I was naturally attracted to children, but then I grew up and continued being attracted to people my age like a normal person.
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I was naturally attracted to children, but then I grew up and continued being attracted to people my age like a normal person.
If you think about it, it's quite sad really.
Even if you disregard the whole having sex with children as an absolutely despicable thing, it's sad, like those people who f*ck horses. They aren't capable of loving a real person, they are in love with a phase that will disappear within a couple of years. They can never have a deep connection with another human. Natural sociopaths.
Not always.
A lot of time pedophiles are molested themselves as children or have some other environmental factor that contributes to it. Often times if someone gets molested as a 10 year old, that person has an attraction to children of that age group.
[QUOTE=Jameerthefear]I know it still doesn't condone it at all, but is the attraction that pedophiles have to children natural?
not defending them at all just food for thought.[/QUOTE]
Interesting that a grown man pretending to be an anime-loving teenager is asking this question.
[QUOTE=rufuspaul]Interesting that a grown man pretending to be an anime-loving teenager is asking this question.[/QUOTE]
:oldlol: :roll:
[QUOTE=Jameerthefear]I know it still doesn't condone it at all, but is the attraction that pedophiles have to children natural?
not defending them at all just food for thought.[/QUOTE]
Give us some insight into the mind of a pedophile.
-Smak
[QUOTE=LJJ]If you think about it, it's quite sad really.
Even if you disregard the whole having sex with children as an absolutely despicable thing, it's sad, like those people who f*ck horses. They aren't capable of loving a real person, they are in love with a phase that will disappear within a couple of years. They can never have a deep connection with another human. Natural sociopaths.[/QUOTE]
wtf if the horse consents why does it matter? The only way to get a truly deep connection is to **** a horse...
Don't compare that to pedophilia which is generally all around wrong.
-Smak
Perhaps it's just the Nabokov lover in me but I'm inclined to believe pedophila or hebephilia can be induced by some experiences in adolescence
It would be really interesting to see how society would treat an "out of the closet" pedophile who has never acted on it
what a horrible thing to be born with...
[QUOTE=ZenMaster]They're trying chemical castration:
[URL="http://www.theguardian.com/politics/reality-check-with-polly-curtis/2012/mar/13/prisons-and-probation-criminal-justice"]http://www.theguardian.com/politics/reality-check-with-polly-curtis/2012/mar/13/prisons-and-probation-criminal-justice[/URL][/QUOTE]
really, this shit should be mandatory for all repeat sex offenders...be it rape, or molestation...just anything
just remove their sex drive...problem solved
why the fck are we NOT doing this?
[QUOTE=rufuspaul]Interesting that a grown man pretending to be an anime-loving teenager is asking this question.[/QUOTE]
i just can't convince you can i rufus...
[QUOTE=-p.tiddy-]It would be really interesting to see how society would treat an "out of the closet" pedophile who has never acted on it
what a horrible thing to be born with...[/QUOTE]
Well, I wouldn't let him/her babysit children still.
[QUOTE=Jameerthefear]just realized thread title might be confusing. basically are pedophiles born with their attraction to children.[/QUOTE]
It may not be affected congenitally from birth, as a traumatic childhood with sexual abuse can often lead to pedophilia later in life.
Either way, it is certainly not a choice. I don't know why it is so hard for people to accept this, when most are so dogmatic about the fact it isn't a choice in the case of homosexuals.
There will be many people who are pedophiles that never act on their desires, and never tell anybody about them. For these people it is a very unfortunate condition, likely to lead to self-hatred, depression and misery.
[quote=Jameerthefear]i just can't convince you can i rufus...[/quote]
You aint conviencing anyone
[color=white]jk[/color]
[QUOTE=Dresta]It may not be affected congenitally from birth, as a traumatic childhood with sexual abuse can often lead to pedophilia later in life.
Either way, it is certainly not a choice. I don't know why it is so hard for people to accept this, when most are so dogmatic about the fact it isn't a choice in the case of homosexuals.
There will be many people who are pedophiles that never act on their desires, and never tell anybody about them. For these people it is a very unfortunate condition, likely to lead to self-hatred, depression and misery.[/QUOTE]
I could see that pedophilia isn't a choice, but they should not act on it. The difference with being gay, if that is the comparison we are going to going for, is that sex between 2 gay people involves consenting adults and therefore acting on it is not wrong.