Originally Posted by Bladers
Its different when your married (god knows how many years) and have lived and been together (god knows how many years).
WAY different to meeeting a girl and clicking, then trying to get to know eachother. you should know this. When you are not living together and you trying to build something, you talk and go out. it comes natural. we used to talk early morning, during the day while she doing shit and then at night till we slept and went out about 3-4 to exotic restaurants times a week and did everything together.
God she took me places i never been. haven't had so much fun before or after.
Do I need to talk for an hour a day now? I don't. But the point is, she doing it with another niggah in the same way we did when we hit it off. That's the problem here. I don't even mind her ****ing him, i do but being emo invested into someone else, rearranging your schedule for someone else, cutting everyone else to talk to someone else. thats what she did for me when i use to work alot of hours, now she doing it for him.
It makes me so mad!
It's not different, i'm just more experienced than you. Do you not want the girl sucking off other guys? DON'T ACT LIKE AN EMOTIONALLY NEEDY BITCH. If you are available that much, there is no pursuit, you are clearly not in demand if you have that much time, and you are not as interesting.
Don't talk to the girl that much. Don't be available 24/7. Make her work around that and you'll have more success.
I got my wife because after she left when she visited me i didn't call for a few days, and she asked me why and i said "i was busy". Made her pursue. When i was younger i pursued. When i was older i didn't. When i was younger i got nothing, when i was older i probably fathered a small city of puerto rican / chinese kids. (Robbing purses but investing that money well afterwards).
STOP BEING SUCH A ***** AND YOU'LL HAVE MORE SUCCESS.