[QUOTE=L.Kizzle]Sorry my ass, in the room now!
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:roll: Bad experiences huh? :oldlol:
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[QUOTE=L.Kizzle]Sorry my ass, in the room now!
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:roll: Bad experiences huh? :oldlol:
[QUOTE=Richie2k6]I didn't know white parents owned belts.
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They do, but it's only to keep up their britches.
[QUOTE=Richie2k6]My dad caught me with a girl in my backyard when I was like 10. We stopped right before he came but he could obviously tell we were up to something. Sent her home, brought me inside, and told me he was going to chop my fingers off. Seriously. I was so scared, begging my mom to tell him not to, but of course he didn't. Just sat me down, put my arm on the table, got the belt, end of story.
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Your dad whipped you for getting with a girl? Whats up with that.
[QUOTE=L.Kizzle]Sorry my ass, in the room now!
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[QUOTE=L.Kizzle]I know everyone here's got whipped before[/QUOTE]No, sorry. No child abuse in my family.
[QUOTE=Chocogrease]Hello 911
Yes, what is your emergency?
I'm here to report domestic violence and child abuse.
Victim's name?
L. Kizzle, Richie2k6, Statman32...
Anyways, the only punishment I ever got was taking away food and that just made me cry cause I was hungry.[/QUOTE]
:wtf: Thats worse than getting the belt. Starving your kids??? DAYUM!!!
[QUOTE=TheGame414]No, sorry. No child abuse in my family.[/QUOTE]
I think the world would be a better place if more people got their asses kicked as kids. It teaches them that every wrongdoing leads to a punishment. As long as it's not over the top, I think it's fine.
Speaking of hitting kids, what do you guys think about Massachusetts outlawing spanking? It may even spread to each state.
[QUOTE=TheGame414]No, sorry. No child abuse in my family.[/QUOTE]
it's not chilid abuse, its good parenting.
[QUOTE=J_Rock3ts]I think the world would be a better place if more people got their asses kicked as kids. It teaches them that every wrongdoing leads to a punishment. As long as it's not over the top, I think it's fine.[/QUOTE]No, it teaches them that violence is an acceptable solution to problems and that physically intimidating those smaller and weaker than you is perfectly fine.
[QUOTE=Wadeisabeast]it's not chilid abuse, its good parenting.[/QUOTE]No, it's child abuse. Physically punishing someone who can't defend themselves, which a child can't against an adult, is abuse.
Even if it's effective, which is debatable at best and downright laughable at worst, that doesn't make it okay. It's lazy and abusive parenting and it's flat wrong.
What's the alternative TheGame414?
[QUOTE=TheGame414]No, it teaches them that violence is an acceptable solution to problems and that physically intimidating those smaller and weaker than you is perfectly fine.
No, it's child abuse. Physically punishing someone who can't defend themselves, which a child can't against an adult, is abuse.
Even if it's effective, which is debatable at best and downright laughable at worst, that doesn't make it okay. It's lazy and abusive parenting and it's flat wrong.[/QUOTE]
That's how my parents feel. My dad is 6'4" 200 pounds. He hits me once, it won't be pretty. Luckily, my parents are calm people. I never got hit and I became a well-mannered, all-around good young man. Spanking isn't mandatory in bringing up good kids.
[QUOTE=WilliamPhiladelphiaSmith]What's the alternative TheGame414?[/QUOTE]
15 minutes of time-out.:oldlol:
[QUOTE=TheGame414]No, it teaches them that violence is an acceptable solution to problems and that physically intimidating those smaller and weaker than you is perfectly fine.
No, it's child abuse. Physically punishing someone who can't defend themselves, which a child can't against an adult, is abuse.
Even if it's effective, which is debatable at best and downright laughable at worst, that doesn't make it okay. It's lazy and abusive parenting and it's flat wrong.[/QUOTE]
So what ways would you discipline your kid? Taking away his PS3? No sprinkles on his ice cream?
My parents never hit me, but I wish they did. If somehow I ever have a son, he's gonna get his ass beat if he deserves it.
[QUOTE=TheGame414]No, it teaches them that violence is an acceptable solution to problems and that physically intimidating those smaller and weaker than you is perfectly fine.
No, it's child abuse. Physically punishing someone who can't defend themselves, which a child can't against an adult, is abuse.
Even if it's effective, which is debatable at best and downright laughable at worst, that doesn't make it okay. It's lazy and abusive parenting and it's flat wrong.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=White Chocolate]That's how my parents feel. My dad is 6'4" 200 pounds. He hits me once, it won't be pretty. Luckily, my parents are calm people. I never got hit and I became a well-mannered, all-around good young man. Spanking isn't mandatory in bringing up good kids.[/QUOTE]
I'm not saying you hit your kids at the first sign of wrongdoing. If it's a repeated action, and grounding/"go to your room" time/lecturing just doesn't work, you have to find a way to show them that what they're doing isn't right and deserves punishment. I'm not a father, but I have very young cousins (7 and 5) and nothing puts them straight further than "threatening to call their father." I was the same way as a kid. Kids learn best by fear -- again, it shouldn't happen all the time (I've gotten hit less than 6 or 7 times by my parents) but the threat should be there so they know it could happen. Then it gets to a point where just the thought of it happening will steer them straight. I don't condone child abuse whatsoever. Spankings or slaps on the wrist are part of effective parenting when used sparingly.