Sent a text after the 1st date and does this response mean she is interested?

[QUOTE=TheMan]Did you ever date the tranny? If so, were you tops or bottoms?[/QUOTE]

He was either pitcher or catcher. :eek:

[QUOTE=bladefd]Good man. Be patient. Maybe initiate a third time asking her to hang out (maybe ask if she wants to go for drinks sometime), if it's a no or some excuse then don't text again. Give it a week then forget about her if you hear nothing.

I am in same situation with this girl I have crush on. I initiated text several times, which she always responded to, but she never initiates. I am getting mixed signals from her - no idea if she likes me or is just being friendly. If she likes me back, she will reach out. Otherwise, it's nothing. Don't act desperate or thirsty because it's odd and creepy.[/QUOTE]
Flat out ask her out if you want to know how she really feels about you; and remember that most girls have shit planned already when Friday rolls out, so if you want to ask a girl out you do it midweek.

She will talk about her date with you all week to her friends if she accepts, or will surely mention your interest to them just to score some sex appeal points. Either way, more girls will find out you are in the game which is a bonus.

She'll never appreciate you like we do

[QUOTE=egokiller]He was either pitcher or catcher. :eek:[/QUOTE]
QB and tight end...or wide receiver if the QB has girth

[QUOTE=PWB15]She responded in 15 mins saying

"I stopped by my parents house" Now I am on my way home. Thanks for checking on me!"



I'm not good at this dating mess. Does she appear to be interested?[/QUOTE]
Dude you got a response that means your all good , tread lightly , and don't push ...
A slow easy re-pour will go light years into the sack.

[QUOTE=Hawker]No, don

[QUOTE=Jasper]Dude you got a response that means your all good , tread lightly , and don't push ...
A slow easy re-pour will go light years into the sack.[/QUOTE]


The only thing that makes me feel she is not interested is that T word in the text which was THANKS FOR CHECKING ON ME lol Something about that last sentence gives off the vibe that was her last text to me but i could be wrong.

[QUOTE=Hawker]No, don

[QUOTE=Hawker]Guys, I

[QUOTE=bladefd]Your approach is way too aggressive and often will push a girl away.. It reeks of desperation and too much of you wanting to get in her pants imo.. i.e you mentioned kissing on first date.. That's risky and could really backfire with certain girls especially the shy ones :confusedshrug:[/QUOTE]

I used to think this too.

If I get rejected on the kiss, it doesn

[QUOTE=enayes]This makes sense and all but in reality not many guys can show this kind of confidence unless they have had a decent amount of success already..

So this doesn't necessarily help someone who is just starting out/never really had a girlfriend..

I guess if you can put yourself in this mindset it could help but it's very difficult to do if you're inexperienced/a virgin (guessing OP is both)[/QUOTE]

You

looks like its over fellas. Sent a text this morning and never got a reply back. I told yall that this sentence by her in the first text message didnt give me a good feeling

"thanks for checking on me"


The word thanks usually means its over when it comes to a 1st date

[QUOTE=Hawker]You

[QUOTE=PWB15]looks like its over fellas. Sent a text this morning and never got a reply back. I told yall that this sentence by her in the first text message didnt give me a good feeling

"thanks for checking on me"


The word thanks usually means its over when it comes to a 1st date[/QUOTE]

maybe she's dead.

[QUOTE=diamenz]maybe she's dead.[/QUOTE]
wtf :roll:

lowkey my favorite gimmick

[QUOTE=diamenz]maybe she's dead.[/QUOTE]

i just dont get why bitches feel the need to respond to a text if they are not interested. i dont know where she lives or where she works so ignoring my text completely would have been fine. But by responding to 2 messages and not to the 3rd makes me want to send her something nasty because of her mixed signals. If she had ignored the initial text i would have gotren the message loud and clear and would have moved on

[QUOTE=PWB15]i just dont get why bitches feel the need to respond to a text if they are not interested. i dont know where she lives or where she works so ignoring my text completely would have been fine. But by responding to 2 messages and not to the 3rd makes me want to send her something nasty because of her mixed signals. If she had ignored the initial text i would have gotren the message loud and clear and would have moved on[/QUOTE]

the passive aggressive mind games will drive u to bat for the other team eventually, man.

seriously though, it doesn't end until u start dating middle aged women that are serious about dating. for now, just run through 'em like french fries.

[QUOTE=diamenz]the passive aggressive mind games will drive u to bat for the other team eventually, man.

seriously though, it doesn't end until u start dating middle aged women that are serious about dating. for now, just run through 'em like french fries.[/QUOTE]

i will never be that aggravated

[QUOTE=PWB15]i just dont get why bitches feel the need to respond to a text if they are not interested. [/QUOTE]
Really? :lol

[QUOTE=dazzer87]Really? :lol[/QUOTE]

no, its borderline retarded

[QUOTE=diamenz]maybe she's dead.[/QUOTE]
I almost spit my drink :oldlol:

[QUOTE=PWB15]looks like its over fellas. Sent a text this morning and never got a reply back. I told yall that this sentence by her in the first text message didnt give me a good feeling

"thanks for checking on me"


The word thanks usually means its over when it comes to a 1st date[/QUOTE]

What did you say?

[QUOTE=Prometheus]What did you say?[/QUOTE]


she said is works as a writer and i decided to sent a playful text early in the day

"oh my bad i didnt mean to text you since im sure you are writing lol So i will call you later"


it probably was a dumb text but im not good at this dating shit.

[QUOTE=PWB15]she said is works as a writer and i decided to sent a playful text early in the day

[B]"oh my bad i didnt mean to text you since im sure you are writing lol So i will call you later"
[/B]

it probably was a dumb text but im not good at this dating shit.[/QUOTE]
Oh, boy :facepalm

Dude, if you don't have anything to say, saying nothing is what you do.

[QUOTE=dunksby]Oh, boy :facepalm

Dude, if you don't have anything to say, saying nothing is what you do.[/QUOTE]

yeah i screwed up

[QUOTE=PWB15]yeah i screwed up[/QUOTE]
As long as you don't make the same mistake twice, at some point you will grow to be decent at the game. So keep playing.

[QUOTE=PWB15]she said is works as a writer and i decided to sent a playful text early in the day

"oh my bad i didnt mean to text you since im sure you are writing lol So i will call you later"


it probably was a dumb text but im not good at this dating shit.[/QUOTE]

:biggums:

I don't want to be mean, so I'm not sure what I can say about that. It seems like you were trying as hard as you can to make her not want you.

It seemed like you came here for guidance. And you got two main pieces of advice...

-some of us said you came across too needy, so try falling back. Don't txt until she does

then the rest of us basically said...

-stop pussyfooting and ask her out. be assertive

I'm just wondering what you were thinking with the most recent move because it honestly seems like you read those two pieces of advice and then tried to come up with a way to do neither.

[QUOTE=PWB15]she said is works as a writer and i decided to sent a playful text early in the day

[B]"oh my bad i didnt mean to text you since im sure you are writing lol So i will call you later"[/B]


it probably was a dumb text but im not good at this dating shit.[/QUOTE]
:facepalm

:facepalm

Are you still trying to read into this?
The fact that this thread went as long as it did without acknowledging anything I posted shows how hopeless you are.

But for the sake of entertainment I'll share this one input. Did it occur to you that it wasn't that one singular text. Maybe [U]she's just not into you[/U]. One awkward text isn't a make it or break it scenario.

Just maintain texting but don't have any expectations. Last time I'll tell you this. You're banking everything on one girl, when the reality is she probably has dozens of guys on the down low all playing the same game. Be normal and don't expect anything of it, and if something happens, be pleasantly surprised.

And just a suggestion: learn to tip. Tipping doesn't impress a girl, but not tipping shows how cheap you potentially can be.

[QUOTE=TheMan]Did you ever date the tranny? If so, were you tops or bottoms?[/QUOTE]

Thats so funny. DaHeezy is a tranny lover. What a pathetic retard :oldlol:

[QUOTE=PWB15]she said is works as a writer and i decided to sent a playful text early in the day

[B]"oh my bad i didnt mean to text you since im sure you are writing lol So i will call you later"

[/B]
it probably was a dumb text but im not good at this dating shit.[/QUOTE]

HAHAHAHAHAHHA THATS SO GODAMN PATHETIC I SPIT OUT MY DRINK :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll:

I would not text you back either holy *** no offense bro.

[QUOTE=PWB15]she said is works as a writer and i decided to sent a playful text early in the day

"oh my bad i didnt mean to text you since im sure you are writing lol So i will call you later"


it probably was a dumb text but im not good at this dating shit.[/QUOTE]

People are giving you a lot of crap for that text :oldlol:

Don't worry man, I have been there. The problem with that text is how would she respond to that? Unless if she knows you well for years and knows you are inexperienced dating-wise and/or socially awkward, she will be confused and irritated. You tried to be playful, but it won't come across that way. It's not funny, and there is nothing for her to respond to.

Don't be apologetic up front unless if she told you she should probably return to writing in middle of a convo (that shows she is not interested in you though so that is not good situation either), but even then don't be apologetic. Just be like "ok np! Talk to you later!" If she likes you though, she will put everything aside to chat with you.

idk if you can ever redeem yourself in her eyes anymore so just forget her unless if she reaches out to you in a few days. Do not call her or initiate text convo with her. If she is a good person, forgiving to your inexperience and likes you enough, she will reach out. Don't count on it.

[QUOTE=bladefd]People are giving you a lot of crap for that text :oldlol:

Don't worry man, I have been there. The problem with that text is how would she respond to that? Unless if she knows you well for years and knows you are inexperienced dating-wise and/or socially awkward, she will be confused and irritated. You tried to be playful, but it won't come across that way. It's not funny, and there is nothing for her to respond to.

Don't be apologetic up front unless if she told you she should probably return to writing in middle of a convo (that shows she is not interested in you though so that is not good situation either), but even then don't be apologetic. Just be like "ok np! Talk to you later!" If she likes you though, she will put everything aside to chat with you.

idk if you can ever redeem yourself in her eyes anymore so just forget her unless if she reaches out to you in a few days. Do not call her or initiate text convo with her. If she is a good person, forgiving to your inexperience and likes you enough, she will reach out. Don't count on it.[/QUOTE]


I lost interest since we haven't talked since sunday night.

The best thing you can really do is just keep trying, keep failing, and making note of what doesn’t work... I told you before that not all girls are the same but you are literally communicating to her that you’re desperate and retarded around girls. It’s fine. Just keep making mental notes of your ****ups and LEARN from your mistakes.

Find a new girl to fail on.

lol oh my bad I didn't mean to text you .. when I read that I picture something like this sending that ..


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[IMG]http://i61.tinypic.com/rtetxs.jpg [/IMG]


[SIZE="4"][B]never apologize to a bitch .. especially for small shit .. you only do that if it's something that genuinely warrants it and the person warrants it[/B][/SIZE]

[QUOTE=Ben Simmons 25]The best thing you can really do is just keep trying, keep failing, and making note of what doesn

[QUOTE=Ben Simmons 25]The best thing you can really do is just keep trying, keep failing, and making note of what doesn