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Patrick Chewing
08-04-2025, 08:22 PM
Anonymous poll so feel free to share. As I get older, I'm starting to feel single by choice cause these women out here are nuts. But I primarily have been single due to always finding the wrong one. Women who want to talk about politics and race as soon as we start dating (I primarily date Black women), and it immediately goes South.

diamenz
08-04-2025, 08:25 PM
I primarily date Black women

ugh that's terrible. i'm sorry you had to go through that.

Patrick Chewing
08-04-2025, 08:35 PM
ugh that's terrible. i'm sorry you had to go through that.

Well, I'm not racist or antisemitic like most of ISH.

Lakers Legend#32
08-04-2025, 08:46 PM
Why did you get divorced?

highwhey
08-04-2025, 08:53 PM
As I get older, I'm starting to feel single by choice cause these women out here are nuts. But I primarily have been single due to always finding the wrong one. I primarily date Black women), and it immediately goes South.

https://i.postimg.cc/6311RDGN/patrickchewing.jpg

diamenz
08-04-2025, 08:55 PM
Well, I'm not racist or antisemitic like most of ISH.

we'll get you there chewing. in time.

Lakers Legend#32
08-04-2025, 09:14 PM
Anonymous poll so feel free to share. As I get older, I'm starting to feel single by choice cause these women out here are nuts. But I primarily have been single due to always finding the wrong one. Women who want to talk about politics and race as soon as we start dating (I primarily date Black women), and it immediately goes South.

This is what people say when they know they are never going to get any.

Poopsie is just a few months away from saying, "it's official I'm gay."

1987_Lakers
08-05-2025, 01:32 AM
Sort of a mixture of both. I like being single, get to hookup with as many women as I want without hurting anyone, wouldn't mind settling down, but just haven't found the one I see myself being with forever, have had women who fell in love with me, I've cared for them and liked them as humans, but none of them I saw as a perfect match.

SouBeachTalents
08-05-2025, 01:58 AM
I was legitimately not single for a very long time, I dated 2 girls b2b for about a year-year and a half each, then after that I was in a relationship for 8 years. After that one ended, I was single for the last 3 years, and I just started dating someone again about 6 weeks ago.

When I was single my mindset was if I met the right girl, I'd be open to being in a relationship, but in the meantime, I'm just going to enjoy being single and do whatever the fvck I want.

People are so terrified of being alone, but I'd much rather be alone than be with someone who's not the right one for me. That to me is so much worse than being single.

Lakers Legend#32
08-05-2025, 02:20 AM
Well, I'm not racist or antisemitic like most of ISH.

But now we know you are just another dumb fat Southerner and all that dating black women crap was all BS.

TheMan
08-05-2025, 03:37 AM
Sort of a mixture of both. I like being single, get to hookup with as many women as I want without hurting anyone, wouldn't mind settling down, but just haven't found the one I see myself being with forever, have had women who fell in love with me, I've cared for them and liked them as humans, but none of them I saw as a perfect match.

The older you get, the tougher it will be for you to settle down. At least that's what my dad used to say to me in my late 20s when I was single...met my future wife at 30 and got married a year and a half later. By the way, if you're looking for the perfect match, ain't happening, gotta hitch up with the one that checks the most boxes...marriage is a give and take, unfortunately most chicks now want to take more than they give, explains why marriage is basically a toss up and divorce is initiated almost 80% by women, feminism has destroyed the nuclear family, and most young dudes nowadays don't want any part of it, marriage is down and so are birth rates, chicks complaining on social media why men no longer approach them anymore. They picked the bear, have fun with it lol

Lebron23
08-05-2025, 10:01 AM
I am currently dating a 22 years old. She is going to graduate from college in 2026. I told her that I have an 18 years old daughter from my ex gf.

fsvr54
08-05-2025, 11:48 AM
I'm traveling the world right now, so by choice. I'm homeless until I find a spot I can live and work it. Maybe some chick will make me stay somewhere.

Off the Court
08-05-2025, 06:07 PM
A MAGA cultist who only dates black women :roll:

That's like an SNL skit. "Ah shucks, another one turned off by my Nazi salutes :("

jstern
08-05-2025, 07:02 PM
A MAGA cultist who only dates black women :roll:

That's like an SNL skit. "Ah shucks, another one turned off by my Nazi salutes :("

You have a low IQ, very black and white thinking. So in your simplistic mind it's a fact that MAGA equals racists, because that's what The View told you.

Patrick Chewing
08-05-2025, 08:10 PM
A MAGA cultist who only dates black women :roll:

That's like an SNL skit. "Ah shucks, another one turned off by my Nazi salutes :("

Have you left the house in the last 8-9 years since Trump came down that escalator? You do realize that the racist or the person that judges based on race is you, right? Liberal f*ggot.

Lakers Legend#32
08-06-2025, 01:04 AM
Anonymous poll so feel free to share. As I get older, I'm starting to feel single by choice cause these women out here are nuts. But I primarily have been single due to always finding the wrong one. Women who want to talk about politics and race as soon as we start dating (I primarily date Black women), and it immediately goes South.

Translation: I'm and old, fat, MAGA, incel.

Off the Court
08-06-2025, 11:34 AM
You have a low IQ, very black and white thinking. So in your simplistic mind it's a fact that MAGA equals racists, because that's what The View told you.

Is that why you've never had a girlfriend? Because The View told all the girls that hardcore Trump supporters like you are racist? Which is obviously a lie even though you are in other threads desperately trying to prove that blacks are inferior.

Doomsday Dallas
08-07-2025, 09:10 AM
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SsC48Xj54Cs

Lakers Legend#32
08-07-2025, 02:30 PM
Give it up Poopsie.

No one believes you only date black women.

It's just a distraction from your own racism, you Southern cracker.

Doomsday Dallas
08-09-2025, 12:47 PM
The older you get, the tougher it will be for you to settle down. At least that's what my dad used to say to me in my late 20s when I was single...met my future wife at 30 and got married a year and a half later. By the way, if you're looking for the perfect match, ain't happening, gotta hitch up with the one that checks the most boxes...marriage is a give and take, unfortunately most chicks now want to take more than they give, explains why marriage is basically a toss up and divorce is initiated almost 80% by women, feminism has destroyed the nuclear family, and most young dudes nowadays don't want any part of it, marriage is down and so are birth rates, chicks complaining on social media why men no longer approach them anymore. They picked the bear, have fun with it lol


Try settling down in your 30's or 40's when you already have two children from your previous marriage.... it's damn near impossible.


All my relationships since 2012 have looked like this:

https://m.media-amazon.com/images/I/6110gSqVN4L._SX300_SY300_QL70_FMwebp_.jpg



(if you're a single Father, it's actually better to date a single mother compared to a woman with no kids in my experience)

Doomsday Dallas
08-11-2025, 10:55 AM
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=E7iepvlyypQ

highwhey
08-11-2025, 12:31 PM
Have you left the house in the last 8-9 years since Trump came down that escalator? You do realize that the racist or the person that judges based on race is you, right? Liberal f*ggot.

https://i.postimg.cc/6311RDGN/patrickchewing.jpg

TheMan
08-12-2025, 04:00 AM
Try settling down in your 30's or 40's when you already have two children from your previous marriage.... it's damn near impossible.


All my relationships since 2012 have looked like this:

https://m.media-amazon.com/images/I/6110gSqVN4L._SX300_SY300_QL70_FMwebp_.jpg



(if you're a single Father, it's actually better to date a single mother compared to a woman with no kids in my experience)
I think that's pretty obvious. A single woman with no kids will want kids and if you already have kids you probably don't want more. On the other hand, a single mother probably won't be bugging you to have more kids...

Wally450
08-13-2025, 09:49 AM
I choose to be. I can do whatever my heart desires and I don't have to discuss it with a significant other. I dated a girl back in March for like 2 months, I realized I had to go hang with her a couple times a week and do things with her. Realized that's not what I wanted and eventually cut it off. We discussed it and are still friends, but being single is so much better than being locked down to one person.

Lakers Legend#32
08-13-2025, 04:31 PM
We've seen the picture of Patrick Chewing's ex-wife.

We know why he has sworn of women.

Doomsday Dallas
08-21-2025, 04:12 PM
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BspgBS7Vtn0