If you caught your girlfriend lying, break up?

[LongBeachLakers]

My girlfriend lied about going to play pool with some friends but what she really did was she went clubbing and danced with a bunch of guys. This was the first time I caught her lying. Should I break up?

[bballer]

She can't lie if she's dead, just sayin.

[purplch0de]

yeah obv. theres trust issues. how long is the relationship?

[Rnbizzle]

She can't lie if she's dead, just sayin.

[LongBeachLakers]

yeah obv. theres trust issues. how long is the relationship?

2 years. So I'm assuming she's been lying the whole time and not her first

. How should I confront her? Just leave and not say a thing or say why?

[Stuckey]

absolutely

no doubt about it, that's just

unacceptable

[Go Getter]

"The women in my life, cause confusion and shit, so like Nino in New Jack, I holla cancel that B@$#%!"


Naw, for real, would she forgive you if you got caught like she did?

It's a sticky situation by my gut says cut her off.

[Kebab Stall]

If she's lying to you, there's definitely trust issues which need to be resolved. You should confront about it, but just don't dive in head first and attack her about it.

[LongBeachLakers]

absolutely

no doubt about it, that's just

unacceptable

Kinda sucks because I've been nothing but loyal to her and she does this. I feel gutted to be honest. I'm packing up right now, I haven't confronted her yet. She says that she's having a girls night out but I feel that a girls night out is for single people not when you're in a relationship.

She lied about where she was going and what shell be doing. If she wants to be single that bad I'll let her be. If I leave shell lose her job cause she uses my truck to get to work. I'm tired of being supportive and loyal to her and have her lie like this.

[LJJ]

She was probably lying because she expected you to act like a little bitc[FONT="Arial"]h[/FONT] about it and completely overreact.

Kind of like you are doing now eh.

[LongBeachLakers]

She was probably lying because she expected you to act like a little bitc[FONT="Arial"]h[/FONT] about it and completely overreact.

Kind of like you are doing now eh.

Hell yea I would overreact cause I know what clubs are like. And what girls and guys do there. I'm only reacting this way because she lied. If she told the truth I would have been initially upset and then ok with it.

[the_chosen_1]

Leave!

We all know clubs are the place people go to get laid.
She goes and dances with guys and lies? What do you think she is up to? Save yourself the headache

[hammer2010]

My girlfriend lied about going to play pool with some friends but what she really did was she went clubbing and danced with a bunch of guys. This was the first time I caught her lying. Should I break up?

How do you know she was dancing with guys? Sure she lied but you are creating scenarios in your head that may not be true. A lot of girls with boyfriends go to clubs with their friends and just stay with their friends. Some don't even talk to random guys. Leaving a gf of 2 years for a reason like this is stupid and you will regret it if you love her. However you should confront her and talk this out. A lot of times things like this are a blessing in a relationship if you handle it properly, and can lead to being more open with one another.

[LongBeachLakers]

How do you know she was dancing with guys? Sure she lied but you are creating scenarios in your head that may not be true. A lot of girls with boyfriends go to clubs with their friends and just stay with their friends. Some don't even talk to random guys. Leaving a gf of 2 years for a reason like this is stupid and you will regret it if you love her. However you should confront her and talk this out. A lot of times things like this are a blessing in a relationship if you handle it properly, and can lead to being more open with one another.

I read her text(which I shouldnt), and she says she just wants to dance and told her friend she lied to me about where she was goin. I know I shouldnt have been snooping but she seemed suspicious .

[step_back]

This will sort her out.