Should I have slept with her?

[QUOTE=SUNNYSIDEUP]Some very interesting replies, lol at the slow dance with the aunte.
If I slow danced with her in front of all the other wives people would be talking.

Another fact to think about is my marriage would survive regardless of a fling I might get caught for. It would be a little messy but it would survive.

She is not the type to go crazy and start yapping to the wife about anything.

Here is the kicker, she is going travelling in two weeks and will be gone for a long time. So the only repercussion would be on my conscience. However, I am not a liar and if my wife asked me straight up I would tell her the truth.

Shits not gonna happen anyways, just mulling it around in my head.lol[/QUOTE]
She might act like she don't care now but sooner or later down tha line she's gonna bring it up especially if shes mad at you about something else, but hey man its your choice, and lets say if tha gurl don't say anything to anybody you might feel guilty down tha line or start to like her a lot after you hit it especially if tha puhcee and her touches feel real amazing to you which could stir things up a bit.

Well that's the problem, I am already in love with her and I haven't even slept with her. The girl and I have been through lots of intense situations ( my job involves high risk situations). She is gorgeous, smart and very funny.

So there was the dilemma, but I chose to be faithful in the end.

[QUOTE=SUNNYSIDEUP]Well that's the problem, I am already in love with her and I haven't even slept with her. The girl and I have been through lots of intense situations ( my job involves high risk situations). She is gorgeous, smart and very funny.

So there was the dilemma, but I chose to be faithful in the end.[/QUOTE]
oh i feel you on that, you still made tha right choice though at tha end of tha day.

[QUOTE=The Macho Man]More info is needed. Is your wife a bitch and your son a total tw*t?[/QUOTE]

lmao

What's in it for the co-worker? You said she's going traveling in two weeks and will be gone for a long time, so why would she bang an old dude who's beneath her in the sociosexual hierarchy?

Do yourself a favor and watch the film 'Scarlet Street' to see why you did the right thing.

Some other 35 yo loser is going to tear that ***** up now. You just ruined someone else's marriage, fool.

[QUOTE=HardwoodLegend]What's in it for the co-worker? You said she's going traveling in two weeks and will be gone for a long time, so why would she bang an old dude who's beneath her in the sociosexual hierarchy?

Do yourself a favor and watch the film 'Scarlet Street' to see why you did the right thing.[/QUOTE]


I am getting some great laughs at some of these posts.
She would ''BANG'' me because I have still have some game. Also you might be surprised, slightly older men with a bit of money and experience are very attractive to younger women. However, I think she didn't want a long term relationship with me,just an experience.

[QUOTE=SUNNYSIDEUP]So here is the story/problem.
I am a happy married man with a great wife and a awesome four year old, but I want more. I have been working closely with an incredibly good looking 25 year who most would think is out of my league. She is ten years my junior. She wanted our relationship to go to the next level, I mean she describes what she wants me to do to her and the shit is crazy good.

My life used to have excitement now it is rather mundane, this girl makes me feel young again.

So staff party was yesterday(wife was out of town) and she wants to slow dance with me in front of all my work colleagues, of course I said no and we had a big fight. She is leaving the office and I may never see her again.

I am in love with her and feel like a wimp for not sealing the deal, however there would be bad consequences if I did.

Do you think I made a mistake not sleeping with her?[/QUOTE]

You're an ass. You are not just cheating on you're wife, you are also cheating on your kid.

You're a horrible dad, and I feel sorry for your kid.

[QUOTE=n00bie]You're an ass. You are not just cheating on you're wife, you are also cheating on your kid.

You're a horrible dad, and I feel sorry for your kid.[/QUOTE]


I am afraid noobie I may have hit a sore spot with you. I hope I did not bring up some old memories that made you feel unwanted/unloved.

[QUOTE=SUNNYSIDEUP]I am getting some great laughs at some of these posts.
She would ''BANG'' me because I have still have some game. Also you might be surprised, slightly older men with a bit of money and experience are very attractive to younger women. [B]However, I think she didn't want a long term relationship with me,just an experience.[/B][/QUOTE]


hook line and sinker.

[QUOTE=SUNNYSIDEUP]I am afraid noobie I may have hit a sore spot with you. I hope I did not bring up some old memories that made you feel unwanted/unloved.[/QUOTE]

He's right though, you're kind of pathetic and I feel sorry for your kid as well. And this is coming from a person who has a great father, something you're not.

If you want to sleep with another women, divorce first.

What do you want more? Drama? The possible loss of access to your four year old? Your great marriage to turn to shit? To pay half your income to your wife while she ****s other guys?

All of these are viable outcomes of this. Plus the girl isn't exactly going to keep you on the down low, she went mental that you wouldn't so something that would have got you in trouble.

Sex is fleeting, ****ing up your marriage for something short term makes no sense.

you already know you gonna sleep with her. just embrace it and do it/her. no free will bro, just instincts.

[QUOTE=millwad]He's right though, you're kind of pathetic and I feel sorry for your kid as well. And this is coming from a person who has a great father, something you're not.

If you want to sleep with another women, divorce first.[/QUOTE]


Well Millwad, I am still a man. If you become an asexual being that's your prerogative.

When you grow up I hope you think back to this tread and try and to be a little more open minded.

[QUOTE=SUNNYSIDEUP]Well Millwad, I am still a man. If you become an asexual being that's your prerogative.

When you grow up I hope you think back to this tread and try and to be a little more open minded.[/QUOTE]
You have a four year old and you're considering to bang some chick from work because you're bored. You're a moron. I LIKE MY LIFE BUT I AM CONSIDERING ****ING IT UP, WHAT SHOULD I DO?

I say go for it, people tend to do what they want, i've seen so many people do this and then come crying (literally) I LOVE HER SO MUCH WHY DID SHE LEAVE ME? The best is the dads who get to see their Kids once a month so the kid's don't listen to them anymore.

:cheers:

Remember wanting to do something and actually doing it are two different things.

[QUOTE=SUNNYSIDEUP]Remember wanting to do something and actually doing it are two different things.[/QUOTE]
I have plenty of girls I've "wanted" to ****, asking someone if you should after you are already discussing it with them is a bit more, no?

[QUOTE=SUNNYSIDEUP]So here is the story/problem.
[B]I am a happy married man with a great wife and a awesome four year old[/B], but I want more. I have been working closely with an incredibly good looking 25 year who most would think is out of my league. She is ten years my junior. She wanted our relationship to go to the next level, I mean she describes what she wants me to do to her and the shit is crazy good.

My life used to have excitement now it is rather mundane, this girl makes me feel young again.

So staff party was yesterday(wife was out of town) and she wants to slow dance with me in front of all my work colleagues, of course I said no and we had a big fight. She is leaving the office and I may never see her again.

I am in love with her and feel like a wimp for not sealing the deal, however there would be bad consequences if I did.

Do you think I made a mistake not sleeping with her?[/QUOTE]

Nope, you're not.

[QUOTE=SUNNYSIDEUP]I am getting some great laughs at some of these posts.
She would ''BANG'' me because I have still have some game. Also you might be surprised, slightly older men with a bit of money and experience are very attractive to younger women. However, I think she didn't want a long term relationship with me,just an experience.[/QUOTE]

I'm not surprised. But, they usually are attracted to types like you for long-term stability and go behind your back for rendezvous with the pool cleaning Cabana boys. Or, maybe I'm not aware that there are also fleeting sexual fantasies women have about older men.

[QUOTE=The Macho Man]Also doing something and getting caught are two different things ;)[/QUOTE]
It's not worth it. No **** is worth losing your wife, having to pay her to not be with you, and also not see your kids. OP trying to **** up his job too, I'm sure they'd love the drama.

People didn't get laid enough in their life prior to marriage, sex you do it, you're done, you move on. Saying you have a wonderful 4 year old but you may beed to cheat anyone either shows great immaturity or you're just thinking what you are missing is worht it.

You couldn't if you wanted to:lol


little weeny wanker


:facepalm

[QUOTE=The Macho Man]JFK cheated on his wife and she was fine as hell[/QUOTE]

Again, dead. Shot in head. :facepalm Even though he had Marylin in Bed. (YO YO YO)

Tiger Woods cheated on his wife and daughter, and they were fine as hell and adorable/awesome as hell respectively.

[QUOTE=HardwoodLegend]Tiger Woods cheated on his wife and daughter, and they were fine as hell and adorable/awesome as hell respectively.[/QUOTE]
And his life and career went to shit. that's not a good example that cheating works out ok.

Thanks Insidehoops, you saved me and my marriage.

Nico you are so right, just screw lots of broads early on and voila, no desire later in life, so easy.

Some of you guys are too much, I know its on when rosy cheeks is giving marriage advice.

Interesting to see who has some life experiences and those who are still stuck behind a screen. The self righteous ones are always a laugh.

[QUOTE=The Macho Man]Real nggas have side pvssy and they tell their girl "this is just the way it is, if you wanna be with me you get used to it"

I ain't a real ngga though. [B]My girl still cries bout her ex cause I don't fvk her as well as he did[/B][/QUOTE]
:roll:

[QUOTE=SUNNYSIDEUP]Thanks Insidehoops, you saved me and my marriage.

Nico you are so right, just screw lots of broads early on and voila, no desire later in life, so easy.

Some of you guys are too much, I know its on when rosy cheeks is giving marriage advice.

Interesting to see who has some life experiences and those who are still stuck behind a screen. The self righteous ones are always a laugh.[/QUOTE]
I don't have no desire. I just have sense. There is not one individual **** that is worth what will be equivalent of half my house, income and losing my kids. Where is this half a million dollar ****? Who would this woman be?

I'm telling you i see it, the dude nails the young girl, young girl has a fit when she gets tossed aside like a hooch, calls the wife, then dude is crying "IM SO SORRY,...I DIDNT MEAN TO DO IT (like his dick flew on its own inside the woman)". I do not want to be that sad crying begging guy who has to go to court for permission to see his kids.

[QUOTE=SUNNYSIDEUP]Remember wanting to do something and actually doing it are two different things.[/QUOTE]
thats deep.

I've been married for 9 years now and have a 9 year old. I've been with my girl for 18 years now. During that time I've had some girls who had a thing for me. Some of them fine as shit. I have never entertained them.

the thing I have always said to myself when these situations occur is this: What if this was my wife being proposed by another man? I sure as hell would be crushed if she entertained a man who wanted to have sex with her. Chances are she's a female so there probably has been those chances.

I commend you my friend on resisting temptation. A year down the road you'll come to a realization you did the right thing

[QUOTE=hateraid]I've been married for 9 years now and have a 9 year old. I've been with my girl for 18 years now. During that time I've had some girls who had a thing for me. Some of them fine as shit. I have never entertained them.

the thing I have always said to myself when these situations occur is this: What if this was my wife being proposed by another man? I sure as hell would be crushed if she entertained a man who wanted to have sex with her. Chances are she's a female so there probably has been those chances.

I commend you my friend on resisting temptation. A year down the road you'll come to a realization you did the right thing[/QUOTE]
Im glad u think like that man, cuz he knows he would be devasted if his wife cheated on him too, that wouldn't be right.

[QUOTE=hateraid]I've been married for 9 years now and have a 9 year old. I've been with my girl for 18 years now. During that time I've had some girls who had a thing for me. Some of them fine as shit. I have never entertained them.

the thing I have always said to myself when these situations occur is this: What if this was my wife being proposed by another man? I sure as hell would be crushed if she entertained a man who wanted to have sex with her. Chances are she's a female so there probably has been those chances.

I commend you my friend on resisting temptation. A year down the road you'll come to a realization you did the right thing[/QUOTE]


That is why I opened up online, to get another mans perspective and credible advice.

Thank you

[QUOTE=niko] half my income [/QUOTE]

Last I knew you were a drain on your wife racking up weeks of unemployment like a proud puerto rican man. You don't want to give up dat gravy train.

[QUOTE=Stempel, HERB]Last I knew you were a drain on your wife racking up weeks of unemployment like a proud puerto rican man. You don't want to give up dat gravy train.[/QUOTE]
I have a $850k house in Brooklyn that's paid off. Right now I'm laid off. Yes, i am collecting unemployment, because for 20 years i paid my taxes into the system. And then i'll get a job, and pay back into the system again.

So kiss my ass.

Most everyone in this thread has given great advice. If she would let you cheat, she would cheat on you. Also, if she's taken: if she would cheat on him, she would cheat on you.

Think of how your wife would react if she knew your thoughts right now. She would probably be like "wtf give me a chance if you've got a problem."

[B]It's up to you to make your own life exciting again with your wife instead of having another woman do it for you.[/B] Cheating is never worth it unless you don't care about the person you are cheating on. Then it's still not worth it.

[QUOTE=niko]And his life and career went to shit. that's not a good example that cheating works out ok.[/QUOTE]

He's doing just fine, as is Bill Clinton.

[QUOTE=SUNNYSIDEUP]Thanks Insidehoops, you saved me and my marriage.

Nico you are so right, just screw lots of broads early on and voila, no desire later in life, so easy.

Some of you guys are too much, I know its on when rosy cheeks is giving marriage advice.

Interesting to see who has some life experiences and those who are still stuck behind a screen. The self righteous ones are always a laugh.[/QUOTE]

Oh gimme a break. I've been together with my current fiance for nearly 11 years and haven't had an issue. It's not that hard to be faithful. Hell I don't even have a kid and you were still willing to put that shit on the line, because you're bored and can't put the effort in to make your marriage interesting.

I'd also like to point out what a major ****ing loser you have to be for you to actually type "Thanks InsideHoops, you saved my marriage."

[QUOTE=HardwoodLegend]He's doing just fine, as is Bill Clinton.[/QUOTE]
Bill Clinton have tonz of money tho:coleman:

[QUOTE=HardwoodLegend]He's doing just fine, as is Bill Clinton.[/QUOTE]

i'd vote for Clinton if he runs for president again.

[QUOTE=DeuceWallaces]Oh gimme a break. I've been together with my current fiance for nearly 11 years and haven't had an issue. It's not that hard to be faithful. Hell I don't even have a kid and you were still willing to put that shit on the line, because you're bored and can't put the effort in to make your marriage interesting.

I'd also like to point out what a major ****ing loser you have to be for you to actually type "Thanks InsideHoops, you saved my marriage."[/QUOTE]

Sorry Deuce if I offended you, but how old are you anyway, 26-27. So you have been with the same girl since you were 15ish. Good for you.

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[QUOTE=HardwoodLegend]He's doing just fine, as is Bill Clinton.[/QUOTE]
No he's not. He lost his wife, almost all his sponsors, and the most important thing to him, winning majors is gone because he's so distracted that he plays like his balls are cut off.

The important things to Tiger (the most important being winning majors) are seemingly gone because of all the distractions. I don't think banging ho's is big on the list.

Some of you are pretty sad, was it that hard for you to get girls that you think cheating is this fantastic thing to do? YES I ****ED UP MY LIFE, BUT I PROVED I CAN PICK UP A DUMB 24 YEAR OLD. BECAUSE SOMEHOW THAT IS DIFFICULT.