Staying in an establishment after close

[hateraid]

I was waiting for my son who now serves at a restaurant. This night he was taking a lot longer to leave. The reason being 2 patrons decided that finishing 1 beer was gonna take them 45 minutes after the establishment was closed. The manager had tried to tell them that the restaurant but the patron disagreed and started berating the manager.

I find that to be completely bizarre. Who stays at a place after it's closed, especially nearly an hour after? Even if you get a last call before close I just wouldn't bother even going in or staying. Is there some etiquette to this?

[Nanners]

If I was you, I would help my son find a better job...

[hateraid]

If I was you, I would help my son find a better job...

He's 18. It's part time while going to school. Probably the ideal job when going to University

[Nanners]

He's 18. It's part time while going to school. Probably the ideal job when going to University

wouldnt you rather for him to be doing something that lines up with his future career goals? Or does he want to serve other people for a living?

[hateraid]

wouldnt you rather for him to be doing something that lines up with his future career goals? Or does he want to serve other people for a living?

Working 1 or 2 days a week for extra money is gonna hinder his future plans? Lol. If anything he's learning how to balance life and work. Serving is the ideal PT job for students. He's a good student too. I have no problem with it. How do you distinguish a full time student with a part time job serving is a pathway to the service industry?

Funny, this is about entitled patrons and I'm getting told how to raise my kid lol

[Nanners]

Working 1 or 2 days a week for extra money is gonna hinder his future plans? Lol. If anything he's learning how to balance life and work. Serving is the ideal PT job for students. He's a good student too. I have no problem with it. How do you distinguish a full time student with a part time job serving is a pathway to the service industry?

Funny, this is about entitled patrons and I'm getting told how to raise my kid lol

I am not telling you how to do anything, or saying that working this job will hinder him in any way... all I am saying is that serving is a shit job and personally I would rather that my son has a job that fits into his future plans in some way (Personally I also wouldnt want my son to be subjected to needless humiliation on a daily basis, as is the norm in most service jobs).

[hateraid]

I am not telling you how to do anything, or saying that working this job will hinder him in any way... all I am saying is that serving is a shit job and personally I would rather that my son has a job that fits into his future plans in some way (Personally I also wouldnt want my son to be subjected to needless humiliation on a daily basis, as is the norm in most service jobs).

To each is own. Serving is a common job whole going to school. Millions of students doing it. You literally asked does he want to serve people the rest of his life.

Why do you feel the need to discuss this? The subject is not even about serving. Lol.

[Nanners]

To each is own. Serving is a common job whole going to school. Millions of students doing it. You literally asked does he want to serve people the rest of his life.

Why do you feel the need to discuss this? The subject is not even about serving. Lol.

I thought you posted about this topic specifically because you wanted to discuss a few rooms

[Gohan]

To each is own. Serving is a common job whole going to school. Millions of students doing it. You literally asked does he want to serve people the rest of his life.

Why do you feel the need to discuss this? The subject is not even about serving. Lol.


Well imma tell you how to raise your kids. Tell them muphuckas, you there to take them out any time you feel like it. You got to get the ground beneath your feet the wind be hind your back, and go out in a blaze if you got to. Otherwise you might as well be dead your damn self

[hateraid]

I thought you posted about this topic specifically because you wanted to discuss a few rooms

Read the title and OP. You addressed nothing about what the conversation was meant. If anything you derailed it lol

[hateraid]

Well imma tell you how to raise your kids. Tell them muphuckas, you there to take them out any time you feel like it. You got to get the ground beneath your feet the wind be hind your back, and go out in a blaze if you got to. Otherwise you might as well be dead your damn self

Huh? I'm ot getting what you're saying

[hateraid]

The thread is about entitled customers staying after close. Now it's about my personal business. Lol. Only on ISH
I shouldn't have shared my experience and just ask "how long is it appropriate to stay after a business is closed? "

[Nanners]

The thread is about entitled customers staying after close. Now it's about my personal business. Lol. Only on ISH
I shouldn't have shared my experience and just ask "how long is it appropriate to stay after a business is closed? "

You made it about your personal business in the original post brah

Why are you using your sons new restaurant career as an ISH conversation starter anyway?

[Off the Court]

This is why the service industry is one of the few industries that has seen wage growth that is beating inflation. No one wants to serve a population that has such a high percentage of complete a**holes. Especially drunk a**holes. People would rather be broke than do that.

None of us would have a waiter if it weren't for struggling students.

[Nanners]

This is why the service industry is one of the few industries that has seen wage growth that is beating inflation. No one wants to serve a population that has such a high percentage of complete a**holes. Especially drunk a**holes. People would rather be broke than do that.

None of us would have a waiter if it weren't for struggling students.

100% true

[hateraid]

You made it about your personal business in the original post brah

Why are you using your sons new restaurant career as an ISH conversation starter anyway?

I used the personal business as an example. Not the topic. And the topic isn't even about school and side hustles. You chose to.make it about that. Thus derailing the topic.
Now you're being condescending by suggesting my son wants to make a career out of the industry when I clearly said he's a full time student.

This is why some topics are unbearable with you. You reconfigure the whole topic and dictate what the conversation is about. How about I delete the OP and just ask the question so your comments aren't relevant. Sound good?

[hateraid]

This is why the service industry is one of the few industries that has seen wage growth that is beating inflation. No one wants to serve a population that has such a high percentage of complete a**holes. Especially drunk a**holes. People would rather be broke than do that.

None of us would have a waiter if it weren't for struggling students.

Well then isn't it the onus of the shitty patrons?

The world is full of entitled assholes. You pretty much pointed out what I was eluding to.

[hateraid]

The thread is about entitled customers staying after close. Now it's about my personal business. Lol. Only on ISH
I shouldn't have shared my experience and just ask "how long is it appropriate to stay after a business is closed? "

QFT

[Nanners]

I used the personal business as an example. Not the topic. And the topic isn't even about school and side hustles. You chose to.make it about that. Thus derailing the topic.
Now you're being condescending by suggesting my son wants to make a career out of the industry when I clearly said he's a full time student.

This is why some topics are unbearable with you. You reconfigure the whole topic and dictate what the conversation is about. How about I delete the OP and just ask the question so your comments aren't relevant. Sound good?

:oldlol: sorry for triggering you man, that definitely was not my intention...I suppose that I walk into a room I tend to reconfigure the topic and dictate the conversation (especially a room full of Ish posters. For the record non doesnt mean other people are = supposedley there or "unbearable" to me.

[hateraid]

:oldlol: sorry for triggering you man, that definitely was not my intention...but when I walk into a room I tend to reconfigure the topic and dictate the conversation. This doesnt mean other people are = supposedley there "unbearable" to me,

It actually does make it unbearable. Especially when suggesting my son wants to be a server

Me: My son is in University studying to be a doctor. But he's working weekends as a server for extra cash

Nanners: so your so wants a career in the service industry?

Lol you see how it's unbearable?

Any normal human being would just walk away after that.

But in any case back to the topic lol

[Nanners]

It actually does make it unbearable. Especially when suggesting my son wants to be a server

Me: My son is in University studying to be a doctor. But he's working weekends as a server for extra cash

Nanners: so your so wants a career in the service industry?

Lol you see how it's unbearable?

Any normal human being would just walk away after that.

But in any case back to the topic lol

Sorry you feel that way man. Personally I think my original post was 100% on point... and I stand by my original comment - If I was you I absolutely would help my son find a better job... service jobs are the worst

[hateraid]

Sorry you feel that way man. Personally I think my original post was 100% on point... and I stand by my original comment - If I was you I absolutely would help my son find a better job... service jobs are the worst

Sure.
But on thonthe ACTUAL topic, what's an appropriate time to leave an establishment?

[Nanners]

Sure.
But on thonthe ACTUAL topic, what's an appropriate time to leave an establishment?

the appropriate time to leave is always going to be a variable influenced by a bunch of things, but assuming the house is in decent shape I should be just fine

[Off the Court]

Chewing plays as a level 23 Water Nymph in his local D&D game.

I mentioned that in another thread but I don't think anyone saw it.

[hateraid]

Chewing plays as a level 23 Water Nymph in his local D&D game.

I mentioned that in another thread but I don't think anyone saw it.

Lol

[diamenz]

drink beer and kick back after closing? i wouldn't. although it would be different if i were finishing my meal. plus i'd take any dessert to go.

otoh, as the owner/manager i wouldn't approach them about it. i'd just make it super clear that we're ready to go and waiting on you.

[ArbitraryWater]

cant you kick these assholes out?

Havent heard of a case of them just staying

[HylianNightmare]

My first job was at a mom and pop restaurant so I never stay past close

[SATAN]

My son is in University studying to be a doctor. But he's working weekends as a server for extra cash



How does he find so much time to follow you and Axe around ish then?

[hateraid]

How does he find so much time to follow you and Axe around ish then?

Lol. I got to ground him

[PerkinsFor3]

Only on ish you can post something, only to get unsolicited advice on how allowing your kids to work in a restaurant is setting them up for a miserable life.

[Axe]

How does he find so much time to follow you and Axe around ish then?
Lmfao.

[hateraid]

Only on ish you can post something, only to get unsolicited advice on how allowing your kids to work in a restaurant is setting them up for a miserable life.

TBF it's Nanners

[Nanners]

Only on ISH do people melt down when someone suggests that a father helps his college age son find a job better than serving food at a shit restaurant that doesnt respect their employees

my apologies for ever daring to suggest that perhaps your son is worth more than this shit job, maybe this job is perfect for both him and you

[hateraid]

Only on ISH do people melt down when someone suggests that a father helps his college age son find a job better than serving food at a shit restaurant that doesnt respect their employees

my apologies for ever daring to suggest that perhaps your son is worth more than this shit job, maybe this job is perfect for both him and you

Did you not understand what he was addressing? Lol. Nobody melting down. He's just commenting how people misdirect and derail threads. Which you commonly do. I was just pointing it out

[Nanners]

Did you not understand what he was addressing? Lol. Nobody melting down. He's just commenting how people misdirect and derail threads. Which you commonly do. I was just pointing it out

how is what "he" said relevant? who even is the "he" that you are referring to here?

It wasnt obvious that I was talking about your triggered ass? :oldlol:

[highwhey]

Only on ish you can post something, only to get unsolicited advice on how allowing your kids to work in a restaurant is setting them up for a miserable life.

:oldlol:

[hateraid]

how is what "he" said relevant? who even is the "he" that you are referring to here?

It wasnt obvious that I was talking about your triggered ass? :oldlol:

I'm confused as why it went over your head. But sure.

[hateraid]

Only on ish you can post something, only to get unsolicited advice on how allowing your kids to work in a restaurant is setting them up for a miserable life.

Clearly referring to Nanners. Lol. IDK how that wasn't clear

[nightlight]

It actually does make it unbearable. Especially when suggesting my son wants to be a server

Me: My son is in University studying to be a doctor. But he's working weekends as a server for extra cash

Nanners: so your so wants a career in the service industry?

Lol you see how it's unbearable?

Any normal human being would just walk away after that.

But in any case back to the topic lol
Doctor :roll:

Is your son attending your alma mater the Western Pennsylvania School for Haircutting & TV Repair?