How do y'all (Americans) feel about your city/state/country?

[ArbitraryWater]

My friend was just in Texas over a month and traveled around a bit. It was obv a great experience but he felt it lacked so hard compared to Europe.


He felt the lack of history and culture everywhere.


Said its nice and all, they have cool attractions, but it just feels like a big ass empty place where they put buildings and people to fill it.


And I saw this appropriate meme:


https://i.gyazo.com/0db532d65eddf48f27663c3d803c84fa.png


How do you feel about your home?

[Meticode]

I lived in the ghetto in Cincinnati until I was 19. It was tough and while I do miss somethings about the city (Reds games, Bengals games, Cincinnati Zoo, the riverfront, New Port Aquarium, La Rosa's Pizza, etc), but overall I don't miss home. I left that place over twenty years ago and only went back a couple times to see family.

I guess after I moved in 2004 the city had a renewal project and cleaned up a lot of the condemned buildings in the ghetto areas. Police/race relations still aren't good, but they aren't as bad when I lived in Cincy in the 80s/90s.

[Axe]

Nothing special since they chose to demolish a lot of old or ancient buildings that did add a very charming atmosphere bt.

That's unlike in europe where many of them are preserved and retained. That's why people around other parts of the world still flock there because they love seeing those in cities, towns and villages. Apart from history and culture. They're exotic too.

[SouBeachTalents]

I was born and raised in New York, went to college in Boston and lived there for 4 years, but I had lived in New York my entire life outside of that. NYC was obv always expensive, but after covid the cost of living increased so exponentially, I came to the conclusion it just wasn't worth what you had to pay to live there anymore. So I moved to Chicago about 8 months ago, my experience so far.

Pros
1. It's a major city with a lot to do, has a good night life, 5 sports teams to see, lots of beaches to go to
2. It actually has reasonable rent for a major city. Compared to NYC, Boston, the cities in Cali, the rent here is significantly cheaper
3. While it's certainly not on NYC's level, there's actually a reliable public transit system you can use here so you don't have to literally drive everywhere
4. It's remarkably clean for a big city, you almost never see any homeless
5. Aesthetically it's very nice, I like the architecture of the older buildings and Lake Michigan is beautiful

Cons
1. The winters can be pretty brutal, it gets very cold here. Fortunately since I work remote, I can minimalize my exposure to the elements
2. Outside of Chicago there's genuinely nowhere to go that's worth visiting in the area for a weekend getaway, the Midwest is honestly a big nothing lol, so any trips I would take I'd have to fly

My last comment on Chicago, the cities crime rep is honestly very undeserved. I've never felt unsafe while being here, and the vast majority of the crime that does take place is in a concentrated area in the south side of the city.

As for the US, my two biggest beefs with the country would be

1. The public transit system here is a fvcking travesty. There's maybe 7 cities in the entire country you can realistically live in without a car, and outside of NYC they'd be a joke compared to most of Europe's. This means you're forced to literally drive everywhere here, so not only are you forced to incur all the expenses of a car including gasoline/repairs/insurance, it's not good environmentally, and you're going to run into bad traffic in virtually every major city.

2. I feel like Europe has far more nicer and interesting/unique cities than the US does. The majority of cities here are pretty bland and repetitive without much worth seeing, and they're poorly designed with lots of urban sprawl. Europe it feels like each city has it's own unique charms and attractions, while imo there's roughly 15 cities worth living in/actually traveling to here. This isn't to say there aren't other places or attractions worth visiting here, I'm talking strictly cities.

[GOBB]

I lived in the ghetto in Cincinnati until I was 19. It was tough and while I do miss somethings about the city (Reds games, Bengals games, Cincinnati Zoo, the riverfront, New Port Aquarium, La Rosa's Pizza, etc), but overall I don't miss home. I left that place over twenty years ago and only went back a couple times to see family.

I guess after I moved in 2004 the city had a renewal project and cleaned up a lot of the condemned buildings in the ghetto areas. Police/race relations still aren't good, but they aren't as bad when I lived in Cincy in the 80s/90s.

It’s called gentrification. Join the club - major cities

[GOBB]

I was born and raised in New York, went to college in Boston and lived there for 4 years, but I had lived in New York my entire life outside of that. NYC was obv always expensive, but after covid the cost of living increased so exponentially, I came to the conclusion it just wasn't worth what you had to pay to live there anymore. So I moved to Chicago about 8 months ago, my experience so far.

Pros
1. It's a major city with a lot to do, has a good night life, 5 sports teams to see, lots of beaches to go to
2. It actually has reasonable rent for a major city. Compared to NYC, Boston, the cities in Cali, the rent here is significantly cheaper
3. While it's certainly not on NYC's level, there's actually a reliable public transit system you can use here so you don't have to literally drive everywhere
4. It's remarkably clean for a big city, you almost never see any homeless
5. Aesthetically it's very nice, I like the architecture of the older buildings and Lake Michigan is beautiful

Cons
1. The winters can be pretty brutal, it gets very cold here. Fortunately since I work remote, I can minimalize my exposure to the elements
2. Outside of Chicago there's genuinely nowhere to go that's worth visiting in the area for a weekend getaway, the Midwest is honestly a big nothing lol, so any trips I would take I'd have to fly

My last comment on Chicago, the cities crime rep is honestly very undeserved. I've never felt unsafe while being here, and the vast majority of the crime that does take place is in a concentrated area in the south side of the city.

As for the US, my two biggest beefs with the country would be

1. The public transit system here is a fvcking travesty. There's maybe 7 cities in the entire country you can realistically live in without a car, and outside of NYC they'd be a joke compared to most of Europe's. This means you're forced to literally drive everywhere here, so not only are you forced to incur all the expenses of a car including gasoline/repairs/insurance, it's not good environmentally, and you're going to run into bad traffic in virtually every major city.

2. I feel like Europe has far more nicer and interesting/unique cities than the US does. The majority of cities here are pretty bland and repetitive without much worth seeing, and they're poorly designed with lots of urban sprawl. Europe it feels like each city has it's own unique charms and attractions, while imo there's roughly 15 cities worth living in/actually traveling to here. This isn't to say there aren't other places or attractions worth visiting here, I'm talking strictly cities.

Moving from the north east cold to Chicago cold is diabolical. I couldn’t do it and I’ve experienced north east cold most of my life. Weather would play a huge factor in relocation. The north east weather is for the birds. Is transportation there expensive? I don’t catch public transportation. But it’s expensive. Like $2.50. I guess the perks of work from home can counter cold/public transportation. I also think crime is exaggerated by the media. Not sure why. Like you said there’s specific areas where it’s high but overall not that crazy as it’s made out to be.

[rawimpact]

Do you know how much I think about my towns history on any given day?

While I think history is great, there are numerous things more important as far as impact on QOL goes.

[warriorfan]

America doesn’t have as much history of course because it’s relatively new compared to Europe.

West coast even more. Outside a few select spots almost all construction is relatively modern and cheaply done.

[fsvr54]

Love South Florida and Miami. It's a beautiful, lush tropical area with the most beautiful women in the world. Downsides are HUGE though. The cost of living has become insane and the traffic is crazy. Also, it's a low IQ and ghetto city in many ways.

[jstern]

Nothing special since they chose to demolish a lot of old or ancient buildings that did add a very charming atmosphere bt.

That's unlike in europe where many of them are preserved and retained. That's why people around other parts of the world still flock there because they love seeing those in cities, towns and villages. Apart from history and culture. They're exotic too.

Fukuoka?

[ArbitraryWater]

Interesting posts, would love more insights like SouBeachs account.

[Full Court]

Nothing special since they chose to demolish a lot of old or ancient buildings that did add a very charming atmosphere bt.

That's unlike in europe where many of them are preserved and retained. That's why people around other parts of the world still flock there because they love seeing those in cities, towns and villages. Apart from history and culture. They're exotic too.

They have to demolish buildings if Axe spends significant time in them. They can't get the stink out.

[Axe]

Love South Florida and Miami. It's a beautiful, lush tropical area with the most beautiful women in the world. Downsides are HUGE though. The cost of living has become insane and the traffic is crazy. Also, it's a low IQ and ghetto city in many ways. (https://i.ibb.co/hX34jLs/IMG-20221001-103220.jpg)
On the flipside, you seem to despise orlando. Why is that again?

[Bill Gates]

The beauty of Europe absolutely demolishes the US. It's not even close.

But the US has a much higher standard of living than Europe. The only standard where Europe wins is Healthcare, and granted that is a huge one. But the average American has a bigger home, more cars, closets, washer and dryer, etc. Which in much of Europe is a luxury.

[diamenz]

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=41jCCyT5wuA

[Full Court]

They have to demolish buildings if Axe spends significant time in them. They can't get the stink out.


On the flipside, you seem to despise orlando. Why is that again?

^This is exactly the kind of stinkiness I was talking about.

Dumb AND stinky. :lol

[ArbitraryWater]

^This is exactly the kind of stinkiness I was talking about.

Dumb AND stinky. :lol

If I would see you, I would literally try to brutally harm you. Not even joking. Get the **** out of this thread you pile of shit worthless human loser.

[Axe]

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=mV6ZENGko1I (https://i.ibb.co/qFwzgHS/IMG-20221027-192759.jpg)

[ILLsmak]

I used to dis texas until I lived there. Didn’t travel around too much, but I saw what seemed like every Bucees haha.

Still the best place I lived. There is not as much culture per se because American culture is now. Europe has amazing stuff, but we have some amazing natural wonders as well as stuff from native americans. I assume a lot of american landmarks are shit on by non americans, but it’s like texas: you have to be living there to understand. It’s not a sight you see that you get online and read about (tho you can,) but more something that expresses our reality. And people hate American culture despite being influenced, so…

-Smak

[fsvr54]

On the flipside, you seem to despise orlando. Why is that again?

Low-brow theme park garbage. Endless strip malls...

[fsvr54]

The beauty of Europe absolutely demolishes the US. It's not even close.

But the US has a much higher standard of living than Europe. The only standard where Europe wins is Healthcare, and granted that is a huge one. But the average American has a bigger home, more cars, closets, washer and dryer, etc. Which in much of Europe is a luxury.

Architecturally? Sure. Nature? USA competes with most countries, we have it all.

[fsvr54]

Unrelated, but it makes me sad Latin America is not more developed. Absolutely beautiful part of the world with great people and the sexiest women. I was born in Venezuela and from my last trip back (2001), I still remember how stunning the tropical valleys were.

[TheMan]

The beauty of Europe absolutely demolishes the US. It's not even close.

But the US has a much higher standard of living than Europe. The only standard where Europe wins is Healthcare, and granted that is a huge one. But the average American has a bigger home, more cars, closets, washer and dryer, etc. Which in much of Europe is a luxury.

But overall, Europeans are much more happier polls researching on that subject show...go figure.

[TheMan]

I used to dis texas until I lived there. Didn’t travel around too much, but I saw what seemed like every Bucees haha.

Still the best place I lived. There is not as much culture per se because American culture is now. Europe has amazing stuff, but we have some amazing natural wonders as well as stuff from native americans. I assume a lot of american landmarks are shit on by non americans, but it’s like texas: you have to be living there to understand. It’s not a sight you see that you get online and read about (tho you can,) but more something that expresses our reality. And people hate American culture despite being influenced, so…

-Smak

Not impressed by Texas. Too many redneck shit kickers for my taste...and summers are brutal. Country music blaring out, big trucks and they sure do love their guns. Dallas, Houston, San Antonio and Austin have some nice places but meh...I do love Chicago but that's where I'm from so obviously I'm biased.

[Full Court]

If I would see you, I would literally try to brutally harm you. Not even joking. Get the **** out of this thread you pile of shit worthless human loser.

You sound like a triggered little bitch.



I bet you're a Bronie fluffer, aren't you... :lol

[MrFonzworth]

If I would see you, I would literally try to brutally harm you. Not even joking. Get the **** out of this thread you pile of shit worthless human loser.

You got bullied by a 5'8 Turkish dude in school.

[ArbitraryWater]

You got bullied by a 5'8 Turkish dude in school.



:biggums:

[Baller234]

Europe doesn't guarantee free speech like the U.S. does and is overwhelmed with radical muslim extremists.

[ArbitraryWater]

I get all dreamy and envious when I see America's mountain-y regions...the mountain-y, rock-y regions.

Basically the Rocky Mountains West I guess?

I feel like I would love Denver.

Thats the life.

Does Dallas and Phoenix have similar regions to that?

Kansas, Nebraska, Sioux Falls, Fargo, dont look too bad either. I guess theyre different though.

[Meticode]

I get all dreamy and envious when I see America's mountain-y regions...the mountain-y, rock-y regions.

Basically the Rocky Mountains West I guess?

I feel like I would love Denver.

Thats the life.

Does Dallas and Phoenix have similar regions to that?

Kansas, Nebraska, Sioux Falls, Fargo, dont look too bad either. I guess theyre different though.

Mostly the Rockies, but the Appalachian Mountains in the east have their perks too.

Phoenix is in the middle of a desert basically and everyone runs air conditioning there. Gets over 38 degrees C there during the summer a lot and as early as May. They do have hilly terrain, but the Rockies are more north and E of the city, Dallas not so much, but it gets hot there too, but they get more rain.

[ArbitraryWater]

Mostly the Rockies, but the Appalachian Mountains in the east have their perks too.

Phoenix is in the middle of a desert basically and everyone runs air conditioning there. Gets over 38 degrees C there during the summer a lot and as early as May. They do have hilly terrain, but the Rockies are more north and E of the city, Dallas not so much, but it gets hot there too, but they get more rain.


Thanks man.

[highwhey]

My friend was just in Texas over a month and traveled around a bit. It was obv a great experience but he felt it lacked so hard compared to Europe.


He felt the lack of history and culture everywhere.


Said its nice and all, they have cool attractions, but it just feels like a big ass empty place where they put buildings and people to fill it.


And I saw this appropriate meme:


https://i.gyazo.com/0db532d65eddf48f27663c3d803c84fa.png


How do you feel about your home?

thats bc your friend didn't talk to the locals. sure, the history does not span back to the roman empire, but it has plenty of history that anchored the country's sovereignty and territory. there's a reason people still wear cowboy hats. the oil production in texas is a story in of itself. food, music, etc.

[highwhey]

arizona is not too disimilar to texas i suppose, the wild west was a very interesting period of time and a lot of is still felt and seen in some areas of the state. it shaped the way law enforcement, local politics, business, etc is all done to this day.

ya'll need to get out more and ask questions. i love talking to old heads about the history of my state. indians/natives have their own stories too. do you know how difficult it was to go out west and settle in the middle of fcking nowhere just to seek a better life for your family? extremely fcking difficult. but there's a difference in societial/cultural mindset between americans and euros. you guys tend to be more comfortable since your people have been established for a long time. we built an entire country in 200 years or so. arizona didn't officially become a state until 1912...that's just slightly over a 100 years, of course people lived here well before that but it's still a fairly new state that now has 7 million people residing in it.

and i must say i love living here despite the heat. it's absolutely beautiful.

https://content.r9cdn.net/rimg/dimg/e3/d3/f483c5bb-city-28528-1732d498bb6.jpg?width=1366&height=768&xhint=2639&yhint=1872&crop=true

[tpols]

arizona is not too disimilar to texas i suppose, the wild west was a very interesting period of time and a lot of is still felt and seen in some areas of the state. it shaped the way law enforcement, local politics, business, etc is all done to this day.

ya'll need to get out more and ask questions. i love talking to old heads about the history of my state. indians/natives have their own stories too. do you know how difficult it was to go out west and settle in the middle of fcking nowhere just to seek a better life for your family? extremely fcking difficult. but there's a difference in societial/cultural mindset between americans and euros. you guys tend to be more comfortable since your people have been established for a long time. we built an entire country in 200 years or so. arizona didn't officially become a state until 1912...that's just slightly over a 100 years, of course people lived here well before that but it's still a fairly new state that now has 7 million people residing in it.

and i must say i love living here despite the heat. it's absolutely beautiful.

https://content.r9cdn.net/rimg/dimg/e3/d3/f483c5bb-city-28528-1732d498bb6.jpg?width=1366&height=768&xhint=2639&yhint=1872&crop=true

Have you ever seen a skin walker or alien activity?

[ArbitraryWater]

thats bc your friend didn't talk to the locals. sure, the history does not span back to the roman empire, but it has plenty of history that anchored the country's sovereignty and territory. there's a reason people still wear cowboy hats. the oil production in texas is a story in of itself. food, music, etc.

He def spoke to locals. Even made friends and stayed at someones home. Performed at some open mics. Had a girl. Drove around, all that.

[highwhey]

Have you ever seen a skin walker or alien activity?

i personally have not, but the native indians have a lot of stories about that sort of stuff especially on the rez. i will say that being out in the middle of the desert at night can make you shit your pants.

[jstern]

Every time I start reading the title of this thread, I'm expecting it to say, "How do y'all feel about existence?" Every single time.

[ArbitraryWater]

I get all dreamy and envious when I see America's mountain-y regions...the mountain-y, rock-y regions.

Basically the Rocky Mountains West I guess?

I feel like I would love Denver.

Kansas, Nebraska, Sioux Falls, Fargo, dont look too bad either. I guess theyre different though.

How would you guys rank these places and the Rocky Mountain states

[highwhey]

How would you guys rank these places and the Rocky Mountain states

those are very different places and some remote/nothing to do. have you lived in small cities" before?

[ArbitraryWater]

those are very different places and some remote/nothing to do. have you lived in small cities" before?

No but I just want calm and quiet in the middle of nowhere man :lol long roads with snow in the winter, and nostalgic diners and motels.

[highwhey]

No but I just want calm and quiet in the middle of nowhere man :lol long roads with snow in the winter, and nostalgic diners and motels.

i mean, denver or even better yet, utah you will get the scenery you're after, but you gotta be ok with being isolated from large cities or being a distance from them. i mean i get you, i wish i could live further away from the city and am considering even selling my house in phoenix to do so. but fck, having to drive to the city when you need something from a big box store like costco or home depot or an auto parts store would suck. i guess you can order things off amazon these days but there's a certain convivence factor you lose when you live in more remote areas.

[ArbitraryWater]

i mean, denver or even better yet, utah you will get the scenery you're after, but you gotta be ok with being isolated from large cities or being a distance from them. i mean i get you, i wish i could live further away from the city and am considering even selling my house in phoenix to do so. but fck, having to drive to the city when you need something from a big box store like costco or home depot or an auto parts store would suck. i guess you can order things off amazon these days but there's a certain convivence factor you lose when you live in more remote areas.

Interesting, thx.

Yea I might be underestimating the utter distance here.

My friend just told me more about his texas stay, he did a road trip after 1 month to see some national parks and it took him 2 days to get to one and he felt utterly lonely on the road lmao. There was nothing there.

But I kinda like that if a town isnt too far and I have a woman.

[Norcaliblunt]

California could have the most dystopian government or whatever but it still is the most beautiful state in America.

I’ll take my Cali weather, ancient indigenous history, and chronic weed over any European crap.

I mean my ancestors literally traveled across Europe, across the Atlantic Ocean, and across America to settle here.

California love for life.

North south east and west

[fsvr54]

Most beautiful state, my ass. Dry as ****.

Florida baby, tropics.

[highwhey]

Most beautiful state, my ass. Dry as ****.

Florida baby, tropics.

ummm. he kind of has a case.

idk what's dry about this:

https://californiathroughmylens.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/05/general-sherman-7.jpg

https://www.nps.gov/yose/planyourvisit/images/20170618_155330.jpg

florida doesn't even compare to cali when it comes to scenery, things to do, women, entertainment....do i even need to continue?

[Norcaliblunt]

Most beautiful state, my ass. Dry as ****.

Florida baby, tropics.

Lmao. Dude every mofo outside of Floridia literally says your state is too humid. But you know what I say? That’s low hanging fruit and Florida has very nice beaches and warm blue water.

California has every eco system, don’t be a cliche idiot homie.

[Chick Stern]

On the flipside, you seem to despise orlando. Why is that again?

Because Swamplando is an armpit.

[warriorfan]

Because Swamplando is an armpit.

You live in your moms basement

[ShawkFactory]

Most beautiful state, my ass. Dry as ****.

Florida baby, tropics.

The California coast in particular rivals any scenery in the world. There are parts where it's basically the Cliffs of Moher but without the love.

[ArbitraryWater]

I saw some posts on Insta where it was California and I was so surprised.

Beautiful grassy hills and long fields..

snow covered forrest terrains..

couldnt believe all of that was California.

Amazing stuff for sure.

[Meticode]

I saw some posts on Insta where it was California and I was so surprised.

Beautiful grassy hills and long fields..

snow covered forrest terrains..

couldnt believe all of that was California.

Amazing stuff for sure.

Yep, they deal with all climates there depending on what part of the state and elevation.

[Full Court]

They have to demolish buildings if Axe spends significant time in them. They can't get the stink out.

This.

:lol

[Axe]

If I would see you, I would literally try to brutally harm you. Not even joking. Get the **** out of this thread you pile of shit worthless human loser.
:oldlol: (https://i.ibb.co/SxWM8PC/IMG-20230805-073843.jpg)

[highwhey]

If I would see you, I would literally try to brutally harm you. Not even joking. Get the **** out of this thread you pile of shit worthless human loser.

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