Should your girlfriend/wife have access to your mobile/laptop?

[hateraid]

Should your significant other be able to access your phone or laptop? How much privacy should be submitted between partners?

[I'm Smart]

Wife? Yes.
Girlfriend you see yourself marrying? Probably.
Something less serious? No.

If you marry someone, that's the two of you becoming one, essentially. There shouldn't be secrets at that point. If there are still secrets, then true intimacy does not exist, and you probably should question why you married them in the first place.

If you find yourself wanting to keep things secret from them, I would wager a guess that you're either participating in wicked activities or you're sitting on some unresolved emotional trauma.

[Derka]

I have nothing to hide from my wife on any of my devices. Search histories, browser histories...all of it is incredibly boring.

If I really think about it, probably the worst thing she'd see in my browsing history is the insanity that happens in the Politics forum on this site. She's fairly liberal and she'd probably find what goes on there horrifying.

If she just suddenly asked or demanded to see everything, I'd definitely be curious where the sudden lack of trust is coming from.

[TeflonDonTrump]

RRRetard's mom should have access to his computer with all those suicidal tendencies he has.

[Boris Pen]

If you can't use their phone or computer, they are probably cheating on you.

[Axe]

Depends on how much you trust the lady

[Gohan]

If it is my wife then yes she can have full access to it

[imdaman99]

Yes. Hide your porn in folders that only you would be able to find :lol

I remember that would be the only thing I would try to hide from my exes. If she wanted to read on my boring conversations with females, I would be all good with it. But then she would come up with some shit like OMIGOD I CAN'T BELIEVE YOU DON'T REALIZE SHE IS FLIRTING WITH YOU!!! :facepalm lol dumb ex

[DoctorP]

she will get full access to it and can play with it as much as she wants

[GOBB]

Girlfriend no. Wife yes. This is assuming you are faithful

[iamgine]

I'm assuming the question actually being asked is "Do your gf/wife have the right to snoop around your stuff?"

Answer is, depends. If you snoop around her stuff then it's only fair she has access too. If you don't then it's up to you whether you're comfortable with it or not. There's no "should".

[Street Hunger]

There is no reason to allow this.

No good can come from it because if something ever goes wrong with the laptop the significant other will be blamed