View Full Version : Why don't you see that many asian males & black females in interracial relationships?
SunsN07BookIt
08-12-2007, 06:55 PM
Whites and Latinos of both sexes intermix freely. Black males are in interracial relationships with pretty much every race and the same with asian females(except with maybe latino males). But you don't see that many interracial relationships with asian males and black females. Why is that? Are they not that attracted to other races or what?
blazerfan22
08-12-2007, 07:03 PM
I've seen some Asian dudes with white girls and some black women with white dudes but you're right, it's rare.
I'm white, and I don't have a problem with dating black chicks.
White Chocolate
08-12-2007, 07:07 PM
Interracial relationships and marriages are much more common these days. I really don't have an answer as to why Asian males and black women don't mix. I was reading an article on CNN recently, and it was talking about how black women(educated ones) are marrying and having kids with white men. The most common asnwer was that black men are uneducated, and most of the people in jail are black.
I think over time, we'll see Asian men and black women hooking up. It's still fairly new that black women and white men are together.
West-Side
08-12-2007, 07:07 PM
One of the best girls I've date was black, had a blast...they tend to be really honest and really fun to be around. We'd play ball all the time, she was like my best friend and my girl.
I'm engaged to a Latino right now, can't complain she means the world to me.
Tarik One
08-12-2007, 07:07 PM
Black chicks prefer Ho-Hos over Twinkies
HollaBolla
08-12-2007, 07:22 PM
asian males do not like black women at all, they are more attracted to their fellow asians and white women.
AllNBAArenas
08-12-2007, 07:46 PM
asian males do not like black women at all, they are more attracted to their fellow asians and white women.
Like the feeling isn't mutual. :rollingeyes: Not just for black women I imagine either.
Duck Rodgers
08-12-2007, 07:53 PM
Because they aren't as aesthetically pleasing in general? That's all it is. To me...the really hot black girls are better than anything else you'll find...but the average black girl is not as good looking as your average Whitey/Chica/Asian.
As for Asian males....I'm 1/2...but I'm sure glad I'm not full. I lived in Japan for 6 years....and the women there were very happy to see a decent looking non-Asian(I look more white) over there. I don't think Asian dudes stand a chance in the looks department vs. other races. That's from my own experiences.....and just viewing people around me.
Noob Saibot
08-12-2007, 07:55 PM
what about Jet Li & Aaliyah? it was a movie buy it was cool to see them hang out.
I notice Black women get real jealous when black men go out with white, asian, or latino girls. they always think their not good looking enough for their own kind and refuse to date a male of another race. not all of em are like that though. the same can be said about asian males too i guess.
Dodonpa
08-12-2007, 08:10 PM
they are just both at the bottom of the dating chain and thats it.
asian females are one of the most popular females these days
black guys can get white chicks too, word to kobe :oldlol:
that leaves their respective other halves a bit lonely..
i dont know about black girls, but asian guys do lack confidence, most of them.
Targus
08-12-2007, 09:35 PM
people think asian people tend to prefer to stay within their own race, and it's kind'a true but only to a certain extent. I am part hispanic and my wifey is asian, at first her parents weren't happy with it but they've accepted me, we don't really talk about it much anymore. but yeah that combo you mentioned is pretty rare.
LongBeachLakers
08-12-2007, 09:42 PM
Here's one
http://www.aznlover.com/photopost/data/502/Jet_Li_and_Aaliyah_2.jpg
Targus
08-12-2007, 09:44 PM
lol she looks more latino than black, but damn that dress is straight up see-through.
HitandRun Reggie
08-12-2007, 09:47 PM
Here's one
http://www.aznlover.com/photopost/data/502/Jet_Li_and_Aaliyah_2.jpg
Yeah and we all know how that relationship turned out, she committed suicide in a plane because she had the yellow fever...
Rasheed1
08-13-2007, 04:07 PM
Asian dudes have that nasty stereotype about having a small thing-thing... Asian dudes seem have an uphill battle fighting agianst that stuff.. People usually make fun of asians (white & black)... I think people make like its not cool to date asians.. Men do whatever they want (like talk smack about asians, then go on a date with one) but women seem less inclined to try them out...
not fair at all, but thats what it seems is going on
mhsbasketball
08-13-2007, 04:44 PM
black men seems to flock for white women and asian women flock for white men. So that leaves asian men and black women behind. So it should be a good match.
wow. this is funny to read this. my kids and i were walking around our apartment complex like 2 weeks ago and this black chick was hollering at me from her 2nd story deck. she was asking me about my 3yr old and saying that she can't find any kids here to play w/ her young son. when we went around the front to head home, she came out with her kid and fiance. he was asian, but i didn't think anything of it til i read this thread. come to think of it, somehow i recall him saying he was 1/2 asian but i don't know why he would have told me that.
-primetime-
08-13-2007, 06:08 PM
the common asian man and the common black woman have NOTHING in common
that is why
the common asian man and the common black woman have NOTHING in common
that is why
what can't be more in common than one having a weiner and the other having a cooter? that's what it boils down to eventually.
KINGofTHEcourt
08-13-2007, 06:35 PM
what can't be more in common than one having a weiner and the other having a cooter? that's what it boils down to eventually.
Not when that weiner is small and cannot satisfy a women. (asians)
Rocketz_Foreva
08-13-2007, 06:36 PM
Not when that weiner is small and cannot satisfy a women. (asians)
hahahahahaha righ t thatz y yao sucks, and it'z mcgradi all da way
-primetime-
08-13-2007, 07:18 PM
what can't be more in common than one having a weiner and the other having a cooter? that's what it boils down to eventually.
the grow up in totally different backgrounds...
the average black chick doesn't have the same culture as the average asian man...
what are they gonna do together?....after she gets her nails done and her hair did is she gonna fix him some sushi and green tea?
Targus
08-13-2007, 07:50 PM
the grow up in totally different backgrounds...
the average black chick doesn't have the same culture as the average asian man...
what are they gonna do together?....after she gets her nails done and her hair did is she gonna fix him some sushi and green tea?
this post has stereotype written all over it
-primetime-
08-13-2007, 08:04 PM
this post has stereotype written all over it
yeah...i did sterotype asian men and black women...
lets be honest, the common asian man and the common black female have very different cultures...
sure you can find exceptions....but for the most part the 2 cultures do not run into each other very often
people before me said that it is because asian men have small ***** yet you choose my post as the one that steriotypes?.....lol
Bourne
08-13-2007, 08:54 PM
tiger tiger woods y'all!
It has been well documented that the mating of black people and asians have absolutely EXPLOSIVEWOWOW effects.
SunsN07BookIt
08-13-2007, 09:00 PM
tiger tiger woods y'all!
.
Are you sure it's his black blood and not his white and Native American blood that made him "EXPLOSIVEWOWOW"? :D
people before me said that it is because asian men have small ***** yet you choose my post as the one that steriotypes?.....lol
I noticed that too.
thenextgreatbigman
08-13-2007, 09:28 PM
is it me or did a lot of people get the question wrong? it's not why asian guys don't date black girls but why asian guys and black women don't mate with other races.
now can someone tell me why indian men love white girls so bad when the white girls don't want to do anything other than stay away from them. I've talked to a few indian guys who said they don't like "brown" females, only blondes but i'm 100% sure they never actually got one.
-primetime-
08-13-2007, 09:38 PM
is it me or did a lot of people get the question wrong? it's not why asian guys don't date black girls but why asian guys and black women don't mate with other races.
now can someone tell me why indian men love white girls so bad when the white girls don't want to do anything other than stay away from them. I've talked to a few indian guys who said they don't like "brown" females, only blondes but i'm 100% sure they never actually got one.
you are right....i misunderstood the question
and you are right about indian men and white women too.....never seen that happen in my life
SunsN07BookIt
08-13-2007, 09:59 PM
is it me or did a lot of people get the question wrong? it's not why asian guys don't date black girls but why asian guys and black women don't mate with other races.
You are correct. That was the question of my topic.
picc84
08-13-2007, 11:11 PM
Stereotypically, black females and asian males are the least desirable overall among race/gender groups, to their own race and to others. There's even been a few articles about it. I remember reading one written by a guy who ran a dating service for a number of years, and said that when questioned about their preferences regarding potential matches, these were the two groups with the least amount of clients interested.
Interesting article.
dab0yech0
08-14-2007, 02:09 AM
I only do interracial. Never been with a girl of my ethnicity ever in my life. I dont know why but thats how its always been.
lovethetriangle
08-14-2007, 03:58 AM
i'm asian and i'm generally not attracted to black women. Maybe its vice-versa.
Good observation.
SCClipperLegend
08-14-2007, 08:21 PM
im asian and all i go for is black and latin women but what i love the most is black french women.. im not really attracted to asian women
AllNBAArenas
08-14-2007, 08:26 PM
im asian and all i go for is black and latin women but what i love the most is black french women.. im not really attracted to asian women
You gotta be a flip with the baseball cap on the side tilt.
Sagat
08-15-2007, 08:26 AM
All races of men with the exception of black men obviously, commonly perceive black women as the "bottom of the food chain" if you will. However, you do see more black men dating women outside their own race more than any other race, which speaks volumes in relation to this topic.
Don't get me wrong, there are some great and beautiful black women out there, but the vast majority of black women are not attractive, inside and out.
You see the occasional white man with a black women, but it's nothing compared to the black men and white women ratio. There's something to that.
SunsN07BookIt
08-15-2007, 11:21 AM
However, you do see more black men dating women outside their own race more than any other race, which speaks volumes in relation to this topic.
I would have to disagree with this. If I would have to say what race/sex dates or marries outside their race the most, I would say it would be hands down white men, followed by latin women, and with white women not far behind. At least that's what I see here where I live.
ForceOfNature
08-15-2007, 01:30 PM
black men seems to flock for white women and asian women flock for white men. So that leaves asian men and black women behind. So it should be a good match.
But they don't like each other . :roll:
Could be cultural differences/upbringing. Could be the fact that an asian wants to be white/wants to be accepted as white and gradually flocks towards white females if they venture outside thier race. When you come across asians who dont fancy black woman you can pick thier brains, have them expose thier upbringing and notice that their experience with black people was a negative one.
I'll use my coworker as an example. Not much of a friend. He has said some racial remarks that I had to check him on. He thought it was cool since I was half white. Rasheed Wallace got a technical foul and started snappin...he laughs and says "Omg look at monkey!"...I'm like WTF? Had to check him. Caught him a few other times saying the n word. Now he wasnt totally against black woman...he would acknowledge one if he saw one but the chances of him talkin to her, getting involved were slim. I asked dude about his racial remarks and told him that he has to get that in check because you'll say that to the wrong person and get f*cked up. Actually he got beat up/knocked out cold by a black coworker when he worked for a bank. Convo got heated, words exchanged he called black dude out his name and got folded. So back to my point about digging deep because I could have just disowned dude or punched him in his mouth but he wasnt one of those malicious, intentional bigots. So I didnt ask him whats your beef with black people I basically asked him about growing up etc etc. His parents came from asia off the boat...slaved/worked hard he was poor on welfare. And when he went to school got teased by black kids, got chased and beat up almost everyday by black kids...called ***** etc etc. Just kids being ruthless, cold hearted mofos which I understood not condining it but I saw it myself growing up. Cambodians in my school always got picked on/teased. Got to a point where the asians had a gang and afterschool fights between blacks and a gang would break out from time to time. Someone beats up a asian, they run him (during school) and at 3pm mofos outside deep. So back to my coworker his whole life he has run into problems with black people. His experience with them was bad...started off at an early age. White folks? Nah. And he could relate or better assimilate with whites as opposed to blacks.
Long story short there are a lot of asians who went thru this where thier experience with certain races were bad/negative or nonexistant. Then you got some who have families that dont approve of it...or culture differences dictate who has relations with others.
Thats pretty much my personal take on the lack of asian males with black woman.
VCDrivesAPorscheToWork
08-15-2007, 02:44 PM
fully Americanized Asians who work out, act American, and have game are as successful as many others.
it's the nerdy nerdies, the ones who can't talk to women, etc... who suffer from the intense stigma that is put on them.
as for black women:
I am very sure there are many highly admirable black women individuals and beautiful ones as well. but Asians anywhere do not seem to go near the black neighborhoods, and so their only encounter with black women are the fat, obnoxious ones at the movie theaters.
Sagat
08-15-2007, 02:46 PM
and so their only encounter with black women are the fat, obnoxious ones at the movie theaters
Don't you mean the fat and obnoxious black women rolling their eyes when you ask for no onions on your Whopper at Burger King?
VCDrivesAPorscheToWork
08-15-2007, 02:50 PM
I would have to disagree with this. If I would have to say what race/sex dates or marries outside their race the most, I would say it would be hands down white men, followed by latin women, and with white women not far behind. At least that's what I see here where I live.
possibly. but the percentages are probbably comparable. i mean in the United States, 230 million white people, 40 million black people.
Don't you mean the fat and obnoxious black women rolling their eyes when you ask for no onions on your Whopper at Burger King?
*shrugs*
I really dont care what women another man gets or doesnt get. As long as I can get women I am hapy, and I have been with white, black, indian, mixed women.
Don't you mean the fat and obnoxious black women rolling their eyes when you ask for no onions on your Whopper at Burger King?
and so their only encounter with black women are the fat, obnoxious ones at the movie theaters.
:rollingeyes: Kids need to grow up.
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06-15-2008, 05:48 PM
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Hawker
06-15-2008, 05:49 PM
lol
dab0yech0
06-15-2008, 06:17 PM
me and most of my friends do interracial
Just the other day we had interracial night out basically:
me + my gf who is guatamalan mexican
gerrod (black) + jenny (asian)
kwesi (black) + lynn (asian)
John (black) + forgot his gfs name but she was white
ihatetimthomas
06-15-2008, 07:34 PM
Generally, asian men are looked down upon as the bottom of the dating chain. And I believe black women generally dont want to be looked down upon by being seen with an asian man. The fact that they grew up in different cultures has little impact on this. How would it explain asian chick and black dudes hookin up then? Its all about our society and how asian men and black women are perceived. Asian dudes have a bad rep in general and that is a reason they stay within their own race
wTFaMonkey
06-15-2008, 07:40 PM
the asian males parent would litterally KILL him if he marries a black woman.
trust me i know.
asian parents are the most racist people next to the KKK
I can't really answer why, but when I was dating a black girl we get looked at pretty much everywhere we go.
hito da god
06-15-2008, 08:42 PM
I don't think I've ever seen an asian guy with anything other than an asian chick.
blasian
06-16-2008, 12:11 AM
It's rare but it happens. ie. My great grandfather and great grandmother.
The Myth
06-16-2008, 12:13 AM
How bout who the Fu*k cares?
SHEED_ gangsta
06-16-2008, 01:10 AM
How bout who the Fu*k cares?
agreed enough with these retarded race threads
cartmanclone
06-16-2008, 01:14 AM
me and most of my friends do interracial
Just the other day we had interracial night out basically:
me + my gf who is guatamalan mexican
gerrod (black) + jenny (asian)
kwesi (black) + lynn (asian)
John (black) + forgot his gfs name but she was white
that sounds so forced and gay...
what the hell is a guatamalan mexican...those are not races...
InspiredLebowski
06-16-2008, 01:18 AM
Minority + minority = even bigger minority. If you catch my drift. There's the general requirement of finding the other race attractive, which seems rare under any circumstances in my opinion. Then should one or the other be attracted to the other race, you've got to find a member of said race that strikes your fancy.
n00bie
06-16-2008, 01:20 AM
the asian males parent would litterally KILL him if he marries a black woman.
trust me i know.
asian parents are the most racist people next to the KKK
Agreed. Asians parents put A LOT of pressure on their sons to marry a girl from the same background, especially since it's the males that carry on the family name. Almost all asian parents are racist, whether they show it or not.
JtotheIzzo
06-16-2008, 07:58 AM
Everyone has this wrong...
I spend a lot of time working and have lived in Northeast Asia (Japan, Korea, Taiwan, HK, China) and with that I have a lot of knowledge of the people and the culture (I am white).
Asian men as a group are by far the most sexist, and most black and white women are too power hungry to put up with that.
I know Asian dudes who have white wives, but those dudes are pretty liberal, and western educated. I know one Asian dude who has a black girl friend, but he is super trendy and a very popular, outgoing, self-confident dude.
NE-Asians (especially in NE Asia) are vehemently racist towards black people in many instances, and an Asian dude with a black chick might be perceived as a loss of face. In Asia all the women are trying to bleach their skin and make themselves white, so when that is the beauty ideal, it isn't hard to see why the men would shy away from dark skin.
I have been out with Asian men in Asia drinking and said: "Hey that chick is hot." about an smoking Asian chick with a nice tan, and they were like: "ooh gross, her skin is so dark..."
Despite her fine ass figure and beauty, the skin tone was the thing that they noticed.
HOWEVER...
Take your ass to South East Asia (Thailand, Philippines, Indonesia etc...) and white women are becoming sex tourists, going to places like Thailand, and Bali and trying to hook up with the natives for a lil sun and fun.
A lot of fit dudes in the tourist hot spots are getting cash and gifts from European and North American women who are there on vacation by 'showing them the sights.'
Asian men get plenty of ass, they just don't often go for the darker skinned girls.
TonyJones
06-16-2008, 11:55 AM
\ But you don't see that many interracial relationships with asian males and black females. Why is that? Are they not that attracted to other races or what?
One Word: FEAR.
They are both scared
TonyJones
06-16-2008, 12:19 PM
I remember reading one written by a guy who ran a dating service for a number of years, and said that when questioned about their preferences regarding potential matches, these were the two groups with the least amount of clients interested.
Interesting article.
damn thats f'ed up
bomber
06-16-2008, 12:50 PM
But you don't see that many interracial relationships with asian males and black females. Why is that? Are they not that attracted to other races or what?
You don't see any, not any.
The reason is simple. Sistas need big wangs, some white guys can provide(like myself) but the Asians can't.
bomber
06-16-2008, 12:53 PM
me and most of my friends do interracial
Just the other day we had interracial night out basically:
me + my gf who is guatamalan mexican
gerrod (black) + jenny (asian)
kwesi (black) + lynn (asian)
John (black) + forgot his gfs name but she was white
Yeah that is pretty gay. Lik a commerical for a restaurant or something where all the races are represented :oldlol:
Doomsday Dallas
06-16-2008, 01:08 PM
http://us.movies1.yimg.com/movies.yahoo.com/images/hv/photo/movie_pix/warner_brothers/romeo_must_die/_group_photos/aaliyah8.jpg
Found One. :applause:
I knew there had to be one couple that exsisted.
B-Low
06-16-2008, 01:27 PM
Yeah that is pretty gay. Lik a commerical for a restaurant or something where all the races are represented :oldlol:
:oldlol:
Hispanic Guy: What do you feel like eating for dinner black guy?
Black Guy: Duuuude, i think i'm feeling like RICE tonight. How bout you white girl?
White Girl: What else? I'm feelin like TACOS! What about you Asian girl?
Asian Girl: Hmmm tough one! NOT! I want a BURGER!
Hispanic Guy: Awesome! But you know what? I'm feeling like CHICKEN!
*silence*
All: Let's just go to TGI Fridays!! DUH!!!
stevieming
06-16-2008, 05:06 PM
hmm.. I am asian, dated a black girl back in teens...
I am pretty much a westerner in terms of thinking though...
For example, if a woman is good looking, they are good looking, but my oriental brothas (one that grown up in their native countrty) just find black women ugly!
I was chatting to this one guy and said what about beyonce; amarie, etc....to me they are smoking.....but he just says they look ugly to him...:banghead:
not only that, most asians have absolutely no game in dating outside their race.they seem paralysed by fear and then say well they're not all that anyway or insist on going to asian only club nights :confusedshrug: ...
I have dated white girls the most, then 2 asian girls, then one indian girl and one black girl....
my friends are always envious saying how you get the white chick (but call me blind with bad taste when i went out with the black and indian chick)
personally I prefer white girls...
i met a 1/2 asian male/black female couple at the apt. complex i just moved from.
dnyk1337
06-16-2008, 06:28 PM
http://us.movies1.yimg.com/movies.yahoo.com/images/hv/photo/movie_pix/warner_brothers/romeo_must_die/_group_photos/aaliyah8.jpg
Found One. :applause:
I knew there had to be one couple that exsisted.
Damn, she was really hot. Shame that she died that way... Jet Li and Aaliyah would have made a great couple imo.
n00bie
06-16-2008, 11:43 PM
You don't see any, not any.
The reason is simple. Sistas need big wangs, some white guys can provide(like myself) but the Asians can't.
wow you must have an e-wang of 30 inches?
bomber
06-16-2008, 11:57 PM
wow you must have an e-wang of 30 inches?
No I have a good sized member. It was a joke anyways, chill.
I saw a funny T-shirt yesterday. A 5'8 heavy set asian kid had a shirt on saying "I'm huge for an Asian"
It took me a few seconds to get it, it wasn't referring to his height and weight.
stevieming
06-17-2008, 06:37 AM
jet has been married for ages...and anyway he has never ever done a kissing scene with any women, cus thats what he promised his wife....
dnyk1337
06-17-2008, 06:50 AM
jet has been married for ages...and anyway he has never ever done a kissing scene with any women, cus thats what he promised his wife....
Got remarried in 2000, around the time the film was made/released. Was divorced before that around 1990 I think?
Edit:
In 1987, Li married Beijing Wushu Team member and Shaolin Temple series co-star Huang Qiuyan,[5] with whom he had two children. They divorced in 1990, Since 1999, he has been married to Nina Li Chi (born Li Zhi), a Shanghai-born, Hong Kong-based actress. He has two children with her as well, Jane (born 2000) and Jada (born 2002).
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