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Red Pill Sports
11-29-2022, 10:27 AM
Years ago, I had a short-lived relationship with someone I knew in high school. I thought I knew her pretty well, but she turned out to be very manipulative, psychologically abusive and even violent. Eventually I found out from her sister that she never officially broke off her relationship with another guy, always describing it as "it's complicated." She apparently had this fantasy where two guys would get into fisticuffs over her and was presumably trying to make that happen. I wanted no part of it, broke it off with her, and she responded by slashing my tires and leaving a dead rat on the hood of my car.

That was 9 years ago. 2 years ago when we were going through lockdowns, she called me out of the blue. I guess she had nothing better to do than try to weasel her way back into my life.

She called 4 times; I ignored the first three then answered the fourth in frustration demanding to know what she wanted. She asked "What are you doing tonight?" I said, "Not you. Now leave me the hell alone." Fortunately, she hasn't made any further attempts to contact me.

ArbitraryWater
11-29-2022, 10:49 AM
Thank you for this story regarding an incident from 2 years ago OP.


As for the question, no.


Although I think I could be hearing back from one at some point. I think so cause she blocked me when I stopped dating her, but a couple months later was unblocked (had to check on her insta lol).

The bitch was not relationship material at all. Body count in the triple digits and she's 20, 19 then.

dankok8
11-29-2022, 11:20 AM
Thank you for this story regarding an incident from 2 years ago OP.


As for the question, no.


Although I think I could be hearing back from one at some point. I think so cause she blocked me when I stopped dating her, but a couple months later was unblocked (had to check on her insta lol).

The bitch was not relationship material at all. Body count in the triple digits and she's 20, 19 then.

:biggums:

ArbitraryWater
11-29-2022, 11:36 AM
:biggums:


bruh she's on tinder and goes to clubs and hooks up with strangers on an instant. just goes over to them or goes home with them from the club.

not sure what made her become this way. from what i gathered, her parents seem normal. over protective even. her mom was constantly checking on her when she went out with me. her mom thinks she's a virgin.

but anyway she's a bad person all around. scammed ppl on snapchat with fake nudes n stuff.

dankok8
11-29-2022, 11:58 AM
bruh she's on tinder and goes to clubs and hooks up with strangers on an instant. just goes over to them or goes home with them from the club.

not sure what made her become this way. from what i gathered, her parents seem normal. over protective even. her mom was constantly checking on her when she went out with me. her mom thinks she's a virgin.

but anyway she's a bad person all around. scammed ppl on snapchat with fake nudes n stuff.

She's got some emotional baggage for sure. Good move to stay away from her. I've gotten involved with some emotionally damaged women because they were hot and it's not worth it.

A piece of advice from my experience. When you break up with a girl, cut all contact. My ex of 5 years we were still chatting for like 6 months after she moved out and it was difficult to get over her. When it's done, it's done. Because your mind will rationalize that maybe just maybe there is a way to work things out. I eventually stopped talking to her completely and we are both better for it.

Overdrive
11-29-2022, 12:04 PM
bruh she's on tinder and goes to clubs and hooks up with strangers on an instant. just goes over to them or goes home with them from the club.

not sure what made her become this way. from what i gathered, her parents seem normal. over protective even. her mom was constantly checking on her when she went out with me. her mom thinks she's a virgin.

but anyway she's a bad person all around. scammed ppl on snapchat with fake nudes n stuff.

Being overprotective creates such people.

Overdrive
11-29-2022, 12:09 PM
She's got some emotional baggage for sure. Good move to stay away from her. I've gotten involved with some emotionally damaged women because they were hot and it's not worth it.

A piece of advice from my experience. When you break up with a girl, cut all contact. My ex of 5 years we were still chatting for like 6 months after she moved out and it was difficult to get over her. When it's done, it's done. Because your mind will rationalize that maybe just maybe there is a way to work things out. I eventually stopped talking to her completely and we are both better for it.

I did this. Still got messaged like twice a year. When I blocked her she came to my flat several times and even once showed up at my workplace. I'm glad it died down like 3 years ago. But that kept going for years.

ArbitraryWater
11-29-2022, 12:13 PM
She's got some emotional baggage for sure. Good move to stay away from her. I've gotten involved with some emotionally damaged women because they were hot and it's not worth it.

A piece of advice from my experience. When you break up with a girl, cut all contact. My ex of 5 years we were still chatting for like 6 months after she moved out and it was difficult to get over her. When it's done, it's done. Because your mind will rationalize that maybe just maybe there is a way to work things out. I eventually stopped talking to her completely and we are both better for it.

Lmao my intention. That was the only reason I kept it going when I realized she was quite scummy.

When I didnt know of her scuminess and body count yet, she asked me what I was looking for, and I said a relationship. Of course once she revealed herself, I just wanted to hit. Could have been a good casual thing dammit.

ArbitraryWater
11-29-2022, 12:14 PM
Being overprotective creates such people.

sure it won't help, but being overprotective doesnt make someone **** 2 strangers every week.

i think it was the vast and probably bad relationships she had from early on. probably a couple bad experiences on ONS's.

no idea really.

doesnt quite add up.

only cases i know with such a body count are clear lunatics with traumatic pasts.

Overdrive
11-29-2022, 12:25 PM
sure it won't help, but being overprotective doesnt make someone **** 2 strangers every week.

i think it was the vast and probably bad relationships she had from early on. probably a couple bad experiences on ONS's.

no idea really.

doesnt quite add up.

only cases i know with such a body count are clear lunatics with traumatic pasts.

Ofc I don't know her, but alot of overprotected kids aren't let grown up. Anyone I knew that was ended up ****ing around likebher or taking excessive amounts of drugs. I some cases it later turned out that the overprotective father or some male relative with the knowledge of the father abused the kid.

GimmeThat
11-29-2022, 10:53 PM
if it's watching a 2 hour long movie where the second half just turns into absolutely sh*t. happens all the time.

SATAN
11-30-2022, 04:14 AM
The double standards by AW are pretty funny tbh.

dankok8
11-30-2022, 12:03 PM
The double standards by AW are pretty funny tbh.

No double standard. it's pretty hard to let go of a smoking hot chick even if she's crazy. It trumps the "no casual sex" ideology :lol

BigKobeFan
11-30-2022, 01:43 PM
Lebron23 is no where to be seen in this thread.

Red Pill Sports
11-30-2022, 04:57 PM
Thank you for this story regarding an incident from 2 years ago OP.


As for the question, no.


Although I think I could be hearing back from one at some point. I think so cause she blocked me when I stopped dating her, but a couple months later was unblocked (had to check on her insta lol).

The bitch was not relationship material at all. Body count in the triple digits and she's 20, 19 then.

Sweet Jesus. You definitely dodged a bullet there.

In chatting with my ex's sister on Facebook a few months ago, I learned she has had 3 failed marriages at age 33 and 5 children with those 3 men. She has no job and is living largely on child support from her 3 exes. By all accounts she's a total mess. Knowing how she treated me, I wouldn't be shocked if she's beating her kids.

Red Pill Sports
11-30-2022, 05:03 PM
No double standard. it's pretty hard to let go of a smoking hot chick even if she's crazy. It trumps the "no casual sex" ideology :lol

Well it's gotten pretty easy for me. Whenever I'm tempted I just think about my ex. Kills any amorous mood I may have almost instantly.

Chick Stern
11-30-2022, 06:08 PM
OP should have pumped and dumped.
Only with a Jimmie hat, and throwing some habanero hot sauce in it after you’re done.
So that crazy doesn’t work on kid #4

ArbitraryWater
11-30-2022, 06:22 PM
You guys wouldnt ****ing believe but literally that chick just "hi" 'd me on whatsapp.

Red Pill Sports
11-30-2022, 06:23 PM
OP should have pumped and dumped.
Only with a Jimmie hat, and throwing some habanero hot sauce in it after you’re done.
So that crazy doesn’t work on kid #4

I didn't have any kids with her (thankfully). I bailed before I could knock her up.

ArbitraryWater
11-30-2022, 06:23 PM
Sweet Jesus. You definitely dodged a bullet there.

In chatting with my ex's sister on Facebook a few months ago, I learned she has had 3 failed marriages at age 33 and 5 children with those 3 men. She has no job and is living largely on child support from her 3 exes. By all accounts she's a total mess. Knowing how she treated me, I wouldn't be shocked if she's beating her kids.

How long were you with her?

Red Pill Sports
11-30-2022, 06:32 PM
How long were you with her?

Officially, we were only together for a few months although we had known each other for years and kept in touch through Facebook. But in those few months she showcased a lot of shit that I never saw when we were in high school. Either she hid it very well or I was just too clueless at the time.

ArbitraryWater
11-30-2022, 07:58 PM
You guys wouldnt ****ing believe but literally that chick just "hi" 'd me on whatsapp.

this is actually nuts lol.

We broke off contact 23 days shy of 5 months. 1 day after this thread she contacts me. Lolol

GimmeThat
12-01-2022, 08:04 AM
lets just say the news was broad casting how a lost dog returned to its owner, and people managed to take it the wrong way

Gohan
12-08-2022, 02:01 AM
My ex keeps lying on me telling everyone im her man and keeps acting like we are having sex. I wouldnt touch that ho

Lebron23
12-08-2022, 03:21 AM
My ex keeps lying on me telling everyone im her man and keeps acting like we are having sex. I wouldnt touch that ho

The only ex that you have is your pillow

ArbitraryWater
12-08-2022, 08:52 AM
The only ex that you have is your pillow



:lebronamazed:

Lakers Legend#32
12-09-2022, 12:46 AM
Ask Poopsie if he has tried to win his ex-wife back?

warriorfan
12-09-2022, 03:28 AM
of course but never do it. there was a reason why you broke up the first time.

Gohan
12-09-2022, 05:25 AM
:lebronamazed:

Chill bro i look better than you guaranteed

Gohan
12-09-2022, 05:26 AM
The only ex that you have is your pillow

Lmao why are you breathing you cant get any girls you ugly af

ArbitraryWater
12-09-2022, 11:27 AM
Chill bro i look better than you guaranteed

according to you you could do all things.

fck a different woman every day, look amazing, be president, get out an album, its easy living in delusion.

you dont actually do or be any of these things.

Gohan
12-09-2022, 12:34 PM
according to you you could do all things.

fck a different woman every day, look amazing, be president, get out an album, its easy living in delusion.

you dont actually do or be any of these things.

Dont go tell on me now buddy. Plus youre gonna be pissed this coming january. I’ll give you the president one though thats faar fetched but ill give you a clue. “ ****** is under me they b1tches come to me they heard the stories now n1ggas want to really see, bomb first my motto its FULLY GUARANTEED, n1ggas is playa haters labeled all my enemies”

Thats gonna happen this coming january be in anticipation for it

Gohan
12-09-2022, 12:36 PM
No need for me to talk sh1t there is levels to this sh1t. No need to say im delusional give it till january 20. It should all unfold by then

ArbitraryWater
12-09-2022, 01:27 PM
oookay buddy


those lyrics sound real christian too

TheMan
12-10-2022, 05:06 PM
Years ago, I had a short-lived relationship with someone I knew in high school. I thought I knew her pretty well, but she turned out to be very manipulative, psychologically abusive and even violent. Eventually I found out from her sister that she never officially broke off her relationship with another guy, always describing it as "it's complicated." She apparently had this fantasy where two guys would get into fisticuffs over her and was presumably trying to make that happen. I wanted no part of it, broke it off with her, and she responded by slashing my tires and leaving a dead rat on the hood of my car.

That was 9 years ago. 2 years ago when we were going through lockdowns, she called me out of the blue. I guess she had nothing better to do than try to weasel her way back into my life.

She called 4 times; I ignored the first three then answered the fourth in frustration demanding to know what she wanted. She asked "What are you doing tonight?" I said, "Not you. Now leave me the hell alone." Fortunately, she hasn't made any further attempts to contact me.

:lol

Well played, sir.

TheMan
12-10-2022, 05:14 PM
Years ago, I had a short-lived relationship with someone I knew in high school. I thought I knew her pretty well, but she turned out to be very manipulative, psychologically abusive and even violent. Eventually I found out from her sister that she never officially broke off her relationship with another guy, always describing it as "it's complicated." She apparently had this fantasy where two guys would get into fisticuffs over her and was presumably trying to make that happen. I wanted no part of it, broke it off with her, and she responded by slashing my tires and leaving a dead rat on the hood of my car.

That was 9 years ago. 2 years ago when we were going through lockdowns, she called me out of the blue. I guess she had nothing better to do than try to weasel her way back into my life.

She called 4 times; I ignored the first three then answered the fourth in frustration demanding to know what she wanted. She asked "What are you doing tonight?" I said, "Not you. Now leave me the hell alone." Fortunately, she hasn't made any further attempts to contact me.

How do you even get to triple digits at 20? She does porn?

My body count is in the upper 20s, and that ain't changing anytime soon as a married man :lol I can't even fathom 100 different chicks, I'm exhausted just thinking about it...

ArbitraryWater
12-10-2022, 05:47 PM
How do you even get to triple digits at 20? She does porn?

My body count is in the upper 20s, and that ain't changing anytime soon as a married man :lol I can't even fathom 100 different chicks, I'm exhausted just thinking about it...

Was that supposed to quote me?

Axe
12-11-2022, 01:46 AM
Op still banned. :oldlol: