[QUOTE=BankShot]I never got my ass whipped by my parents. Child abuse is sloppy, lazy-ass, $hitty-ass, parenting.[/QUOTE]
typical white boy
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[QUOTE=BankShot]I never got my ass whipped by my parents. Child abuse is sloppy, lazy-ass, $hitty-ass, parenting.[/QUOTE]
typical white boy
Dad does the talking and mom does the hitting
Come home one day get slapped around in the face, head banged against the wall, slapped some more times ..this happened in grade 7
Another time Mom hit me with her car but luckily I jumped ontop of the car and did some rolling **** and than she came and grabbed me by the ear threw me to the ground kicked me around and than threateend to stab me with a shank ...this one happened in grade 4
I never got the belt, but i'd get hit upside the head for talking back to my dad or my mom or being a dumba[COLOR="Black"]s[/COLOR]s.
Grade 2, the incident I now like to call "The Birth of the Maniak"
Me and a bunch of friends were at the slides. It was foggy, so there was the fog stuff whateverthatis on the slides. We were writing crap with our fingers with it like "Hello!" and all that stuff. Then I start to laugh and write "Autumn(girl in my class) is stupid!" a friend goes to tell her, then I shut him up and tell him "its for the good of both of us, trust me." then I was like "dude look at this word!" and he said "what?" then I said "its the F-Word!" then he started laughing. Then a jackass I still hate to this day(he listens to Jonas Brothers and bands like that, another reason) runs off and tells my teacher about it.
Things did not end well.
And yes, I was a slightly messed up kid. But I still laugh to this day about that.
I didnt get beat from this or anything, but I find this funny, my buddy always teases me about it to this day.
I was bored in class during a spelling test so I grab the answers and hide them in my desk, then a kid sitting behind me yells "Hey _____! Why are you looking at the answers?" then I get terrified and say "IM SORRY IM SORRY IM SORRY ILL NEVER DO IT AGAIN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!"
They made me retest it later that day and watched me from behind to assure I didnt cheat.
I still aced it, anyways. I knew I could have done perfectly, its just I was bored and WANTED to cheat, kinda messed up.
worst beating was like when i was 5 or 6. i was out playing, and didn't wanna go home yet. my dad kept sending someone to get me but i said i didn't wanna go home yet. then he comes out and pulls me home by the ear. he was drunk.. i was just like a couple of houses away.. i don't really remember him hitting me, but the ear **** definitely hurt. and i think he must have tossed me around the room a couple of times.. :oldlol:
but if he tries that sh!t with me these days, i'm gonna knock him out.. i'm like a couple of inches taller than him now.. :rolleyes:
[QUOTE=Maniak]Grade 2, the incident I now like to call "The Birth of the Maniak"
Me and a bunch of friends were at the slides. It was foggy, so there was the fog stuff whateverthatis on the slides. We were writing crap with our fingers with it like "Hello!" and all that stuff. Then I start to laugh and write "Autumn(girl in my class) is stupid!" a friend goes to tell her, then I shut him up and tell him "its for the good of both of us, trust me." then I was like "dude look at this word!" and he said "what?" then I said "its the F-Word!" then he started laughing. Then a jackass I still hate to this day(he listens to Jonas Brothers and bands like that, another reason) runs off and tells my teacher about it.
Things did not end well.
And yes, I was a slightly messed up kid. But I still laugh to this day about that.
I didnt get beat from this or anything, but I find this funny, my buddy always teases me about it to this day.
I was bored in class during a spelling test so I grab the answers and hide them in my desk, then a kid sitting behind me yells "Hey _____! Why are you looking at the answers?" then I get terrified and say "IM SORRY IM SORRY IM SORRY ILL NEVER DO IT AGAIN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!"
They made me retest it later that day and watched me from behind to assure I didnt cheat.
I still aced it, anyways. I knew I could have done perfectly, its just I was bored and WANTED to cheat, kinda messed up.[/QUOTE]
:applause:
that reminds me of one time in 5th grade, where i made the biggest font possible on word processor and typed "F[COLOR="Black"]U[/COLOR]CK" and whispered to my friend across the room to look.. teacher saw and i got kicked out the room. lol
[QUOTE=U got Served]typical white boy[/QUOTE]
Yeah I'm white, but what does that have to do with anything?? I have white friends that got their ass kicked by their parents.
Using violence and/or the threat of violence instead of addressing the root cause of misbehavior or the lack of understanding of what is right/wrong or acceptable/unacceptable is f*cking lazy parenting. Be a f*cking adult and give your children the attention they need to know the difference between right and wrong instead of resorting to violence like a damn neanderthal.
It's not a race thing, as black, white, brown, and yellow parents beat the s*it out of their kids for thousands of years. Abuse of any kind is above any kind of racial denomination.
In the state of California, African American children are almost 3x as likely as caucasians, and over 2x as likely as Hispanic/Latino to be victims of child abuse.
[URL="http://www.kidsdata.org/topictables.jsp?csid=0&t=1&i=10&ra=3_132&link=&"]http://www.kidsdata.org/topictables.jsp?csid=0&t=1&i=10&ra=3_132&link=&[/URL]
Typical white boy for saying its poor and lazy parenting??? Sounds like if you lived in California, you might be typically something else. Just keep the trends going it really speaks volumes about values.
Oh, and bring on the whole racism card, because I am absolutely not.
[QUOTE=BankShot]I never got my ass whipped by my parents. Child abuse is sloppy, lazy-ass, $hitty-ass, parenting.[/QUOTE]
Wrong! :no:
It is in fact to most effective way of Parenting. It's good to lay the smackdown every now and then.
[QUOTE=BankShot]Yeah I'm white, but what does that have to do with anything?? I have white friends that got their ass kicked by their parents.
Using violence and/or the threat of violence instead of addressing the root cause of misbehavior or the lack of understanding of what is right/wrong or acceptable/unacceptable is f*cking lazy parenting. Be a f*cking adult and give your children the attention they need to know the difference between right and wrong instead of resorting to violence like a damn neanderthal.
It's not a race thing, as black, white, brown, and yellow parents beat the s*it out of their kids for thousands of years. Abuse of any kind is above any kind of racial denomination.
In the state of California, African American children are almost 3x as likely as caucasians, and over 2x as likely as Hispanic/Latino to be victims of child abuse.
[URL="http://www.kidsdata.org/topictables.jsp?csid=0&t=1&i=10&ra=3_132&link=&"]http://www.kidsdata.org/topictables.jsp?csid=0&t=1&i=10&ra=3_132&link=&[/URL]
Typical white boy for saying its poor and lazy parenting??? [B]Sounds like if you're a typical Californian[/B], you might be typically something else.[/QUOTE]
Texan. All I know is that right before my dad/mom whipped me they would ask me "do you know why am I doing this?" And I did know. I knew I'd done something wrong. They would warn me first, then spank/whip me. I'm not saying child abuse doesn't exist, but to say whipping is lazy parenting is wrong. Sometimes you have to use the belt. My opinion.
[QUOTE=NY Comeback]Wrong! :no:
It is in fact to most effective way of Parenting. It's good to lay the smackdown every now and then.[/QUOTE]
The most effective?? Ha.
The most effective way to parent is to teach them boundaries and the difference between right and wrong, and there are non-violent consequences to their actions. This kind of insight is just breeding a violent and disfunctional society.
[QUOTE=U got Served]Texan. All I know is that right before my dad/mom whipped me they would ask me "do you know why am I doing this?" And I did know. I knew I'd done something wrong. They would warn me first, then spank/whip me. I'm not saying child abuse doesn't exist, but to say whipping is lazy parenting is wrong. Sometimes you have to use the belt. My opinion.[/QUOTE]
Well that sounds like they were going in kind of the right direction, but at the same time thats just instilling in impressionable youth that using violence upon someone is okay if they did something wrong, which in everyday life is absolutely unacceptable.
Parents should be able to find other ways to punish their kids than smacking them around. Worked for me and I turned out just fine.
[QUOTE=BankShot]Well that sounds like they were going in kind of the right direction, but at the same time thats just instilling in impressionable youth that using violence upon someone is okay if they did something wrong, which in everyday life is absolutely unacceptable.
Parents should be able to find other ways to punish their kids than smacking them around. Worked for me and I turned out just fine.[/QUOTE]
OK let me ask you this. How DID your parents punish you?
[QUOTE=BankShot]The most effective?? Ha.
The most effective way to parent is to teach them boundaries and the difference between right and wrong, and there are non-violent consequences to their actions. This kind of insight is just breeding a violent and disfunctional society.[/QUOTE]
lol naw I agree. Just messing around was all.
If you have to whip your kids, then fine, do it. But in my opinion, you must be a pretty ****ty parent if you can't properly discipline and raise your kids without physically hurting them.
Just my take on the matter.
[QUOTE=U got Served]OK let me ask you this. How DID your parents punished you?[/QUOTE]
I acted up, then something was taken away, whether it was my time, or my ability to do what I wanted, or with what I wanted to do it with.
Whether it was extra chores, or grounding, or lack of access to amenities like television, video games, or toys, misbehavior resulted in nonviolent consequences that made me not want to behave in that manner anymore.
Its all about incentives, and while a good lickin' definitely gives disincentive to misbehave, there are other means that give the same magnitude of disincentive.