is it wrong to chase a girl who has a boyfriend?
So i got into it with this girl at work, we went out a couple of times until she finally had a meltdown and told me she was in a relationship. I said I knew that the whole time, and she got even more mad, saying I was a selfish bastard for chasing anyway. Honestly, I don't think what I did was wrong. It's not like her boyfriend is my bro . . . I don't even know who he is. For all I know, he could be a sh!tbag and she's just needs a new man . . .
Re: is it wrong to chase a girl who has a boyfriend?
Generally yes. In your case, no.
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Why would you say that you knew that she had one the whole time?
Re: is it wrong to chase a girl who has a boyfriend?
It depends: Can he kick your ass?
Also, just be aware that if she'll cheat on him she'd be willing to cheat on you.
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[QUOTE=Real Men Wear Green]
Also, just be aware that if she'll cheat on him she'd be willing to cheat on you.[/QUOTE]
This.
But it sounds like she was just a booty call. If she was going to cheat, she was going to cheat. You might as well benefit from it. As long as someone isn't married, and you're single, who cares?
Re: is it wrong to chase a girl who has a boyfriend?
Married = Wrong, Boyfriend = Free game
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[QUOTE=no pun intended]Why would you say that you knew that she had one the whole time?[/QUOTE]
I guess it was common knowledge at my workplace that she had a boyfriend, cuz everyone knows everyone elses business. So there was no way I was gonna play dumb around that one . . .
But the point is, shes the hottest chick at work and she sent me some pretty scandalous messages and never mentioned her bf until after we had been going out for about a week. So no, I don't think I'm in the wrong here. But apparently she thinks so, and so do my lady friends.
Re: is it wrong to chase a girl who has a boyfriend?
even if there is goalie, you always have to try and score :oldlol:
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Nah. If she wants to be with the dude she's with she'll show no interest in you anyway.
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[QUOTE=LBJMVP]even if there is goalie, you always have to try and score :oldlol:[/QUOTE]
:oldlol: :oldlol: :oldlol:
Re: is it wrong to chase a girl who has a boyfriend?
As long as you don't get emotionally attached to her and if she's the type to creep around, I say it's OK.
Some girls have no shame toying around with more than 1 boyfriend.
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nah man. If he's not your bro, you're good.
Re: is it wrong to chase a girl who has a boyfriend?
[QUOTE=LBJMVP]even if there is goalie, you always have to try and score :oldlol:[/QUOTE]
Cool, I'm gonna keep this one in mind. :applause:
Re: is it wrong to chase a girl who has a boyfriend?
so if you were with her and some guy was chasing after her you would be sweet with that?
no it isn't ok. but worse than that, if she cheated or left him for you could you ever really trust her?
Re: is it wrong to chase a girl who has a boyfriend?
Yes.
Don't even need to read what you said. The answer is yes.