They are moody.
They often get special treatment.
Anyone have a girlfriend who drives them mad?
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They are moody.
They often get special treatment.
Anyone have a girlfriend who drives them mad?
Illogical/emotional thinking
Not in all cases, but the sense of humor is really lacking at least 50% of the time and it's just... :banghead:
There is never a right answer.
Last weekend, my girlfriend was sick. Like, sick sick. About Monday, I decided we would go to Louisville on Friday (where her parents live and I have friends). She says she doesn't feel well, so I cancel my plans (with my buddies) for our night out Friday. Tuesday she tells me she doesn't want me to not go because of her, so she would go to Louisville on Friday if I wanted. I did. So plans were back on. Then Wednesday, she was still feeling sick and said she would still go if I wanted to go (I did, kinda). So I agreed, to which her response was '****'. Ok, so cancel the plans, girlfriend doesn't want to go. Then she gets mad at me because I tell my friends we are back off now because she is still sick. So in order to redeem herself, she says she will go. Plans back on.
Friday, she decides she's still sick, and doesn't want to go. We don't go. We ended up going Saturday though.
I know, CSB. But I had to give a great example. A week long example.
[QUOTE=ScalsFan21]Not in all cases, but the sense of humor is really lacking at least 50% of the time and it's just... :banghead:[/QUOTE]
this.
[QUOTE=ScalsFan21]Not in all cases, but the sense of humor is really lacking at least 50% of the time and it's just... :banghead:[/QUOTE]
I here you.
My fiance finds shit funny that she will be pissing herself laughing and I'll be straight faced looking at her like she's an idiot...
Probably that they vent most of their negative emotions to the people who give them the most (i.e. their moms, husbands, fathers, boyfriends) and often treat people who have done nothing for them (i.e. strangers) with more respect.
I'd like it if humans could curb off that old "familiarity breeds contempt" thing. This extends to children and their parents as well.
That and insincerity. Nobody likes people who lie about their past or lie to fit in
[QUOTE=UK2K]There is never a right answer.
Last weekend, my girlfriend was sick. Like, sick sick. About Monday, I decided we would go to Louisville on Friday (where her parents live and I have friends). She says she doesn't feel well, so I cancel my plans (with my buddies) for our night out Friday. Tuesday she tells me she doesn't want me to not go because of me, so she would go to Louisville on Friday if I wanted. I did. So plans were back on. Then Wednesday, she was still feeling sick and said she would still go if I wanted to go (I did, kinda). So I agreed, to which her response was '****'. Ok, so cancel the plans, girlfriend doesn't want to go. Then she gets mad at me because I tell my friends we are back off now because she is still sick. So in order to redeem herself, she says she will go. Plans back on.
Friday, she decides she's still sick, and doesn't want to go. We don't go. We ended up going Saturday though.
I know, CSB. But I had to give a great example. A week long example.[/QUOTE]
When she is doing that shit "I'll still go if you want me to go" and "I don't want you to not go because of me" DO NOT TAKE THE BAIT. She doesn't want to go and she wants you to stay behind and take care of her
[QUOTE=UK2K]There is never a right answer.
Last weekend, my girlfriend was sick. Like, sick sick. About Monday, I decided we would go to Louisville on Friday (where her parents live and I have friends). She says she doesn't feel well, so I cancel my plans (with my buddies) for our night out Friday. Tuesday she tells me she doesn't want me to not go because of her, so she would go to Louisville on Friday if I wanted. I did. So plans were back on. Then Wednesday, she was still feeling sick and said she would still go if I wanted to go (I did, kinda). So I agreed, to which her response was '****'. Ok, so cancel the plans, girlfriend doesn't want to go. Then she gets mad at me because I tell my friends we are back off now because she is still sick. So in order to redeem herself, she says she will go. Plans back on.
Friday, she decides she's still sick, and doesn't want to go. We don't go. We ended up going Saturday though.
I know, CSB. But I had to give a great example. A week long example.[/QUOTE]
Oh yeah. The change of minds and then somehow it's YOUR FAULT :banghead:
Their vocal chords.
[QUOTE=UK2K]There is never a right answer.
Last weekend, my girlfriend was sick. Like, sick sick. About Monday, I decided we would go to Louisville on Friday (where her parents live and I have friends). She says she doesn't feel well, so I cancel my plans (with my buddies) for our night out Friday. Tuesday she tells me she doesn't want me to not go because of her, so she would go to Louisville on Friday if I wanted. I did. So plans were back on. Then Wednesday, she was still feeling sick and said she would still go if I wanted to go (I did, kinda). So I agreed, to which her response was '****'. Ok, so cancel the plans, girlfriend doesn't want to go. Then she gets mad at me because I tell my friends we are back off now because she is still sick. So in order to redeem herself, she says she will go. Plans back on.
Friday, she decides she's still sick, and doesn't want to go. We don't go. We ended up going Saturday though.
I know, CSB. But I had to give a great example. A week long example.[/QUOTE]
Women aren't leaders, they naturally want to follow. Next time make a decision and stick with it, she might try to cause drama shit but just ignore it. Giving in to their shit is the worst thing you can do. Ignoring their shit or laughing at it is usually the right answer.
emotional logic.
:facepalm
that they steal my hoodies :(
[QUOTE=JEFFERSON MONEY][B]Probably that they vent most of their negative emotions to the people who give them the most (i.e. their moms, husbands, fathers, boyfriends) and often treat people who have done nothing for them (i.e. strangers) with more respect.[/B]
I'd like it if humans could curb off that old "familiarity breeds contempt" thing. This extends to children and their parents as well.
That and insincerity. Nobody likes people who lie about their past or lie to fit in[/QUOTE]
That's most people, men and women. It's not contempt, more a natural tendency to vent at those we love the most because we know they'll put up with it.
A stranger will most likely tell you to eff off, or worse.
Their sense of entitlement
The other day I entered a building ahead of a random woman and I didn't hold the door for her and I could hear her on the phone talking bout how I wasn't a real man because u didn't hold the door for her
- Entitled
- Their idea of a relationship is for the man to do everything for them
- Illogical thinking
- Too emotional
- Guilt trip you to get what they want
[QUOTE=1987_Lakers]- Entitled
- [B]Their idea of a relationship is for the man to do everything for them[/B]- Illogical thinking
- Too emotional
- Guilt trip you to get what they want[/QUOTE]
It's a woman's world.
Even if you don't believe that a man has to do everything for them, they know they can find a guy that will.
When you put your foot down, they want to argue even if you are clearly right.
[QUOTE=#number6ix#]Their sense of entitlement
The other day I entered a building ahead of a random woman and I didn't hold the door for her and I could hear her on the phone talking bout how I wasn't a real man because u didn't hold the door for her[/QUOTE]
It's something I think we should do.
As for the beingt the provider and all that shit? No, not in today's world.
You can't not be a cook and not bring something to the table and then expect the man to provide. Same with arguing every damn point. Shut your mouth if you're not paying the bills.
I have no problem holding the door if I'm out with them but if I'm moving and shaking trying to get shit done I'm not thinking bout holding the door some random woman
[QUOTE=#number6ix#]I have no problem holding the door if I'm out with them but if I'm moving and shaking trying to get shit done I'm not thinking bout holding the door some random woman[/QUOTE]
I see your point :oldlol:
I just mean we are born a stronger. It's something I do, not to be a b.itch but just to help someone weaker out.
Fake and gossipy. When I tell a girl something sometimes it's just to her and I want her to keep it to herself
[QUOTE=Jameerthefear]Fake and gossipy. When I tell a girl something sometimes it's just to her and I want her to keep it to herself[/QUOTE]
learn your lesson early brah. Don't share shit with girls unless you want everyone she knows to know it. High school girls feed on gossip, and this doesn't change when they get older.
That they have so many things to rant about it. I get it, you got dealt a shitty hand but so did everyone else.
[QUOTE=imdaman99]That they have so many things to rant about it. I get it, you got dealt a shitty hand but so did everyone else.[/QUOTE]
They didn't get a shitty hand. Everything is easier for women compared to a man's life.
an absolute lack of self-awareness. a broad will hold the smallest thing against you forever while being completely oblivious to all of the dumb shit she does
it is their trademark
[QUOTE=Nick Young]They didn't get a shitty hand. Everything is easier for women compared to a man's life.[/QUOTE]
Women's private parts get streched out and babies pop out. During the birth men watch and say inspiring things. YOU CAN DO IT! GO FOR IT! PUSH!
I'd rather be a man. :cheers:
As for things that annoy me, i've met quite a few who had no interest if ****ing me at all. Always annoyed me.
I wish being gay wasn't a sin and I was attracted to men.
That's how much women annoy me.
[QUOTE=Jameerthefear]Fake and gossipy. When I tell a girl something sometimes it's just to her and I want her to keep it to herself[/QUOTE]
Their pretty fake but thats like a lot of people in this world not just women.
Jam hows Alabama the bitch's fine in the deep south.:lol
The angriest I have every been was when some idiot from my school was throwing gummy bears and chips through my friend's window while was my friend and I were driving. I went off in the car.
Lack of logic.
the lack of balance between what they offer and what they expect
it's dumb shit like "if you cant accept me at my worst, you dont deserve me at my best"...but you can bet a million that they'd crucify you for something much more petty; and that's if you're "lucky" that they're loyal and won't use it as an excuse to jump onto some other dude's dick
the fact that women control the sex market means that even a girl with absolutely no redeeming qualities can find a guy desperate enough to **** her, willing to nut in her, willing to bring a little shit into the world and ruin america's demographics one night at a time.
[QUOTE=niko]Women's private parts get streched out and babies pop out. During the birth men watch and say inspiring things. YOU CAN DO IT! GO FOR IT! PUSH!
I'd rather be a man. :cheers:
As for things that annoy me, i've met quite a few who had no interest if ****ing me at all. Always annoyed me.[/QUOTE]
That is the only bad part, but once they have the kid they never have to work a day in their life again. The government will give them welfare and even if they get divorced the husband will be forced to pay her a huge section of his income every single year in child support and alimony. On top of that, women have an easier time getting hired in every single industry, including STEM fields where they are twice as likely as men to be hired in to entry positions despite having weaker qualifications.
Not to mention all the extra help they get throughout college and special "women only" leadership training seminars they are offered.
Also society bends over backwards to make their every day lives easy, opening doors for them, paying for them on dates, etc etc. They get compliments all the time just for going outside and looking semi-decent. When they go to bars and clubs there's an army of guys offering to buy them free drinks.
Child birth probably sucks but it is short, compared to an entire life of having everything easy compared to men.
Don't fall for the BS narrative. Women have things so easy compared to men.
[QUOTE=BasedTom]"if you cant accept me at my worst, you dont deserve me at my best"...but you can bet a million that they'd crucify you for something much more petty[/QUOTE]
This shit exactly.
When they leave you on seen or read but still view your snapchats or like your IG pics
Nick Young, you're my dude but I think you have some issues with women. May I ask if you have a bad relationship with your mother or something else in your upbringing/past that may have contributed to what I'm picking up on? Do you think this out of left field or is this something others have brought up to you?
To answer the OP, I've found that women are frequently hypochondriacs. I also don't like how many women feel the need to regularly see a therapist.
[QUOTE=Lamar Doom]Nick Young, you're my dude but I think you have some issues with women. May I ask if you have a bad relationship with your mother or something else in your upbringing/past that may have contributed to what I'm picking up on? Do you think this out of left field or is this something others have brought up to you?
To answer the OP, I've found that women are frequently hypochondriacs. I also don't like how many women feel the need to regularly see a therapist.[/QUOTE]
No, I like women, I just don't fall for the bullshit that people like yourself do. I don't tolerate their bullshit-I call them out on it. My life and relationships with girlfriends have improved a shit load since I started being real and to the point. Sorry if you can't handle opinions that disagree with your own.
Sorry if you can't handle facts brah. Women are not wonderful saints that fart rainbows and piss orange soda. Get those ideas out of your head. They are people just like you and me. Treat them like people, not delicate little flowers that need to be coddled and protected. They will appreciate you more for it.
No need to white knight brah. Save that shit for tumblr.
[QUOTE=Nick Young]No, I like women, I just don't fall for the bullshit that people like yourself do.
Sorry if you can't handle facts brah. Women are not wonderful saints that fart rainbows and piss orange soda. Get those ideas out of your head. They are people just like you and me.
No need to white knight brah. Save that shit for tumblr.[/QUOTE]
Duuude, I wasn't talking shit, no need for hostility. I luh you man, just feel like I read a lot of threads where you talk about women like they're this untrustworthy monolith.
That was a really dickish reply Nick, shame on you cuz. Hope all's well.
[QUOTE=Lamar Doom]Duuude, I wasn't talking shit, no need for hostility. I luh you man, just feel like I read a lot of threads where you talk about women like they're this untrustworthy monolith.[/QUOTE]
Not all of them are but a lot are very self interested, entitled and narcissistic, especially American women. One only needs to look at the Basic Bitch phenomenon that has gripped the country as well as selfie spammers.
I'm not being hostile towards you, but this isn't an Oberlin college hug box safe space pillow room. I'm just being real and direct. The one thing that I hate the most is self-censoring and saying things in a cushy touchy feely way because people don't want to hear truth.
I give you this helpful advice with the hope that one day, maybe, you will take it in, and your life and relationships with teh ladies will improve-not saying it's bad now cus I have zero idea, just that it can improve-we all got room for improvement of course.
Of course, most men are assholes too, and no, you cannot trust most people in the world. That's just how it be. Most people in general act nice to your face then stab you in the back if they think they have a chance to get ahead. That's just human nature.
You do you brah, I'm doing me. All's good with me, best of luck to you bromigo. Do what you feel needs to be done.
Being a B1tch.
[QUOTE=Nick Young]That is the only bad part, but once they have the kid they never have to work a day in their life again. The government will give them welfare and even if they get divorced the husband will be forced to pay her a huge section of his income every single year in child support and alimony. On top of that, women have an easier time getting hired in every single industry, including STEM fields where they are twice as likely as men to be hired in to entry positions despite having weaker qualifications.
Not to mention all the extra help they get throughout college and special "women only" leadership training seminars they are offered.
Also society bends over backwards to make their every day lives easy, opening doors for them, paying for them on dates, etc etc. They get compliments all the time just for going outside and looking semi-decent. When they go to bars and clubs there's an army of guys offering to buy them free drinks.
Child birth probably sucks but it is short, compared to an entire life of having everything easy compared to men.
Don't fall for the BS narrative. Women have things so easy compared to men.[/QUOTE]
I'd still would rather be a man 100 out of 100 times.
A man still has more advantages than a woman, even with all those perks you mentioned.
And it's absolutely a man's world. The US isn't the world.