The worst ass whippin you ever got from your parents?

[QUOTE=Quizno]i never really got hit, just whippings from a belt. the one that really pissed me off though was when i was in an argument with my mom when i was like 5 or so, i don't remember what it was about. anyway she slapped me and i was like "why did you hit me?! you wouldn't like it if i slapped you!" and she said something like "go ahead, slap me." and i kept saying no i'm not gonna slap you but she kept telling me to do it, so eventually i slapped her really softly on her cheek and when i did she slapped the living **** out of me :oldlol: :oldlol:

i was so pissed. that was just unfair.[/QUOTE]

:roll:

Sounds like me and my ex.

"If you hit me again, I'm gonna punch you as hard as I can"

"Do it then. Hit a girl"

*She hits me*

*I hit her softly*

*She hides her face*

"I can't believe you just hit me!"

*I cuddle with her and say sorry*

*She turns and punches me as hard as she can in the neck or some *****

[QUOTE=BlazersDozen]:roll:

Sounds like me and my ex.

"If you hit me again, I'm gonna punch you as hard as I can"

"Do it then. Hit a girl"

*She hits me*

*I hit her softly*

*She hides her face*

"I can't believe you just hit me!"

*I cuddle with her and say sorry*

*She turns and punches me as hard as she can in the neck or some *****[/QUOTE]
:roll: I have been hit by so many girls. I have been hit with a cup cake tray, shoes, punched, kicked, etc. One time, I was at a party talking to this chic named melanie, we go outside for privacy and she starts playing around and hits me.
I say" You hit like a girl, I thought you were stronger than that"
She walks off, so I sit down and wonder what did I say. She comes back, says its okay, smiles, helps me off the step, and knocks the sh*t out of me.

Another story I have is classic. My friend was playing around with his gf Jessica, and says a joke, she gets mad. He didnt know she was mad, and just playing around, pushes her. She says" Oj is calling you from the stands, so he looks up and she hits him with an uppercut to the balls. Clean shot.He didnt say anything but his face turned deep red.

My dad sucker punched me and broke my nose.

I never got my ass whipped by my parents. Child abuse is sloppy, lazy-ass, $hitty-ass, parenting.

got my ass whooped cause i got caught sneaking out one time of my friends house with him...we were gonna go try and meet up with these girls and we had some weed with us too but then my friend ****in trips and hits his head and yells and im just like oh **** and i run but his parents come running to the basement and his dad picks my friend up and just shakes him back and forth and slaps him once and like drags me back into the house...flushes the gram of weed i had into the ****ing toilet...and calls my dad. dad picks me up, doesnt say a word in the car as soon as we get in the house takes me to tbe bathroom and takes his belt and starts whippin the **** out of me...that night was so ****ed up but i guess every kid needs something like that me and my bud still laugh about it.

[QUOTE=BankShot]I never got my ass whipped by my parents. Child abuse is sloppy, lazy-ass, $hitty-ass, parenting.[/QUOTE]


typical white boy

Dad does the talking and mom does the hitting

Come home one day get slapped around in the face, head banged against the wall, slapped some more times ..this happened in grade 7

Another time Mom hit me with her car but luckily I jumped ontop of the car and did some rolling **** and than she came and grabbed me by the ear threw me to the ground kicked me around and than threateend to stab me with a shank ...this one happened in grade 4

I never got the belt, but i'd get hit upside the head for talking back to my dad or my mom or being a dumba[COLOR="Black"]s[/COLOR]s.

Grade 2, the incident I now like to call "The Birth of the Maniak"

Me and a bunch of friends were at the slides. It was foggy, so there was the fog stuff whateverthatis on the slides. We were writing crap with our fingers with it like "Hello!" and all that stuff. Then I start to laugh and write "Autumn(girl in my class) is stupid!" a friend goes to tell her, then I shut him up and tell him "its for the good of both of us, trust me." then I was like "dude look at this word!" and he said "what?" then I said "its the F-Word!" then he started laughing. Then a jackass I still hate to this day(he listens to Jonas Brothers and bands like that, another reason) runs off and tells my teacher about it.

Things did not end well.

And yes, I was a slightly messed up kid. But I still laugh to this day about that.

I didnt get beat from this or anything, but I find this funny, my buddy always teases me about it to this day.

I was bored in class during a spelling test so I grab the answers and hide them in my desk, then a kid sitting behind me yells "Hey _____! Why are you looking at the answers?" then I get terrified and say "IM SORRY IM SORRY IM SORRY ILL NEVER DO IT AGAIN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!"

They made me retest it later that day and watched me from behind to assure I didnt cheat.

I still aced it, anyways. I knew I could have done perfectly, its just I was bored and WANTED to cheat, kinda messed up.

worst beating was like when i was 5 or 6. i was out playing, and didn't wanna go home yet. my dad kept sending someone to get me but i said i didn't wanna go home yet. then he comes out and pulls me home by the ear. he was drunk.. i was just like a couple of houses away.. i don't really remember him hitting me, but the ear **** definitely hurt. and i think he must have tossed me around the room a couple of times.. :oldlol:

but if he tries that sh!t with me these days, i'm gonna knock him out.. i'm like a couple of inches taller than him now.. :rolleyes:

[QUOTE=Maniak]Grade 2, the incident I now like to call "The Birth of the Maniak"

Me and a bunch of friends were at the slides. It was foggy, so there was the fog stuff whateverthatis on the slides. We were writing crap with our fingers with it like "Hello!" and all that stuff. Then I start to laugh and write "Autumn(girl in my class) is stupid!" a friend goes to tell her, then I shut him up and tell him "its for the good of both of us, trust me." then I was like "dude look at this word!" and he said "what?" then I said "its the F-Word!" then he started laughing. Then a jackass I still hate to this day(he listens to Jonas Brothers and bands like that, another reason) runs off and tells my teacher about it.

Things did not end well.

And yes, I was a slightly messed up kid. But I still laugh to this day about that.

I didnt get beat from this or anything, but I find this funny, my buddy always teases me about it to this day.

I was bored in class during a spelling test so I grab the answers and hide them in my desk, then a kid sitting behind me yells "Hey _____! Why are you looking at the answers?" then I get terrified and say "IM SORRY IM SORRY IM SORRY ILL NEVER DO IT AGAIN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!"

They made me retest it later that day and watched me from behind to assure I didnt cheat.

I still aced it, anyways. I knew I could have done perfectly, its just I was bored and WANTED to cheat, kinda messed up.[/QUOTE]

:applause:

that reminds me of one time in 5th grade, where i made the biggest font possible on word processor and typed "F[COLOR="Black"]U[/COLOR]CK" and whispered to my friend across the room to look.. teacher saw and i got kicked out the room. lol

[QUOTE=U got Served]typical white boy[/QUOTE]

Yeah I'm white, but what does that have to do with anything?? I have white friends that got their ass kicked by their parents.

Using violence and/or the threat of violence instead of addressing the root cause of misbehavior or the lack of understanding of what is right/wrong or acceptable/unacceptable is f*cking lazy parenting. Be a f*cking adult and give your children the attention they need to know the difference between right and wrong instead of resorting to violence like a damn neanderthal.

It's not a race thing, as black, white, brown, and yellow parents beat the s*it out of their kids for thousands of years. Abuse of any kind is above any kind of racial denomination.

In the state of California, African American children are almost 3x as likely as caucasians, and over 2x as likely as Hispanic/Latino to be victims of child abuse.

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Typical white boy for saying its poor and lazy parenting??? Sounds like if you lived in California, you might be typically something else. Just keep the trends going it really speaks volumes about values.

Oh, and bring on the whole racism card, because I am absolutely not.

[QUOTE=BankShot]I never got my ass whipped by my parents. Child abuse is sloppy, lazy-ass, $hitty-ass, parenting.[/QUOTE]
Wrong! :no:

It is in fact to most effective way of Parenting. It's good to lay the smackdown every now and then.

[QUOTE=BankShot]Yeah I'm white, but what does that have to do with anything?? I have white friends that got their ass kicked by their parents.

Using violence and/or the threat of violence instead of addressing the root cause of misbehavior or the lack of understanding of what is right/wrong or acceptable/unacceptable is f*cking lazy parenting. Be a f*cking adult and give your children the attention they need to know the difference between right and wrong instead of resorting to violence like a damn neanderthal.

It's not a race thing, as black, white, brown, and yellow parents beat the s*it out of their kids for thousands of years. Abuse of any kind is above any kind of racial denomination.

In the state of California, African American children are almost 3x as likely as caucasians, and over 2x as likely as Hispanic/Latino to be victims of child abuse.

[URL="http://www.kidsdata.org/topictables.jsp?csid=0&t=1&i=10&ra=3_132&link=&"]http://www.kidsdata.org/topictables.jsp?csid=0&t=1&i=10&ra=3_132&link=&[/URL]

Typical white boy for saying its poor and lazy parenting??? [B]Sounds like if you're a typical Californian[/B], you might be typically something else.[/QUOTE]


Texan. All I know is that right before my dad/mom whipped me they would ask me "do you know why am I doing this?" And I did know. I knew I'd done something wrong. They would warn me first, then spank/whip me. I'm not saying child abuse doesn't exist, but to say whipping is lazy parenting is wrong. Sometimes you have to use the belt. My opinion.

[QUOTE=NY Comeback]Wrong! :no:

It is in fact to most effective way of Parenting. It's good to lay the smackdown every now and then.[/QUOTE]

The most effective?? Ha.

The most effective way to parent is to teach them boundaries and the difference between right and wrong, and there are non-violent consequences to their actions. This kind of insight is just breeding a violent and disfunctional society.

[QUOTE=U got Served]Texan. All I know is that right before my dad/mom whipped me they would ask me "do you know why am I doing this?" And I did know. I knew I'd done something wrong. They would warn me first, then spank/whip me. I'm not saying child abuse doesn't exist, but to say whipping is lazy parenting is wrong. Sometimes you have to use the belt. My opinion.[/QUOTE]

Well that sounds like they were going in kind of the right direction, but at the same time thats just instilling in impressionable youth that using violence upon someone is okay if they did something wrong, which in everyday life is absolutely unacceptable.

Parents should be able to find other ways to punish their kids than smacking them around. Worked for me and I turned out just fine.

[QUOTE=BankShot]Well that sounds like they were going in kind of the right direction, but at the same time thats just instilling in impressionable youth that using violence upon someone is okay if they did something wrong, which in everyday life is absolutely unacceptable.

Parents should be able to find other ways to punish their kids than smacking them around. Worked for me and I turned out just fine.[/QUOTE]

OK let me ask you this. How DID your parents punish you?

[QUOTE=BankShot]The most effective?? Ha.

The most effective way to parent is to teach them boundaries and the difference between right and wrong, and there are non-violent consequences to their actions. This kind of insight is just breeding a violent and disfunctional society.[/QUOTE]
lol naw I agree. Just messing around was all.

If you have to whip your kids, then fine, do it. But in my opinion, you must be a pretty ****ty parent if you can't properly discipline and raise your kids without physically hurting them.

Just my take on the matter.

[QUOTE=U got Served]OK let me ask you this. How DID your parents punished you?[/QUOTE]

I acted up, then something was taken away, whether it was my time, or my ability to do what I wanted, or with what I wanted to do it with.

Whether it was extra chores, or grounding, or lack of access to amenities like television, video games, or toys, misbehavior resulted in nonviolent consequences that made me not want to behave in that manner anymore.

Its all about incentives, and while a good lickin' definitely gives disincentive to misbehave, there are other means that give the same magnitude of disincentive.

[QUOTE=JustinJDW]If you have to whip your kids, then fine, do it. But in my opinion, you must be a pretty ****ty parent if you can't properly discipline and raise your kids without physically hurting them.

Just my take on the matter.[/QUOTE]

Exactly. If you can't teach your kids boundaries and what's right or wrong, then its the parents that should be beat, not the kids. Its not the kids' fault that they weren't given proper structure to encourage good behavior.

[QUOTE=BankShot]I acted up, then something was taken away, whether it was my time, or my ability to do what I wanted, or with what I wanted to do it with.

Whether it was extra chores, or grounding, or lack of access to amenities like television, video games, or toys, misbehavior resulted in nonviolent consequences that made me not want to behave in that manner anymore.

Its all about incentives, and while a good lickin' definitely gives disincentive to misbehave, there are other means that give the same magnitude of disincentive.[/QUOTE]

I guess it depends on how you view things. Those things didn't work with me or my brothers. We were all really hard headed and only an ass whipping would teach us. :oldlol: Everyone knows how to control their own child, and I don't think whipping smacking your child's rear end is considered violence.

[QUOTE=U got Served]I guess it depends on how you view things. Those things didn't work with me or my brothers. We were all really hard headed and only an ass whipping would teach us. :oldlol: Everyone knows how to control their own child, and I don't think whipping smacking your child's rear end is considered violence.[/QUOTE]

IMO, if you need to resort to violence to keep your kids in line, then you really don't know how to "control" your own child. And yes, hitting your kids is violence, and is teaching them that problems can and/or should be solved with violence.

I'm not going to try hitting or spanking my daughter when she gets older. Instead I'll at least try a different approach because it was effective on me...

...usually when I was a kid I would get spankings open hand then later with a paddle. But there came a time when I was too old to get them because they didn't hurt as much anymore. Hell by the age of 9 or 10 I would laugh during some spankings becuase it didn't hurt.

So what I plan to do is what my parents did to me, which was stand in the corner face it and stare at it for at least 1-2 hours straight. They had to the patients to keep me there too. If I did something wrong, I would lose a privilege. Such as Genesis, a certain toy, etc. I hated the corner so bad that sometimes they would give me a choice of a spanking or standing in the corner and I would take spanking because i hated the corner so much even though at the time the spanking would hurt like hell with the paddle.

I just have to learn to be patient more than anything with it.

To answer the topic's question my worst spanking I ever got was for messing up our Christmas tree. I got on the arm of our couch and basically jumped into it messing up one side really bad. Broke some ornaments and stuff. :D

[QUOTE=BankShot]IMO, if you need to resort to violence to keep your kids in line, then you really don't know how to "control" your own child. And yes, hitting your kids is violence, and is teaching them that problems can and/or should be solved with violence.[/QUOTE]

See the thing is, I don't see myself or my brothers thinking "well, since my dad hit me I'm gonna go ahead and kick someone's ass in school."
Plus, I knew they wished the best for me, not at the time they whipped me, later on. Also I knew what my friend's parents were like and thought to myself that I was very lucky. My dad never hit my mom, and I never ever saw my dad or mom get into a fight that made me think that violence was ok.

[QUOTE=U got Served]See the thing is, I don't see myself or my brothers thinking "well, since my dad hit me I'm gonna go ahead and kick someone's ass in school."
Plus, I knew they wished the best for me, not at the time they whipped me, later on. Also I knew what my friend's parents were like and thought to myself that I was very lucky. My dad never hit my mom, and I never ever saw my dad or mom get into a fight that made me think that violence was ok.[/QUOTE]

Not everybody that has violence as punishment goes on to have violence and the threat of violence as acceptable means for conflict resolution, but I would say that it does affect a fair amount of impressionable kids' views at least at the subconscious level.

[QUOTE=BankShot]Not everybody that has violence as punishment goes on to have violence and the threat of violence as acceptable means for conflict resolution, but I would say that it does affect a fair amount of impressionable kids' views at least at the subconscious level.[/QUOTE]


I don't think whipping your kids affects them more than the psychological and emotional abuse. Emotional scars are the ones that are though to heal. I don't have kids so I don't know what's it like to "control" them. I guess when I grow older and see what's like to have to whip your child, maybe I'll change my mind. :cheers:

I've been belted a lot of times when I was young, although it got less as I grew older. I think the worst one was my mom hitting me with the belt for some stupid sh!t I don't even remember anymore, and she used the buckle and she hit me across the face. I didn't have contacts back then and she broke my glasses. Didn't even say sorry afterwards haha.

My parents beat the f*ck out of me and I thank them for it. Not once did I think I didn't deserve the a$$ kicking them handed me. I've been beaten with a shoe, a belt, one time my dad even used a closed fist but I was near the age where you stopped getting spankings. I didn't get another spanking after that.

[QUOTE=statman32]DOnt really remember but most of my ass whippings came from talking back to my mom. My dad would then come home and I would get my ass belted. Started at around 5 belts but he would add one each time I put my hands back to block the belt. :oldlol:[/QUOTE]

LOL

lol great thread

when my grandma hit me with a switch like 40 times from rough housing. The biotch broke skin