whats the point of even trying?

[nathanjizzle]

Well you have 2 choices man. You can accept where you are on the social hierarchy and forget about being cool, or realize that the hierarchy is a joke, find humor in it, and do what you want not caring about how you are viewed.

hierarchy in highschool is a joke.

[chips93]

fwiw, id say the worst couple years for me, were early in high school

i struggled in social situations, and i wanted to get better, and never seemed to.

then just naturally over time, you grow up, and it gets easier.

[HylianNightmare]

just freshman blues, chill with some friends, make mistakes and learn from them, you are young. life gets better later in high school and later in life

[gigantes]

@jameer,
just curious-- how much are you looking for people to just listen a little bit versus people who want to give you loads of advice based on their personal experiences?


that's always kind of a confusing thing to me when a bro says he's struggling.

[Jameerthefear]

@jameer,
just curious-- how much are you looking for people to just listen a little bit versus people who want to give you loads of advice based on their personal experiences?


that's always kind of a confusing thing to me when a bro says he's struggling.

kind of both... although everytime i take you guys's advice i fail

[ace23]

my life sucks i want to kill myself.

What are you waiting for?

[9erempiree]

Another look....

[gigantes]

kind of both... although everytime i take you guys's advice i fail

that's what i figured.

so where do you stand now on the issue?



note... i've been through some therapists and been part of a program in which each week we took turns listening and telling the other person our troubles. i've been taught that our first brotherly instinct should always be to listen first, ask questions next, then give advice last.

[CanYouDigIt]

If you are trying this hard to get a girlfriend, then just quit.

Become gay/bisexual IRL

This way you get a lot more girls to be your friend and get some pety male friends.

Everyone wins, besides your parents...

[gts]

Jameer, don't take it all too seriously. Take your school work serious, it's your one "must do"

Everything else is just window dressing that won't mean jack diddly in 3 years.

You don't have to get laid you don't have to go to a prom you don't have to drink beer under the bleachers.

Do what you do, do what you're comfortable doing and don't let anybody tell you you're doing it wrong

[TheReal Kendall]

Keep your head up Lil bro.

Things gonna get better.

Just be yourself

[Just2McFly]

Dawg you have do things for your own enjoyment and be genuine, half the dude my age wear pants that are too tight and think its acceptable to go out wearing virtually the same out fit. Being an improved less insecure and downtrodden version of yourself will attract desirable people in your life.

[Bandito]

You know OP should just do what he wants to do. Like just make a choice and stick with it. All we can do is give you advice to help you but in the end everything that happened in your life so far is because you made that choice. So if you think ISH is making your life worse then just stop listening to advices from other people.

In the end just listen to your brain. or feelings/heart call it whatever.

[GOBB]

i try so hard to be cool to have social interaction all that bullshit you guys tell me to do and i still fail. i try to have fun and stuff but i dont. i have a crush on a fvcking freshman too and i can't even get that. my life sucks i want to kill myself.

Why do you sound like the daughter your mother wish she had? Your dad needs to beat you tomato red. Enroll in some tae kwon do, boxing classes. You need some discipline in your life since there are no males toughening you up. Play sports. You're this soft ass kid who enjoys the internet, anime porn and whines. You got balls but they sit far up in your stomach its disgusting. Get into a fight or something. Who cares if you get your ass kicked. At least you do something physical. Guess this explains your dads tear drop tattoo. Unhappy his son is a certified pansy.

You're not even my kid and I want to slap you so hard my f*cking fingerprints stay on your face for a week or two. I'd probably put you out the house and make you run until you cried so much your tear ducts go kerrrrrplunk and dont work anymore. Stop acting like a girly boy.

[Jameerthefear]

Why do you sound like the daughter your mother wish she had? Your dad needs to beat you tomato red. Enroll in some tae kwon do, boxing classes. You need some discipline in your life since there are no males toughening you up. Play sports. You're this soft ass kid who enjoys the internet, anime porn and whines. You got balls but they sit far up in your stomach its disgusting. Get into a fight or something. Who cares if you get your ass kicked. At least you do something physical. Guess this explains your dads tear drop tattoo. Unhappy his son is a certified pansy.

You're not even my kid and I want to slap you so hard my f*cking fingerprints stay on your face for a week or two. I'd probably put you out the house and make you run until you cried so much your tear ducts go kerrrrrplunk and dont work anymore. Stop acting like a girly boy.

I'm not that bad in real life GOBB. I do play sports, you're so mean