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Abd El-Krim 02-10-2012 09:16 PM

ever get with a girl you work with?
 
For the past month I've been crushing like some schoolboy bitch on this girl I work with. She's clearly into me, but I'm hesitant to make a move. We are both well-established at the company, and I'm worried that if it goes bad shit could be awkward as all hell.

Can this type of thing ever end well? I feel like she's the type I could settle down with. Please advise, ISH.

AirTupac 02-10-2012 09:17 PM

Re: ever get with a girl you work with?
 

NoGunzJustSkillz 02-10-2012 09:18 PM

Re: ever get with a girl you work with?
 
it'll never work...you never date a female you meet at a bar...ever.

ZeN 02-10-2012 10:05 PM

Re: ever get with a girl you work with?
 
shit gets complicated with the quickness

Skywalker 02-10-2012 10:09 PM

Re: ever get with a girl you work with?
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by AirTupac


worst GIF use ever?

Balla_Status 02-10-2012 10:20 PM

Re: ever get with a girl you work with?
 
It can only get messy only if one of you guys becomes the boss of one another. That can become a clear ethics violation. Because clearly, there will be favoritism involved.

With that said, love happens. I know 3 couples that work together and got married. Things have been fine for them.

I've almost gotten with a girl I worked with. I'm glad it never happened though. She's fat, ugly and works in the same company (different countries though).

QuebecBaller 02-10-2012 10:23 PM

Re: ever get with a girl you work with?
 
worst experience of my life...

RidonKs 02-10-2012 10:25 PM

Re: ever get with a girl you work with?
 


George: Ava was one of the reasons I used to like going to work. She was a
friend. Now we sleep together and suddenly, I don't know how to talk to her.
Every time I go to the bathroom I pass her desk. I have to plan little patterns.
I spend half my day writing! Then afterwards, I sit in my office and analyze
how it went. If it was a good conversation, I don't go to the bathroom for the
rest of the day. I see her laughing and talking with other people, they're all
so loose and relaxed, I think, 'that used to be me. I want to go back there
again.'

Jerry: What are you gonna do?

George: I have no choice, I'm quitting.

Abd El-Krim 02-10-2012 10:26 PM

Re: ever get with a girl you work with?
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by Balla_Status
It can only get messy only if one of you guys becomes the boss of one another. That can become a clear ethics violation. Because clearly, there will be favoritism involved.

With that said, love happens. I know 3 couples that work together and got married. Things have been fine for them.

I've almost gotten with a girl I worked with. I'm glad it never happened though. She's fat, ugly and works in the same company (different countries though).


:oldlol: fat and ugly, what gives?

Good point though. I'm above her in rank and a few years older, but I don't really foresee a scenario where I'd be directly managing her. I guess I'm more concerned about the social aspects of everything - people talking and what not.

AirTupac 02-10-2012 10:44 PM

Re: ever get with a girl you work with?
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by Skywalker
worst GIF use ever?


Not when I'm laughing at the OP...

B-Low 02-10-2012 11:32 PM

Re: ever get with a girl you work with?
 
Don't do it don't do it don't do it.

The way to go: keep in touch with them on a friendship level and once one of you finds another job, call/text and say you miss working with them, meet up for lunch, proceed to smash. But NOT while you still work together

Lakers Legend#32 02-10-2012 11:50 PM

Re: ever get with a girl you work with?
 
You know that old saying, don't sh!t where you eat.

B-Low 02-10-2012 11:54 PM

Re: ever get with a girl you work with?
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by Balla_Status
With that said, love happens. I know 3 couples that work together and got married. Things have been fine for them.



AirTupac 02-10-2012 11:54 PM

Re: ever get with a girl you work with?
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by B-Low


Pam at her prime :bowdown:
Pam now :(

The Macho Man 02-10-2012 11:55 PM

Re: ever get with a girl you work with?
 
I'd bang her and worry about the rest later. I make poor choices though.


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