Some other 35 yo loser is going to tear that ***** up now. You just ruined someone else's marriage, fool.
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Some other 35 yo loser is going to tear that ***** up now. You just ruined someone else's marriage, fool.
[QUOTE=HardwoodLegend]What's in it for the co-worker? You said she's going traveling in two weeks and will be gone for a long time, so why would she bang an old dude who's beneath her in the sociosexual hierarchy?
Do yourself a favor and watch the film 'Scarlet Street' to see why you did the right thing.[/QUOTE]
I am getting some great laughs at some of these posts.
She would ''BANG'' me because I have still have some game. Also you might be surprised, slightly older men with a bit of money and experience are very attractive to younger women. However, I think she didn't want a long term relationship with me,just an experience.
[QUOTE=SUNNYSIDEUP]So here is the story/problem.
I am a happy married man with a great wife and a awesome four year old, but I want more. I have been working closely with an incredibly good looking 25 year who most would think is out of my league. She is ten years my junior. She wanted our relationship to go to the next level, I mean she describes what she wants me to do to her and the shit is crazy good.
My life used to have excitement now it is rather mundane, this girl makes me feel young again.
So staff party was yesterday(wife was out of town) and she wants to slow dance with me in front of all my work colleagues, of course I said no and we had a big fight. She is leaving the office and I may never see her again.
I am in love with her and feel like a wimp for not sealing the deal, however there would be bad consequences if I did.
Do you think I made a mistake not sleeping with her?[/QUOTE]
You're an ass. You are not just cheating on you're wife, you are also cheating on your kid.
You're a horrible dad, and I feel sorry for your kid.
[QUOTE=n00bie]You're an ass. You are not just cheating on you're wife, you are also cheating on your kid.
You're a horrible dad, and I feel sorry for your kid.[/QUOTE]
I am afraid noobie I may have hit a sore spot with you. I hope I did not bring up some old memories that made you feel unwanted/unloved.
[QUOTE=SUNNYSIDEUP]I am getting some great laughs at some of these posts.
She would ''BANG'' me because I have still have some game. Also you might be surprised, slightly older men with a bit of money and experience are very attractive to younger women. [B]However, I think she didn't want a long term relationship with me,just an experience.[/B][/QUOTE]
hook line and sinker.
[QUOTE=SUNNYSIDEUP]I am afraid noobie I may have hit a sore spot with you. I hope I did not bring up some old memories that made you feel unwanted/unloved.[/QUOTE]
He's right though, you're kind of pathetic and I feel sorry for your kid as well. And this is coming from a person who has a great father, something you're not.
If you want to sleep with another women, divorce first.
What do you want more? Drama? The possible loss of access to your four year old? Your great marriage to turn to shit? To pay half your income to your wife while she ****s other guys?
All of these are viable outcomes of this. Plus the girl isn't exactly going to keep you on the down low, she went mental that you wouldn't so something that would have got you in trouble.
Sex is fleeting, ****ing up your marriage for something short term makes no sense.
you already know you gonna sleep with her. just embrace it and do it/her. no free will bro, just instincts.
[QUOTE=millwad]He's right though, you're kind of pathetic and I feel sorry for your kid as well. And this is coming from a person who has a great father, something you're not.
If you want to sleep with another women, divorce first.[/QUOTE]
Well Millwad, I am still a man. If you become an asexual being that's your prerogative.
When you grow up I hope you think back to this tread and try and to be a little more open minded.
[QUOTE=SUNNYSIDEUP]Well Millwad, I am still a man. If you become an asexual being that's your prerogative.
When you grow up I hope you think back to this tread and try and to be a little more open minded.[/QUOTE]
You have a four year old and you're considering to bang some chick from work because you're bored. You're a moron. I LIKE MY LIFE BUT I AM CONSIDERING ****ING IT UP, WHAT SHOULD I DO?
I say go for it, people tend to do what they want, i've seen so many people do this and then come crying (literally) I LOVE HER SO MUCH WHY DID SHE LEAVE ME? The best is the dads who get to see their Kids once a month so the kid's don't listen to them anymore.
:cheers:
Remember wanting to do something and actually doing it are two different things.
[QUOTE=SUNNYSIDEUP]Remember wanting to do something and actually doing it are two different things.[/QUOTE]
I have plenty of girls I've "wanted" to ****, asking someone if you should after you are already discussing it with them is a bit more, no?
[QUOTE=SUNNYSIDEUP]So here is the story/problem.
[B]I am a happy married man with a great wife and a awesome four year old[/B], but I want more. I have been working closely with an incredibly good looking 25 year who most would think is out of my league. She is ten years my junior. She wanted our relationship to go to the next level, I mean she describes what she wants me to do to her and the shit is crazy good.
My life used to have excitement now it is rather mundane, this girl makes me feel young again.
So staff party was yesterday(wife was out of town) and she wants to slow dance with me in front of all my work colleagues, of course I said no and we had a big fight. She is leaving the office and I may never see her again.
I am in love with her and feel like a wimp for not sealing the deal, however there would be bad consequences if I did.
Do you think I made a mistake not sleeping with her?[/QUOTE]
Nope, you're not.
[QUOTE=SUNNYSIDEUP]I am getting some great laughs at some of these posts.
She would ''BANG'' me because I have still have some game. Also you might be surprised, slightly older men with a bit of money and experience are very attractive to younger women. However, I think she didn't want a long term relationship with me,just an experience.[/QUOTE]
I'm not surprised. But, they usually are attracted to types like you for long-term stability and go behind your back for rendezvous with the pool cleaning Cabana boys. Or, maybe I'm not aware that there are also fleeting sexual fantasies women have about older men.
[QUOTE=The Macho Man]Also doing something and getting caught are two different things ;)[/QUOTE]
It's not worth it. No **** is worth losing your wife, having to pay her to not be with you, and also not see your kids. OP trying to **** up his job too, I'm sure they'd love the drama.
People didn't get laid enough in their life prior to marriage, sex you do it, you're done, you move on. Saying you have a wonderful 4 year old but you may beed to cheat anyone either shows great immaturity or you're just thinking what you are missing is worht it.