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IBLEEDGREEN43 01-30-2007 12:01 AM

OT- Remember My Relationship Problems From November.. Updated Status... Ohhh My Godd
 
hey.. thanks for all your advice back in the day when me and my ex were going through such horrible times.. which lead to our breakup..

we went a few weeks without talking, and she texted me christmas day and said merry christmas.. i said yea... then she sent me a text on our ' anniversery' that would have been on january first.. new years eve.. she ended up crying on the phone for an hour.. talking about how insane my life got.. because..

1. i got sent to therapy.. because i cut myself after we broke up.. and said alot of things that i didnt mean to alot of people
2. i was just not happy with life.. and even though people will flame me alive because ' i fell for a girl'.. whatever.. i dont have parents that love me, and i am on my own...
3. i loved that girl.. and it sucked real bad.. and i had nobody to look to.. so i checked myself into therapy..

she was real distressed because i got sent away at first, and i found out that she never went to that girls birthday party back in november.. she was just playin around' with another kid... but they broke up.. and she is lonely.. hm..

so i say.. ur single.. im single.. ur not happy.. im not happy.. lets work it out.. she says no...

i get even madder....


then.. a few weeks go by.. and i end up seeing her at a basketball game.. and i say.. ayo why do you continue to ignore me.. because at this time.. i needed her as a emotional supporter.. because i am still taking depressant meds, and often wonder what its like to die... she just doesnt have the feelings to even be there for me.. and i got real upset and got into a verbal fight with her at the basketball game..

she had to get a police escort out of the building.as a safety measure...... the cops followed me to my house.. took me down to the stattion.. and i just recently got checked back into therapy....

she seems to have moved on, yet i just.. i dk.. its such a weird feeling...

the weird thing is.... i still feel like our chapter in life isnt completed.. and that this time apart will eventually return to me as a good thing... because lord knows i dont have much anyways...

its just a horrible situation, once again..

if you even think about flaming me for having feelings for a girl.. go and give your mom and dad a hug for me, because thats more than ive had the oppertunity to do the last 5 years of my life...

situations like this take over your mind, and real people experience this.. thats why i am praying posters on inside hoops respect this situation.. if not.. grow up

Howard5Dirk41 01-30-2007 12:34 AM

Re: OT- Remember My Relationship Problems From November.. Updated Status... Ohhh My Godd
 
uhm ok, how old are you? **** happens, the faster you get over it the better you'll be. it wasnt meant to be.move on and meet another girl. you're young i think, so you should be having fun, not looking for a wife.

LakersDynasty 01-30-2007 12:42 AM

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I feel for you dude. I know exactly what you're going through. Girls are just *****es (most), gotta learn to live with it. I had a 1+ year relationship and it's been 5 months now and I still can't get over it, sucks. **** that ***** though, I cursed her to hell.

IBLEEDGREEN43 01-30-2007 12:45 AM

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Quote:

Originally Posted by LakersDynasty
I feel for you dude. I know exactly what you're going through. Girls are just *****es (most), gotta learn to live with it. I had a 1+ year relationship and it's been 5 months now and I still can't get over it, sucks. **** that ***** though, I cursed her to hell.


yeah man.. maybe itll work out for u.. its sucha bad feeling

gts 01-30-2007 12:52 AM

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tough road to tow buddy... there are times in everyones lives when they have to take that "moment" seize it and tell yourself "i can do this on my own" i know its hard and a frightening thing to do and i know that it's hard not having that one person in your life to have your back, but you'll find that person and you'll know its right when you do... for now just take care of your self let her go on with her life sounds like she has her demons too... you'll do good and you'll be ok, just take care of yourself and don't worry about anyone else... peace

kj

final.wrath 01-30-2007 12:54 AM

Re: OT- Remember My Relationship Problems From November.. Updated Status... Ohhh My Godd
 
i feel for you man. i don't think you ever really get over heartbreak. at least i haven't after 5 years. its not like it will haunt you for your entire life but there will always be some pain there. and some happiness. remember the good times. save yourself and don't do anything to make yourself seem desperate. your best bet is to cease all contact with her man. if you're lonely shes only going to make you feel lonlier. she'll get off on the fact that you were so important to her. but she wont take you back. its a losing situation for you.

spend more time with friends if you can. work on yourself. don't worry about girls for now.

and stop being suicidal and depressed. smoke some weed or something man (that really ruined my situation even more but...). video games, movies, siblings, friends, family all ease the pain. i recommend starting a season on nba 2k7.

and most of all realize that she really wasn't the person you loved. the person you loved wouldn't have cheated on you or dumped you for another guy. the person you loved was probably more stable than that. you're missing the idea of her, not the actual her.

the actual her is a ****in *****. think about it. she'll never take you back. and honestly thats for the best. if she did you'd be relying on her liek you said for emotional support. she's your crutch. you have to heal yourself before you can have a stable relationship again. the only other chapters in life you two have is you making a fool out of yourself trying to call the girl and tell her how much you loved her. don't beg. don't be desperate.

its better that you fix yourself before you fix your broken ass relationship with this ho.

JSub 01-30-2007 12:54 AM

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the hells wrong with you man? we've all been there. every guy has been dumped at some point in his life, yet we all move on as tough as that may be. then there are people like you who slit your wrists? you do realize there are millions of people in the world dying of AIDS and starving to death on a daily basis? you do realize you live in the greatest country in the world, with all the comforts of western civilization. if you're reading this, that means you have a computer and internet connection. thats a sign for you to SHUT THE **** UP and live your life. quit wasting your time and our time posting for advice on a basketball forum.

life is tough. boohoo. you need somebody to slap the **** outta your head. i can see why your gf left you. she wants a man, not an emo boy.

final.wrath 01-30-2007 01:04 AM

Re: OT- Remember My Relationship Problems From November.. Updated Status... Ohhh My
 
jsub, karma's a *****. next time some bad **** happens to you, you'll know it was because you kicked some depressed kid when he was down on ISH.

IBLEEDGREEN43 01-30-2007 01:06 AM

Re: OT- Remember My Relationship Problems From November.. Updated Status... Ohhh My
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by JSub
the hells wrong with you man? we've all been there. every guy has been dumped at some point in his life, yet we all move on as tough as that may be. then there are people like you who slit your wrists? you do realize there are millions of people in the world dying of AIDS and starving to death on a daily basis? you do realize you live in the greatest country in the world, with all the comforts of western civilization. if you're reading this, that means you have a computer and internet connection. thats a sign for you to SHUT THE **** UP and live your life. quit wasting your time and our time posting for advice on a basketball forum.

life is tough. boohoo. you need somebody to slap the **** outta your head. i can see why your gf left you. she wants a man, not an emo boy.


thats fine.. my problems have nothing to do with computers.. aids.. western civilization.. you make no sense.. stop talking to me..

gts 01-30-2007 01:13 AM

Re: OT- Remember My Relationship Problems From November.. Updated Status... Ohhh My
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by IBLEEDGREEN43
thats fine.. my problems have nothing to do with computers.. aids.. western civilization.. you make no sense.. stop talking to me..



good job now use that same attitude on your ex, i don't know how old you are it's actually none of my business but try and have fun no matter how old you are we only get one shot at this deal so try not to waste too much time on stuff you can't control.. nice ownage on jsub

sydneyking 01-30-2007 01:18 AM

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I heard that "Real Men Wear Green" has done this to her other boyfriends as well. It's not just you.

IBLEEDGREEN43 01-30-2007 01:21 AM

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hm

JSub 01-30-2007 03:17 AM

Re: OT- Remember My Relationship Problems From November.. Updated Status... Ohhh My
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by final.wrath
jsub, karma's a *****. next time some bad **** happens to you, you'll know it was because you kicked some depressed kid when he was down on ISH.


who the **** pisssed on your bbq? i'm not kicking anybody while he's down. i'm trying to talk some sense into this kid who thinks his problems outweigh the problems of the world. there are millions of people who have it worse and who are fighting to stay alive, yet we have a boy here who thinks its the end of the world when a ***** left him, so hes going to kill himself for no reason.

you need to put your life into perspective. there are thousands of girls out there for you, yet you cant look past some ***** who doesnt want you. there are thousands of people who starve to death, but you're healthy enough to slit your own wrists. quit your yapping already. life goes on. things dont happen in real life as they do in the movies. you learn to live with it and you move on.

that's one thing you need to get through your thick immature skull. if you have time to post bullsht on an nba forum, then you sure as hell better not complain about your life.

hotsizzle 01-30-2007 04:24 AM

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jsub wasnt flaming anyone. he makes perfect sense. think about it. you're sitting here all healthy, you got food, got freedom, etc...but you're going the distance of slitting your wrists for some girl. If you want to slit your wrists over a b!tch that doesnt give a sh!t about you, I wonder what those people in Africa are doing when they go weeks and months without food, they're suffering and fighting just to be able to survive and you're single handedly wanting to take your life for ONE girl. Be thankful for what you have...

SupermanOnSteroids 01-30-2007 06:18 AM

Re: OT- Remember My Relationship Problems From November.. Updated Status... Ohhh My
 
dude just needs to man up and move on. some people just love misery. this guy sounds like the type. the girl obviously doesn't want him and he keeps running after her. if a girl has to call the police to keep you away from her, i don't know how much more clear she could make that she doesn't want you back. not tryin to flame ya bro, but you just need to man up and move on. you're not the first guy to ever get dumped. sitting around thinking about how miserable your life is and cuttin yourself is only going to make your life even more miserable. besides, what good does cutting do? are you trying to kill yourself? if you really wanted to you would have done it already b/c i know for a fact that blades cut deeper than the skin. you just need to let things go and learn how to move the hell on. no better time to practice that than now.

as far as your parents go, growin up my situation wasn't peaches either. just wait. just wait till you graduate high school. move out and go to college. if you can't go to college, go to the army and then go to college. plus there are people out there, including the govt that can't wait to lend you or even grant you the money to go get that education. go to college, get away from your current situation, make new friends, hit the books, find a new girl and get on with your life. just quit *****ing about how bad your life is, b/c the more you whine about it, the worse its going to be. just learn to look up and have the guts to work to make your future better instead of focusing on how horrible your present is. you can't always go around and look for people to hold your hand and walk you through things, learn to take it upon yourself to be tougher than the situation presented to you. i'm sure you're capable of doing that, you just have to realize that yourself. until then, no amount of therapy can help you.


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