Re: how do YOU approach girls?
[QUOTE=Patrick Chewing]:facepalm
You walk up to a girl and you're already asking her 20 questions???
Geez.
Confidence, man. Confidence. This depends on what type of place you're in, but how about walking up to them and telling them you heard that this establishment makes a great cocktail (pick one) and you'd be honored if they joined you for one. You're not asking any questions and you're using your charm. Charm works depending on your presentation (i.e. smile, clothing, smell, approachability).[/QUOTE]
since when is how are you? can I buy u a drink? 20 questions lol
and saying "id be honored if you would join me for a cocktail" is a little corny to me, but if it works for you, I cant really knock it
Re: how do YOU approach girls?
The key for me is to put as little thought into it as possible. Look for a small opening and be yourself - small talk seems to come easiest when you're not worried about how you're coming off. Subject matter isn't really important, if she's interested then she'll pick up her end of the conversation.
Be casual and gauge her interest. If she doesn't seem all that into you, quit wasting time and move onto the next.
Re: how do YOU approach girls?
[QUOTE=-p.tiddy-]yep this
at a bar/club just offer to buy a drink...it's fairly easy
but in the past when single sometimes I would see a hot girl at a grocery store, or other places...that is much more difficult.
[I]"oh hey, I like Special K Cereal too!"..."hello nice to meet you!, what is your name?"[/I]...
it's just awkward...[/QUOTE]
so you introduce yourself by spending money on them? the f*ck? are you even anywhere near half the mendoza line with that?
Re: how do YOU approach girls?
[QUOTE=Just2McFly]so you introduce yourself by spending money on them? the f*ck? are you even anywhere near half the mendoza line with that?[/QUOTE]
yes you offer to buy them a drink...that is very customary
if they are attracted to you they accept, if they aren't they say "no thanks"...simple as that
girls expect that at bars/clubs
at first it is always about looks/physical attraction...there is no magic "line" that wins them over...they know if they are capable of fcking you or not pretty much right away, and only acting like an asshole/idiot will ruin that although in some cases acting like an asshole actually helps.
Re: how do YOU approach girls?
[QUOTE=-p.tiddy-]yes you offer to buy them a drink...that is very customary
if they are attracted to you they accept, if they aren't they say "no thanks"...simple as that
girls expect that at bars/clubs
at first it is always about looks/physical attraction...there is no magic "line" that wins them over...they know if they are capable of fcking you or not pretty much right away, and only acting like an asshole/idiot will ruin that although in some cases acting like an asshole actually helps.[/QUOTE]
or they could take you up on your offer because they want free alcohol....
Re: how do YOU approach girls?
[QUOTE=Just2McFly]so you introduce yourself by spending money on them? the f*ck? are you even anywhere near half the mendoza line with that?[/QUOTE]
Are you 12?
Buying women drinks is like common courtesy
:biggums:
Re: how do YOU approach girls?
[QUOTE=SyRyanYang]Are you 12?
Buying women drinks is like common courtesy
:biggums:[/QUOTE]
I like my money
Re: how do YOU approach girls?
[QUOTE=SyRyanYang]Are you 12?
Buying women drinks is like common courtesy
:biggums:[/QUOTE]
Darkness is right. Plenty of girls go out without cash knowing some sucker will spend his paycheck buying her drinks all night when she has 0 interest in him.
Re: how do YOU approach girls?
some girls will do that, cept they have to hang out with you and drink...
all pssy costs money...all of it
alcohol is cheap the route if anything
Re: how do YOU approach girls?
[QUOTE=niko]Is there ever anything you ever say that's not just made up bullshit?[/QUOTE]
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Re: how do YOU approach girls?
[QUOTE=-p.tiddy-]some girls will do that, cept they have to hang out with you and drink...
all pssy costs money...all of it
alcohol is cheap the route if anything[/QUOTE]
Everything, not just pssy, comes at a cost. That doesn't mean I have to throw money away just to bust a nut.
Re: how do YOU approach girls?
[QUOTE=-p.tiddy-]
all pssy costs money...all of it
[/QUOTE]
not true....
Ive f*cked girls without spending a nickel..
I could meet a girl at someone's house, and take her home that night, smash and return her to his house before 6 am when her girlfriends get up and leave from f*cking him.. dont even drive her home.. lol just return her where I found her.
Re: how do YOU approach girls?
[QUOTE=Rasheed1]not true....
Ive f*cked girls without spending a nickel..
I could meet a girl at someone's house, and take her home that night, smash and return her to his house before 6 am when her girlfriends get up and leave from f*cking him.. dont even drive her home.. lol just return her where I found her.[/QUOTE]
yeah that can happen at high school and college parties where everyone is broke...but in the adult world money is needed for the most part...obviously there are some exceptions
Re: how do YOU approach girls?
[QUOTE=Just2McFly]Everything, not just pssy, comes at a cost. That doesn't mean I have to throw money away just to bust a nut.[/QUOTE]
A wise woman once told me that girls didn't like scrubs...hanging out the passenger side of their best friend's ride, tryin to holla and shit
Re: how do YOU approach girls?
No lie buying girls drinks is one of the softest, most chump-like things a man can do. If the bitch doesnt suck your dick or at least jerk you off on a semi-regular basis then she ain't getting shit. This is not false machismo, it is common sense for those of you who lack it and need to be taught to think this way