoidable. Seeking out specific profiles is not a good image
Patrick Chewing
01-12-2021, 07:03 PM
Doctor p, satan, mr. Woke, welfarefan = all the same person
SATAN
01-12-2021, 07:18 PM
Wrong.
DoctorP
01-12-2021, 07:35 PM
Doctor p, satan, mr. Woke, welfarefan = all the same person
I have no alts, darling.
Proctor
01-12-2021, 07:45 PM
If you're an adult and use IG, you have bigger problems
Uncle Drew
01-12-2021, 08:29 PM
If you're an adult and use IG, you have bigger problems
This. Any social media platform, really. Proctor, my man.
hold this L
01-12-2021, 08:43 PM
If you're an adult and use IG, you have bigger problems
What's wrong with IG?
Patrick Chewing
01-12-2021, 09:04 PM
I have no life.
Fixed.
ArbitraryWater
01-12-2021, 09:10 PM
yea id find it a bit weird
wouldnt do it
at least id understand it if she wouldnt like it
i mean if married, hell no lol
ArbitraryWater
01-12-2021, 09:11 PM
i do think its weird for a grown man to have instagram
but then again, their lust is what makes marketing possible for all the ig models
they draw all the clicks
DoctorP
01-12-2021, 09:15 PM
i have no dick.
Fixed
coin24
01-12-2021, 09:53 PM
Doctor p, satan, mr. Woke, welfarefan = all the same person
What a sad little f@ggot:oldlol:
hateraid
01-12-2021, 09:54 PM
If you're an adult and use IG, you have bigger problems
Kind of like an adult constantly criticizing people on a messageboard?
iamgine
01-13-2021, 03:20 AM
Wrong is not the right word. I think doing it will definitely impact the relationship. You start comparing your wife with this more attractive girl. It's unavoidable. It's like when you check out social media and automatically compare your successful friends to your life. It's really not a big deal but should be avoided if possible.
Kblaze8855
01-14-2021, 07:07 AM
There is no one line. The line is whatever you two are cool with. Personally....ive only been involved with one woman who would even care what I was looking at...and she only mentioned it once in passing like "Thats annoying". Most wouldnt care about shit like that. Though maybe thats my recent tendency to end up ****ing with women in their early to mid 20s(last few have been 23-26). The one now sends me tik tok videos of women all the time. Just one of those types. I wouldnt give instagram videos any thought far as her watching them. Thats a lot of nothing to me.
Manny98
01-14-2021, 06:16 PM
Would you be ok with your girl checking out male models on Instagram?
hateraid
01-14-2021, 08:07 PM
There is no one line. The line is whatever you two are cool with. Personally....ive only been involved with one woman who would even care what I was looking at...and she only mentioned it once in passing like "Thats annoying". Most wouldnt care about shit like that. Though maybe thats my recent tendency to end up ****ing with women in their early to mid 20s(last few have been 23-26). The one now sends me tik tok videos of women all the time. Just one of those types. I wouldnt give instagram videos any thought far as her watching them. Thats a lot of nothing to me.
Yeah, that's Tinder culture type girls.
But would your wifey be ok with it?
Side hoes and young impressionable Tinderellas don't count.
hateraid
01-14-2021, 08:09 PM
Wrong is not the right word. I think doing it will definitely impact the relationship. You start comparing your wife with this more attractive girl. It's unavoidable. It's like when you check out social media and automatically compare your successful friends to your life. It's really not a big deal but should be avoided if possible.
True. I think it's more just a matter of it being a bad look. Especially going out of your way.
Just in my experience regardless if it's right or wrong, you avoid any social media interaction with the opposite sex if it's not family or work related. Best to avoid conflict all together.
DoctorP
01-14-2021, 08:29 PM
Its not wrong its so so right.
Esp if you both watch together
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