No more fap for me

[Chuckbe]

Unfortunately I just relapsed....

20 days though so overall happy as that is probably the longest I have gone without fapping in a while

Back to it this time, hopefully I can get a much longer streak

What made you relapse?

[highwhey]

What made you relapse?

tranny porn probably

[Manny98]

What made you relapse?

I was bored had a lot of time of my hands and one thing lead to another and yeah....

[bison]

when you watch porn, you are watching a woman you are attracted to get banged by another man...and pleasuring yourself to it. that is the definition of cuckoldry.

[Axe]

15 days at it

[Lebron23]

Starting a 30 days No fapping after Valentines Day

[Manny98]

Going to start a new streak starting Monday I have been really bad recently once you fall off it's hard to get back on

[fsvr54]

I've had streaks in my life without purposely trying, but now I'm going to actually see if this is what people say it is.... currently on day 3 or so

[Axe]

I've had streaks in my life without purposely trying, but now I'm going to actually see if this is what people say it is.... currently on day 3 or so

If you're used to doing it so much before and have a long, good streak of restraining it now, you might actually feel that your self-esteem would improve and not get shy so easily around other people.

[fsvr54]

If you're used to doing it so much before and have a long, good streak of restraining it now, you might actually feel that your self-esteem would improve.

My self esteem cannot possibly get any higher

[Axe]

My self esteem cannot possibly get any higher

What about when there are other people around you? Would you get so shy easily when they're around you or not?

[fsvr54]

What about when there are other people around you? Would you get so shy easily when they're around you or not?

Jerking off in front of other people LOL?

[Axe]

Jerking off in front of other people LOL?

No, not that lmao. Ofc you wouldn't do that if you aren't alone. What i meant was, do you feel like being shy around them because you do or might do the habit most of the time?

For example, you did so for a handful of times. Then after, you went to a party with your friends and you feel somewhat anxious around them.

[fsvr54]

No, not that lmao. Ofc you wouldn't do that if you aren't alone. What i meant was, do you feel like being shy around them because you do or might do the habit most of the time?

For example, you did so for a handful of times. Then after, you went to a party with your friends and you feel somewhat anxious around them.

I haven't experienced that, no. My friends jerk off too haha, in the 21st century almost everyone does, people talk about it, especially dudes growing up.

[jstern]

What about when there are other people around you? Would you get so shy easily when they're around you or not?

This post reminds me of Jasper.

No, not that lmao. Ofc you wouldn't do that if you aren't alone. What i meant was, do you feel like being shy around them because you do or might do the habit most of the time?

For example, you did so for a handful of times. Then after, you went to a party with your friends and you feel somewhat anxious around them.

You seem to have issues related to your family and the way you grew up that brings you shame, even if they have no idea, or ever thought about you jacking off. You so freely talk about jacking off here, so open about it, yet being around the people you, for a lack of a better word, love, gives you anxiety. Even though you're the only one that even knows about it.

Anxiety is a survival mechanism, depending on the organism, it helps them avoid things that could get them killed. In animals it works. But for humans it can be irrational.

Back in the day, shame would lead to getting kicked out of the group, society, which will lead to death. If you're disowned by your parents back in those hunter and gathering days, it would lead to death. So shame was a very important survival mechanism. And it seems to be heavily triggered by the way you grew up. you have this irrational fear of probably looking people in the eye because of your irrational shame.

This is why I want you to be more like Manny98 in real life. If you like tranny porn, or lesbian porn, or any of the countless type of porn, don't tell your family (the shame is a legit survival mechanism), but maybe find some like minded people. Other than that, understand that it's irrational, your parents won't know what you're doing.