What's the alternative TheGame414?
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What's the alternative TheGame414?
[QUOTE=TheGame414]No, it teaches them that violence is an acceptable solution to problems and that physically intimidating those smaller and weaker than you is perfectly fine.
No, it's child abuse. Physically punishing someone who can't defend themselves, which a child can't against an adult, is abuse.
Even if it's effective, which is debatable at best and downright laughable at worst, that doesn't make it okay. It's lazy and abusive parenting and it's flat wrong.[/QUOTE]
That's how my parents feel. My dad is 6'4" 200 pounds. He hits me once, it won't be pretty. Luckily, my parents are calm people. I never got hit and I became a well-mannered, all-around good young man. Spanking isn't mandatory in bringing up good kids.
[QUOTE=WilliamPhiladelphiaSmith]What's the alternative TheGame414?[/QUOTE]
15 minutes of time-out.:oldlol:
[QUOTE=TheGame414]No, it teaches them that violence is an acceptable solution to problems and that physically intimidating those smaller and weaker than you is perfectly fine.
No, it's child abuse. Physically punishing someone who can't defend themselves, which a child can't against an adult, is abuse.
Even if it's effective, which is debatable at best and downright laughable at worst, that doesn't make it okay. It's lazy and abusive parenting and it's flat wrong.[/QUOTE]
So what ways would you discipline your kid? Taking away his PS3? No sprinkles on his ice cream?
My parents never hit me, but I wish they did. If somehow I ever have a son, he's gonna get his ass beat if he deserves it.
[QUOTE=TheGame414]No, it teaches them that violence is an acceptable solution to problems and that physically intimidating those smaller and weaker than you is perfectly fine.
No, it's child abuse. Physically punishing someone who can't defend themselves, which a child can't against an adult, is abuse.
Even if it's effective, which is debatable at best and downright laughable at worst, that doesn't make it okay. It's lazy and abusive parenting and it's flat wrong.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=White Chocolate]That's how my parents feel. My dad is 6'4" 200 pounds. He hits me once, it won't be pretty. Luckily, my parents are calm people. I never got hit and I became a well-mannered, all-around good young man. Spanking isn't mandatory in bringing up good kids.[/QUOTE]
I'm not saying you hit your kids at the first sign of wrongdoing. If it's a repeated action, and grounding/"go to your room" time/lecturing just doesn't work, you have to find a way to show them that what they're doing isn't right and deserves punishment. I'm not a father, but I have very young cousins (7 and 5) and nothing puts them straight further than "threatening to call their father." I was the same way as a kid. Kids learn best by fear -- again, it shouldn't happen all the time (I've gotten hit less than 6 or 7 times by my parents) but the threat should be there so they know it could happen. Then it gets to a point where just the thought of it happening will steer them straight. I don't condone child abuse whatsoever. Spankings or slaps on the wrist are part of effective parenting when used sparingly.
[QUOTE=TheGame414]No, it teaches them that violence is an acceptable solution to problems and that physically intimidating those smaller and weaker than you is perfectly fine.
No, it's child abuse. Physically punishing someone who can't defend themselves, which a child can't against an adult, is abuse.
Even if it's effective, which is debatable at best and downright laughable at worst, that doesn't make it okay. It's lazy and abusive parenting and it's flat wrong.[/QUOTE]
Who the F*ck are you?
belt. It was so funny when I was 5 and at my friends house he did something wrong so his dad went to go get the belt and he was crying and freaking out and I asked whats wrong and he said his dad was going to get his belt. it was hilarious looking back on it. he was so afraid of it he ran around the house to get away from it. He pleaded to his dad not to do it.
[QUOTE=L.Kizzle]Sorry my ass, in the room now!
[IMG]http://www.unionblue.net/productdata/thumbs/181243021606.jpg[/IMG][/QUOTE]
no belt please! :cry:
[IMG]http://www.benettontalk.com/kids-spanking.jpg[/IMG]
sorry:cry: :cry:
[QUOTE=Quickness]belt. It was so funny when I was 5 and at my friends house he did something wrong so his dad went to go get the belt and he was crying and freaking out and I asked whats wrong and he said his dad was going to get his belt. it was hilarious looking back on it. he was so afraid of it he ran around the house to get away from it. He pleaded to his dad not to do it.[/QUOTE]
Haha that reminded me of the scene in Mr. Deeds where the football player's dad finds out his son swore in front of a girl.
"You used foul language in front of a lady?"
(pulls off belt)
"NO DADDY, NO!!!!!"
On a side note... I have discovered that if you threaten to take
away toys/ trick-or-treating privledges/ gifts from Santa/ television/
and junk food etc. .... It is 10x more effective than the belt.
If they act like it's no big deal after that... The Belt is the last resort.
[QUOTE=J_Rock3ts]Haha that reminded me of the scene in Mr. Deeds where the football player's dad finds out his son swore in front of a girl.
"You used foul language in front of a lady?"
(pulls off belt)
"NO DADDY, NO!!!!!"[/QUOTE]
dude both his parents were like 5' tall
[QUOTE=Quickness]dude both his parents were like 5' tall[/QUOTE]
That's like Danny DeVito whipping with you with his belt. Granted the kid will be taller by the time he's 10.
[QUOTE=Doomsday Dallas]On a side note... I have discovered that if you threaten to take
away toys/ trick-or-treating privledges/ gifts from Santa/ television/
and junk food etc. .... It is 10x more effective than the belt.
If they act like it's no big deal after that... The Belt is the last resort.[/QUOTE]
well without income you won't be able to buy those in the first play so I suppose your quite a good parent
[QUOTE=Doomsday Dallas]On a side note... I have discovered that if you threaten to take
away toys/ trick-or-treating privledges/ gifts from Santa/ television/
and junk food etc. .... It is 10x more effective than the belt.
If they act like it's no big deal after that... The Belt is the last resort.[/QUOTE]
That's exactly what I said in my post towards TheGame414. Just beating your child is barbaric, but if you use it strategically, nothing rights a kid faster. Normal kids anyway.
[QUOTE=Quickness]well without income you won't be able to buy those in the first play so I suppose your quite a good parent[/QUOTE]
Oh that's right... I forgot, people have a vision of me being trailer trash.
I have only gotten beaten twice.
I have gotten lemon juice squirted in my mouth and soap in my mouth as well.
I was spanked once b/c I ran across the street when I was 3 when I had been told multiple times not too.
Then my mom hit me in the ass with her brush when I was about 10 years old b/c I kept putting off my chores. Hit me with the bristles too. That hurt.
I have been locked in a closet before. That was scary as **** b/c I was scared of the dark then.
ah dooms im sorry man your fun to pick on :cheers:
can't help it, its more of a to just be a ******* not because I hate you
[QUOTE=picc84]Your dad whipped you for getting with a girl? Whats up with that.[/QUOTE]
I was like 9. He must have thought we were making out. Not sayin we weren't, though...
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Haha, that's old-school. "The Knee". Doesn't hurt that much, though.
[QUOTE=Richie2k6]I was like 9. He must have thought we were making out. Not sayin we weren't, though...[/QUOTE]
your hormones kicked in real early. but once they kick in how can one be held accountable for there actions :(
[QUOTE=Hawker]I have only gotten beaten twice.
I have gotten lemon juice squirted in my mouth and soap in my mouth as well.
I was spanked once b/c I ran across the street when I was 3 when I had been told multiple times not too.
Then my mom hit me in the ass with her brush when I was about 10 years old b/c I kept putting off my chores. Hit me with the bristles too. That hurt.
I have been locked in a closet before. That was scary as **** b/c I was scared of the dark then.[/QUOTE]
Locked in a closet? :roll: I'm not going to lie, I would have freaked out as a kid too.
[QUOTE=Quickness]ah dooms im sorry man your fun to pick on :cheers:
can't help it, its more of a to just be a ******* not because I hate you[/QUOTE]
Yea I know you don't hate me...
That's just TMOGE.
Money aint the problem in my life.... You just reminded me of something...
I need to start a Citizen Kane thread.
[QUOTE=Hawker]I have only gotten beaten twice.
I have gotten lemon juice squirted in my mouth and soap in my mouth as well.
I was spanked once b/c I ran across the street when I was 3 when I had been told multiple times not too.
Then my mom hit me in the ass with her brush when I was about 10 years old b/c I kept putting off my chores. Hit me with the bristles too. That hurt.
I have been locked in a closet before. That was scary as **** b/c I was scared of the dark then.[/QUOTE]
your mom should do that when your acting up in front of company and before she lets you out of the closet she should make you say "Im coming out of the closet" or something that sounds homo. I don't know just hearing a kid say that would make me laugh.
[QUOTE=Doomsday Dallas]Yea I know you don't hate me...
That's just TMOGE.[/QUOTE]
na dude seriously your fun to rip on
Honestly, I dont think physical abuse is really necessary. I was never physically abused and I came out fine. I'd just take away privileges and ground for an extended period of time.
[QUOTE=J_Rock3ts]Locked in a closet? :roll: I'm not going to lie, I would have freaked out as a kid too.[/QUOTE]
My brother and I wouldnt stop fighting and my mom had enough of it. We both got locked in separate closets.
[QUOTE=Hawker]Honestly, I dont think physical abuse is really necessary. I was never physically abused and I came out fine. I'd just take away privileges and ground for an extended period of time.[/QUOTE]
Just to follow up, what if that doesn't work on a kid? Then do you condone mild physical punishment?
well the only time I was ever spanked and belted was when I was 4. I have really not had much discipline but I actually turned out kind of well, Even if you guys don't think so.
[QUOTE=J_Rock3ts]Just to follow up, what if that doesn't work on a kid? Then do you condone mild physical punishment?[/QUOTE]
Maybe...It would be up to me and his mother.
[QUOTE=Hawker]Honestly, I dont think physical abuse is really necessary. [B]I was never physically abused and I came out fine[/B]. I'd just take away privileges and ground for an extended period of time.[/QUOTE]
:stewie
[QUOTE=Hawker]Honestly, I dont think physical abuse is really necessary. I was never physically abused and I came out fine. I'd just take away privileges and ground for an extended period of time.[/QUOTE]
Uh, no, based on your posts I wouldn't critique you as fine.
More like semi-academically intelligent, SOFT, sexually-oriented ambiguosly, wimpy, physically challenged, oasis ******ging clown.
Guys report back in fifteen years to have a father2father compraison ;p
[QUOTE=WilliamPhiladelphiaSmith]Uh, no, based on your posts I wouldn't critique you as fine.
More like semi-academically intelligent, SOFT, sexually-oriented ambiguosly, wimpy, physically challenged, oasis ******ging clown.
Guys report back in fifteen years to have a father2father compraison ;p[/QUOTE]
I think he turned out fine
[QUOTE=Doomsday Dallas]Yea I know you don't hate me...
That's just TMOGE.
Money aint the problem in my life.... You just reminded me of something...
I need to start a Citizen Kane thread.[/QUOTE]
Citizen who?
[QUOTE=WilliamPhiladelphiaSmith]Uh, no, [B]based on your posts[/B] I wouldn't critique you as fine.
More like semi-academically intelligent, SOFT, sexually-oriented ambiguosly, wimpy, physically challenged, oasis ******ging clown.
Guys report back in fifteen years to have a father2father compraison ;p[/QUOTE]
What great evidence.:sleeping
I wasnt the one that needed to be beaten. Looks like you are the one isnt fine.
Soft? Wimpy? Are these actual disses? Get a life, kid. Better yet, graduate from high school first.
Oh, and based on your posts, you model your life after the fresh prince of bel-air. Who is the soft one again? If you dont know what I am talking about then just insert the "FRESH PRINCE THEME SONG" tape into your early '90s walkman and listen.
[QUOTE=Quickness]na dude seriously your fun to rip on[/QUOTE]
Well it's fun to ripped on from time to time... just don't
make it a habit.
[QUOTE=Doomsday Dallas]Well it's fun to ripped on from time to time... just don't
make it a habit.[/QUOTE]
its hard not to :oldlol:
[QUOTE=Hawker]What great evidence.:sleeping
I wasnt the one that needed to be beaten. Looks like you are the one isnt fine.
Soft? Wimpy? Are these actual disses? Get a life, kid. Better yet, graduate from high school first.
Oh, and based on your posts, you model your life after the fresh prince of bel-air. Who is the soft one again? If you dont know what I am talking about then just insert the "FRESH PRINCE THEME SONG" tape into your early '90s walkman and listen.[/QUOTE]
:confusedshrug: ..... :sleeping
[QUOTE=statman32]:confusedshrug: ..... :sleeping[/QUOTE]
Statman living up to his reputation once again.
You were doing it with GOBB now you are attempting to do it with williamphiladelphiasmith. Couldve seen this coming a mile away.
[QUOTE=WilliamPhiladelphiaSmith]What's the alternative TheGame414?[/QUOTE]You seriously need to question if there's an alternative to physical abuse?
Really?
[QUOTE=Hawker]Statman living up to his reputation once again.
You were doing it with GOBB now you are attempting to do it with williamphiladelphiasmith. Couldve seen this coming a mile away.[/QUOTE]
:oldlol: Whats stuck up your ass??? You watch the A&M game tonight??
[QUOTE=TheGame414]You seriously need to question if there's an alternative to physical abuse?
Really?[/QUOTE]
He means when all else fails, do you continue to use disciplinary action that repeatedly fails? When does it come to the point where you have to start using force to prove your point?