Sent a text after the 1st date and does this response mean she is interested?

[QUOTE=diamenz]maybe she's dead.[/QUOTE]
I almost spit my drink :oldlol:

[QUOTE=PWB15]looks like its over fellas. Sent a text this morning and never got a reply back. I told yall that this sentence by her in the first text message didnt give me a good feeling

"thanks for checking on me"


The word thanks usually means its over when it comes to a 1st date[/QUOTE]

What did you say?

[QUOTE=Prometheus]What did you say?[/QUOTE]


she said is works as a writer and i decided to sent a playful text early in the day

"oh my bad i didnt mean to text you since im sure you are writing lol So i will call you later"


it probably was a dumb text but im not good at this dating shit.

[QUOTE=PWB15]she said is works as a writer and i decided to sent a playful text early in the day

[B]"oh my bad i didnt mean to text you since im sure you are writing lol So i will call you later"
[/B]

it probably was a dumb text but im not good at this dating shit.[/QUOTE]
Oh, boy :facepalm

Dude, if you don't have anything to say, saying nothing is what you do.

[QUOTE=dunksby]Oh, boy :facepalm

Dude, if you don't have anything to say, saying nothing is what you do.[/QUOTE]

yeah i screwed up

[QUOTE=PWB15]yeah i screwed up[/QUOTE]
As long as you don't make the same mistake twice, at some point you will grow to be decent at the game. So keep playing.

[QUOTE=PWB15]she said is works as a writer and i decided to sent a playful text early in the day

"oh my bad i didnt mean to text you since im sure you are writing lol So i will call you later"


it probably was a dumb text but im not good at this dating shit.[/QUOTE]

:biggums:

I don't want to be mean, so I'm not sure what I can say about that. It seems like you were trying as hard as you can to make her not want you.

It seemed like you came here for guidance. And you got two main pieces of advice...

-some of us said you came across too needy, so try falling back. Don't txt until she does

then the rest of us basically said...

-stop pussyfooting and ask her out. be assertive

I'm just wondering what you were thinking with the most recent move because it honestly seems like you read those two pieces of advice and then tried to come up with a way to do neither.

[QUOTE=PWB15]she said is works as a writer and i decided to sent a playful text early in the day

[B]"oh my bad i didnt mean to text you since im sure you are writing lol So i will call you later"[/B]


it probably was a dumb text but im not good at this dating shit.[/QUOTE]
:facepalm

:facepalm

Are you still trying to read into this?
The fact that this thread went as long as it did without acknowledging anything I posted shows how hopeless you are.

But for the sake of entertainment I'll share this one input. Did it occur to you that it wasn't that one singular text. Maybe [U]she's just not into you[/U]. One awkward text isn't a make it or break it scenario.

Just maintain texting but don't have any expectations. Last time I'll tell you this. You're banking everything on one girl, when the reality is she probably has dozens of guys on the down low all playing the same game. Be normal and don't expect anything of it, and if something happens, be pleasantly surprised.

And just a suggestion: learn to tip. Tipping doesn't impress a girl, but not tipping shows how cheap you potentially can be.

[QUOTE=TheMan]Did you ever date the tranny? If so, were you tops or bottoms?[/QUOTE]

Thats so funny. DaHeezy is a tranny lover. What a pathetic retard :oldlol:

[QUOTE=PWB15]she said is works as a writer and i decided to sent a playful text early in the day

[B]"oh my bad i didnt mean to text you since im sure you are writing lol So i will call you later"

[/B]
it probably was a dumb text but im not good at this dating shit.[/QUOTE]

HAHAHAHAHAHHA THATS SO GODAMN PATHETIC I SPIT OUT MY DRINK :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll:

I would not text you back either holy *** no offense bro.

[QUOTE=PWB15]she said is works as a writer and i decided to sent a playful text early in the day

"oh my bad i didnt mean to text you since im sure you are writing lol So i will call you later"


it probably was a dumb text but im not good at this dating shit.[/QUOTE]

People are giving you a lot of crap for that text :oldlol:

Don't worry man, I have been there. The problem with that text is how would she respond to that? Unless if she knows you well for years and knows you are inexperienced dating-wise and/or socially awkward, she will be confused and irritated. You tried to be playful, but it won't come across that way. It's not funny, and there is nothing for her to respond to.

Don't be apologetic up front unless if she told you she should probably return to writing in middle of a convo (that shows she is not interested in you though so that is not good situation either), but even then don't be apologetic. Just be like "ok np! Talk to you later!" If she likes you though, she will put everything aside to chat with you.

idk if you can ever redeem yourself in her eyes anymore so just forget her unless if she reaches out to you in a few days. Do not call her or initiate text convo with her. If she is a good person, forgiving to your inexperience and likes you enough, she will reach out. Don't count on it.

[QUOTE=bladefd]People are giving you a lot of crap for that text :oldlol:

Don't worry man, I have been there. The problem with that text is how would she respond to that? Unless if she knows you well for years and knows you are inexperienced dating-wise and/or socially awkward, she will be confused and irritated. You tried to be playful, but it won't come across that way. It's not funny, and there is nothing for her to respond to.

Don't be apologetic up front unless if she told you she should probably return to writing in middle of a convo (that shows she is not interested in you though so that is not good situation either), but even then don't be apologetic. Just be like "ok np! Talk to you later!" If she likes you though, she will put everything aside to chat with you.

idk if you can ever redeem yourself in her eyes anymore so just forget her unless if she reaches out to you in a few days. Do not call her or initiate text convo with her. If she is a good person, forgiving to your inexperience and likes you enough, she will reach out. Don't count on it.[/QUOTE]


I lost interest since we haven't talked since sunday night.