Knowing your girlfriends sexual past, good or bad idea?

[QUOTE=Raz]A lot of you sound insecure - searching for virgins. You may as well all convert to being Muslims.[/QUOTE]

:rolleyes: No one said anything about virgins. Every guy expects a girl to have a past but 80 different partners is a shit load especially while still in the 20's. There's being insecure and then there's identifying a pattern and seeing a problem. I think 80 dudes falls under the latter.

I would say the same about a guy having 80 different women. I have two buddies that are like that and try to increase their number every chance they get. After seeing them with so many different girls I always feel bad for the next, and they probably don't come close to 80 combined.

a necessary evil. people can change.. but they usually don't. and bad habits stay bad habits and they come creeping back with a vengeance...

[QUOTE=JEFFERSON MONEY]a necessary evil. people can change.. but they usually don't. and bad habits stay bad habits and they come creeping back with a vengeance...[/QUOTE]

well said .. eventually .. always .. at some point .. having a pattern of banging that many people will show up again no doubt .. I don't believe at all that a chick like that will stay faithful in the long haul

[QUOTE=dude77]you're right in that he should've never probed further into it .. let the past stay where it is, the past .. he liked everything about her .. great .. but he did find out .. it's done .. now he knows .. now he knows what most guys would dread knowing .. it's out in the open .. you don't have a problem knowing that your bride to be has had 80+ cocks in her snatch, mouth, ass ?

and how do you know she hasn't cheated on him .. her reputation says otherwise ..

his 'lady' has been used and abused like a cuum rag .. like an escort .. that's what his gf basically was before him .. an escort .. no, she was worse than an escort because she probably didn't get paid for each of those encounters :oldlol: .. would you marry an escort ? if you would, props to you for overlooking that .. but most men wouldn't[/QUOTE]

You're just making up stuff as you post. How do we know he isnt bisexual and likes it up the ass more than getting blowjobs huh? You see, I can add stuff as I post to sound like a moron too. Only you do it naturally. Good job, good effort.

[QUOTE=lakers_forever]But is there a limit, Myth? I think this "Oh, but she makes me happy" thing is just an easy and cute thing to say.[/QUOTE]

There probably is a limit. I don't know what it is, because it depends on my reaction in the actual event of finding out such info. If I can handle the info and my life remains good with the girl, then fine. If I can't handle the info and it wears on my psyche, then it becomes a deal breaker. 80 very well may be above my limit already, but I'm not ending a relationship based on a number, I would end the relationship based on my reaction to the number.

[QUOTE=lakers_forever] Would you have a serious relationship with a girl ho was gang banged by 5 guys at the same time? [/QUOTE]

Yes. But again, it depends on my reaction to knowing such info. Part of my reaction would likely depend on how long ago it was. If it was something she tried 10 years ago, that would be easier to get past and just attribute to her past. If she did that 10 days before we dated, I'm pretty sure my reaction would be to get away fast.

[QUOTE=lakers_forever]What about a girl that had "sex" with a dog or a girl who, in her 20's, used to have regular sex with her brother?[/QUOTE]

No and no. I am positive I would have a negative reaction to those that I couldn't get over. I have strong moral objections to both of those behaviors. Having sex with multiple people is something I can understand, because it is something I could see myself doing, although not to the same level.

[QUOTE=lakers_forever]I sure as hell would not a serious relationship with a girl who has slept with 80 guys, much less one of the others scenarios.[/QUOTE]

I probably wouldn't either, but it isn't an automatic deal breaker. As I said, my reaction dictates if I will be with somebody, not a number.

[QUOTE=GOBB]You're just making up stuff as you post. How do we know he isnt bisexual and likes it up the ass more than getting blowjobs huh? You see, I can add stuff as I post to sound like a moron too. Only you do it naturally. Good job, good effort.[/QUOTE]

:facepalm [I]the point is[/I] .. if it's true that she's been with 80+ men .. she's damaged goods .. no, calling her damaged goods would be a compliment

[QUOTE=Riddler]

I've had my fare share of women... and I always bring this topic to the table within the first week or two...
and it's not always because I'm concerned, sometimes there just isn't anything else interesting to talk about...

Sex is a fun subject to bring up when you're having a boring conversation.

[/QUOTE]

Very true. As I said earlier, I always talk about sexual past with a girl I care about because I am curious about her experiences. As you said, sex is a fun subject. I'd hate to be in a relationship for 3 years and never have been open enough to talk about sexual experiences. I'm not marrying a girl that I feel like certain subjects have to be avoided forever.

80 sounds like a lot, but truthfully any nearly 30 year old woman who is reasonably good-looking and goes clubbing can bed 80 guys without much effort. It takes more effort for a guy to bed 80 women, than a woman to bed 80 guys. A single woman who wants no attachments can get laid every weekend she goes out. That's 4 guys in a month, 48 guys just in a year. Sounds slutty, but not crazy to imagine depending on the female. I dated a girl years ago who I know was sexually liberated (i.e been around a few times), but hey it wasn't like I was a virgin and we had fun.

What about how many guys they've sucked off? I guarantee you women will lie about that 100% of the time. My girlfriend was a pro at it after the first time but I don't even want to know how often she's done it.

[QUOTE=Myth]There probably is a limit. I don't know what it is, because it depends on my reaction in the actual event of finding out such info. If I can handle the info and my life remains good with the girl, then fine. If I can't handle the info and it wears on my psyche, then it becomes a deal breaker. 80 very well may be above my limit already, but I'm not ending a relationship based on a number, I would end the relationship based on my reaction to the number.



Yes. But again, it depends on my reaction to knowing such info. Part of my reaction would likely depend on how long ago it was. If it was something she tried 10 years ago, that would be easier to get past and just attribute to her past. If she did that 10 days before we dated, I'm pretty sure my reaction would be to get away fast.



No and no. I am positive I would have a negative reaction to those that I couldn't get over. I have strong moral objections to both of those behaviors. Having sex with multiple people is something I can understand, because it is something I could see myself doing, although not to the same level.



I probably wouldn't either, but it isn't an automatic deal breaker. As I said, my reaction dictates if I will be with somebody, not a number.[/QUOTE]

Thanks for the honest replies. :cheers:

[QUOTE=lakers_forever]Thanks for the honest replies. :cheers:[/QUOTE]

:cheers:

80 dudes?!? And she tells me 3 years later?

Yea...if it was me finding that out, our relationship's future would look very very bleak

I don't care if she did weekly double anals after morning oatmeal. Her past is her past.

Besides, I know for a fact none of the women I've slept with really want the scoop on the many chances I've taken with the well-being of my dick.

This thread reminds me of: [url]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tpQqH4H_SUQ[/url]

[QUOTE=Rake2204]This thread reminds me of: [url]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tpQqH4H_SUQ[/url][/QUOTE]


:roll: I remember this .. definitely fits the thread

edit: except for the [I]snowballing[/I] part :eek:

[QUOTE=Rake2204]This thread reminds me of: [url]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tpQqH4H_SUQ[/url][/QUOTE]

I was hoping they included the final part to that clip. :oldlol:

[QUOTE=-p.tiddy-]If I have slept with a woman I think I can get a decent gauge on how many men she has been with without her telling me a damn thing...

It's usually pretty obvious when a girl has been around...



If you really "know" her then it should be fairly obvious I think[/QUOTE]

Yeah...

and it shouldn't really matter, depending. As long as she's not all used up. If her body is still alright who cares?

I used to be all jelly when I was a teen. I'd be worried about what lead her to do that, but it's just the same as anything else. She could have been a drug addict, too, would you forgive that?

I don't think many girls have slept with 240 men. haha 80 I don't even believe. In fact I believe that once you went over a certain number you wouldn't even be able to count them. Think about it, can you count all of the girls you've known in your life?

It's like looking back and trying to remember how many times you *********ed or how many times you smoked weed. Not to mention she probably wasn't sober. 80 guys is a lot of guys, though, no doubt. Most of the sluts I know don't even KNOW 80 guys. That's some serious party/bar hopping/one night stand shit. You can't fulfill that number with people you actually know.

-Smak

[QUOTE=Myth]I was hoping they included the final part to that clip. :oldlol:[/QUOTE]

ah I saw this awhile back .. what was it ?

80 d*cks? That's a... fair amount of d*cks to say the least :oldlol:

That amounts to 16 basketball teams' starting lineup. Think about next time you look at your girl. Personally, I can't see myself marrying a chick who f*cked the starting 5 of the entire Eastern Conference of the NBA... plus one more team from the west.

Whole lotta d*cks on that resume.

[QUOTE=dude77]ah I saw this awhile back .. what was it ?[/QUOTE]

I was referring to what the clip included at the end with the guy standing outside the store. When I said "I was hoping," I meant while I was watching.

Another clip that is relevant (posted on ISH before): [url]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HLT-zI1tPxA[/url]

[QUOTE=Myth]I was referring to what the clip included at the end with the guy standing outside the store. When I said "I was hoping," I meant while I was watching.[/QUOTE]


got ya

[QUOTE=The Macho Man]Puts you in good company though.

Lebron:bowdown:
Melo:bowdown:
5 guys in Charlotte:bowdown:[/QUOTE]

Only one can get mine:

[IMG]http://media.tumblr.com/tumblr_lh3z4gEphx1qbv8q9.png[/IMG]

Then I can raise the child they produce, name him Jesus, the son of Godbe... born by immaculate conception. Then sit back and watch that NBA money roll in :pimp:

[QUOTE=Rake2204]This thread reminds me of: [url]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tpQqH4H_SUQ[/url][/QUOTE]

IN A ROW? :lol

There are a lot of the following types of people in this thread:
-virgins
-people from the bible belt
-virgins
-hypocrites (they think it's ok for a guy to have a lot of partners, but not a girl)

Let's see... I am 30, and I am currently in a 3 and a 1/2 year relationship. I have been in a 3 year relationship, a 9 month relationship, and a 6 month relationship. That's 4 women over 7 years and 9 months. You wanna know how many women fall outside of those times? It would be around about 36 (not sure on exact details - I started making a list awhile ago, and there are a few I'm forgetting for sure).

I started at 17 (just before my 18th birthday), so 36 women over 5 years. That's me going out most weekends with friends and trying to pick up probably 70% of the time. If a women had the same mindset as me, they could easily clock 80. Again, a lot of you are very judgemental, jealous, insecure types.

[QUOTE=DonDadda59]80 d*cks? That's a... fair amount of d*cks to say the least :oldlol:

That amounts to 16 basketball teams' starting lineup. Think about next time you look at your girl. Personally, I can't see myself marrying a chick who f*cked the starting 5 of the entire Eastern Conference of the NBA... plus one more team from the west.

Whole lotta d*cks on that resume.[/QUOTE]

:lol

[QUOTE=DonDadda59]80 d*cks? That's a... fair amount of d*cks to say the least :oldlol:

That amounts to 16 basketball teams' starting lineup. Think about next time you look at your girl. Personally, I can't see myself marrying a chick who f*cked the starting 5 of the entire Eastern Conference of the NBA... plus one more team from the west.

Whole lotta d*cks on that resume.[/QUOTE]

Ha, that is a funny way to think about it.

[QUOTE=Raz]There are a lot of the following types of people in this thread:
-virgins
-people from the bible belt
-virgins
-hypocrites (they think it's ok for a guy to have a lot of partners, but not a girl)

Let's see... I am 30, and I am currently in a 3 and a 1/2 year relationship. I have been in a 3 year relationship, a 9 month relationship, and a 6 month relationship. That's 4 women over 7 years and 9 months. You wanna know how many women fall outside of those times? It would be around about 36 (not sure on exact details - I started making a list awhile ago, and there are a few I'm forgetting for sure).

I started at 17 (just before my 18th birthday), so 36 women over 5 years. That's me going out most weekends with friends and trying to pick up probably 70% of the time. If a women had the same mindset as me, they could easily clock 80. Again, a lot of you are very judgemental, jealous, insecure types.[/QUOTE]

I wouldn't want my wife to have had 80 people prior to me. Outside of the disease possibility, a woman with 80 partners over a short time strikes me as just not selective enough for my tastes. I'd like her to have some standards higher than "has *****".

It doesn't bother you, that doesn't mean it's not a criteria that matters. Now, some of the people in this tread seem to want virginal women which strikes me as delusional and just i don't get why? But i think having a vague number somewhere between 0 and 80 is ok. not having one is ok, but having one is ok too.

My wife was kind of irritated that i seemed to have dated ever girl we passed near where i used to teach. Her point was it was prior, but it probably meant that i just grabbed anything that moved, which personality wise maybe meant i wasn't what she though. (i didn't, just a very terrible coincidence for me).

I almost hate to disagree with you though because you are so much more reasonable about these things taht a lot of people in ISH. :lol You missed some discussions in your time gone that your head would have exploded from the stupidity.