How to help a friend that is extremely p-whipped?

[Nick Young]

Does anyone have any advice for helping out friends who are ridiculously pussy whipped?

My flat mate and one of my best friends started dating this chick 7 months ago who is like a 5/10 at best and has the added bonus of looking 14 years old. Sometimes it looks like a dad walking with his daughter and he's only 22. Its a combination of her being flat, no hips, short, doesnt wear makeup and dresses like a middle school girl, but that's not the point.

The point is this dude used to be cool but now all he talks about is his girlfriend, they've been dating 7 months and haven't even had sex. She's a hardcore repressed Christian and instilling her will upon him. Already he's told me they've talked about getting married within the next year. This guy is throwing his life down the toilet for a 5/10 prude christian with a boring personality.

I used to do a business with him and my other friend, but since this girl came in 7 months ago he's effectively done nothing to contribute to the business at all. It's pretty much just me and my non-whipped friend with him still tagging on, but not really contributing anything. He's effectively been dropped and he doesn't even give a shit. The business is making money but he's just happy to dote on his girlfriend and work in a super market instead of reaping the rewards.


This guy used to be cool but now he acts like a limp dicked faggot who can't do anything without asking his girlfriend if it's ok first. It's harsh but its true. His other friends all feel this way too. He stopped hanging out with a lot of them because she throws little girl tantrums if he talks to or looks at other girls, or if he gets drunk. Every 4 days or so she manufactures some drama that makes him mope all day and cry in his room, until he desperately apologizes and she forgives him.

An example of the drama she invents is she made him "confess" to her what kind of porn he watches, because she thought porn was disgusting. He told her exactly what kind of porn he watches, she made fun of him then told him he wasn't allowed to watch porn anymore. Like a bitch, he said Ok. This guy used to not be a loser, but he's become close to the most desperate beta loser I can imagine. He used to be ambitious and organized.

In your experience what's the best way to help out p*ssy whipped friends? Should I try to intervention and tell him the honest truth about how he's throwing away his life to a 5/10 loser chick and becoming boring and pussy whipped, or is it better to mind my own business and let him fail at life and make his own mistakes?

[chosen_one6]

Does anyone have any advice for helping out friends who are ridiculously pussy whipped?

My flat mate and one of my best friends started dating this chick 7 months ago who is like a 5/10 at best and has the added bonus of looking 14 years old. Sometimes it looks like a dad walking with his daughter and he's only 22. Its a combination of her being flat, no hips, short, doesnt wear makeup and dresses like a middle school girl, but that's not the point.

The point is this dude used to be cool but now all he talks about is his girlfriend, they've been dating 7 months and haven't even had sex. She's a hardcore repressed Christian and instilling her will upon him. Already he's told me they've talked about getting married within the next year. This guy is throwing his life down the toilet for a 5/10 prude christian with a boring personality.

I used to do a business with him and my other friend, but since this girl came in 7 months ago he's effectively done nothing to contribute to the business at all. It's pretty much just me and my non-whipped friend with him still tagging on, but not really contributing anything. He's effectively been dropped and he doesn't even give a shit. The business is making money but he's just happy to dote on his girlfriend and work in a super market instead of reaping the rewards.


This guy used to be cool but now he acts like a limp dicked faggot who can't do anything without asking his girlfriend if it's ok first. It's harsh but its true. His other friends all feel this way too. He stopped hanging out with a lot of them because she throws little girl tantrums if he talks to or looks at other girls, or if he gets drunk. Every 4 days or so she manufactures some drama that makes him mope all day and cry in his room, until he desperately apologizes and she forgives him.

An example of the drama she invents is she made him "confess" to her what kind of porn he watches, because she thought porn was disgusting. He told her exactly what kind of porn he watches, she made fun of him then told him he wasn't allowed to watch porn anymore. Like a bitch, he said Ok. This guy used to not be a loser, but he's become close to the most desperate beta loser I can imagine. He used to be ambitious and organized.

In your experience what's the best way to help out p*ssy whipped friends? Should I try to intervention and tell him the honest truth about how he's throwing away his life to a 5/10 loser chick and becoming boring and pussy whipped, or is it better to mind my own business and let him fail at life and make his own mistakes?

If she makes him happy and causes no negative affects to him physically or mentally then let them be.

[Nick Young]

He is mentally definitely affected, his self esteem has gone to shit, and he used to work hard at our business and be ambitious but now he just gives up really easily and he's completely dropped it, and he used to be assertive and now just bends to her will. It is the most co-dependant shit I've ever seen up close and he's obsessed with her in a bad way, in that he puts every waking moment to her and she has got other shit going on and has life.

But you're right so far I've just been minding my own business so far, he's clearly flushing his life down the toilet but I guess that's just what happens in life, can't let that shit drag me and my business down, and have to come to terms that people change.

[KobesFinger]

He is mentally definitely affected, his self esteem has gone to shit, and he used to work hard at our business and be ambitious but now he just gives up really easily and he's completely dropped it, and he used to be assertive and now just bends to her will. It is the most co-dependant shit I've ever seen up close and they're obsessed with eachother in a bad way.

But you're right so far I've just been minding my own business so far, he's flushing his life down the toilet but I guess that's just what happens in life, can't let that shit drag me and my business down, and have to come to terms that people change.

Take him to a strip club or a party with easy girls

[chosen_one6]

He is mentally definitely affected, his self esteem has gone to shit, and he used to work hard at our business and be ambitious but now he just gives up really easily and he's completely dropped it, but you're right so far I've just been minding my own business so far, he's flushing his life down the toilet but I guess that's just what happens in life, can't let that shit drag me and my business down, and have to come to terms that people change.

If he has allowed himself to let another person affect him that much, then shame on him. All you can do as a friend is voice your opinion and hope that he takes it into consideration. You can't get involved with other people's emotions, it gets too messy.

[Budadiiii]

Those guys are always disappointing.

Just the type of dudes you cant rely on. I've seen it happen so many times, a dude catches feelings and becomes a slave to the girl. Just lose their drive, their manhood. They turn into drug addicts or some shit. They NEED that girl.

I've always been independent, a leader, an 'alpha' so to speak. Had plenty of girls on my dick throughout schooling, never phased me. I continued to live in the moment and take care of business. Kept pushing forward, never got consumed by the temporary satisfaction of having a mate, didn't get attached, or distracted.

Which is why I consider myself to be better than mostly everyone else. Self reliant and mentally strong and well rounded.

GOAT material.

[Nick Young]

Take him to a strip club or a party with easy girls

LOL I tried that last month, had a house party with a bunch of Scandinavian and romanian girls from my work last month, even was hyping up to him that one of the girls was really into him so he knew there'd be an easy lay. I wasn't lying this girl has met him a few times and told me she wants to f*ck him. An easy 7.5, and upgrade on his prude plain jane girlfriend. His girlfriend wasn't around but he just had one drink and went to bed at 10 to call his girlfriend, hardly even looked at or spoke to any of the girls. It's just gotten to the point where I've completely lost faith in this guy, not just as a friend but as a business partner. He chick is a goddamn Yoko, but whatever if its what they both want I guess I got to let them be.

[chosen_one6]

Those guys are always disappointing.

Just the type of dudes you cant rely on. I've seen it happen so many times, a dude catches feelings and becomes a slave to the girl. Just lose their drive, their manhood. They turn into drug addicts or some shit. They NEED that girl.

I've always been independent, a leader, an 'alpha' so to speak. Had plenty of girls on my dick throughout schooling, never phased me. I continued to live in the moment and take care of business. Kept pushing forward, never got consumed by the temporary satisfaction of having a mate, didn't get attached, or distracted.

Which is why I consider myself to be better than mostly everyone else. Self reliant and mentally strong and well rounded.

GOAT material.

When you're done jerking yourself off into your mouth please join us in conversation, but brush your teeth first.

[ballup]

Sounds like someone is jealous because his man was stolen away from him.

[Nick Young]

Sounds like someone is jealous because his man was stolen away from him.

LOL maybe. This guy was a good business partner when we were starting up, now he is useless and dead weight.

[Budadiiii]

When you're done jerking yourself off into your mouth please join us in conversation, but brush your teeth first.

What conversation? This is a beta thread. I don't want to be involved in whatever beta jibber jabber you guys are engaged in. Not my forte.

Asking how to get your 'old friend back' because n*gga done found something new to live for, he found some new sense of comfort and excitement, and this n*gga doesn't like it. He wants his old friend back. He doesn't want to share him with sum bitch.

That's beta talk. LOL, I aint about to join in and give my advice. Sometimes its good to post about yourself, for yourself, instead of talking about random people. I know its hard for someone that lives vicariously through another man, ala you and LBJ. But get some balls and actually be your own man and stop with the beta jibber jabber for once in your life.

[chosen_one6]

What conversation? This is a beta thread. I don't want to be involved in whatever beta jibber jabber you guys are engaged in. Not my forte.

Asking how to get your 'old friend back' because n*gga done found something new to live for, he found some new sense of comfort and excitement, and this n*gga doesn't like it. He wants his old friend back. He doesn't want to share him with sum bitch.

That's beta talk. LOL, I aint about to join in and give my advice. Sometimes its good to post about yourself, for yourself, instead of talking about random people. I know its hard for someone that lives vicariously through another man, ala you and LBJ. But get some balls and actually be your own man and stop with the beta jibber jabber for once in your life.

Right, because being a fan of a sports figure clearly means I live vicariously through them.

You're obviously too self-righteous to indulge in conversation about things that happen to people in the real world. Back to your dungeon you go, sucking yourself off. Have fun Mr. Alpha. I'm sure your skin will be extra silky smooth from all of the extra protein it'll be receiving shortly.

[Budadiiii]

Right, because being a fan of a sports figure clearly means I live vicariously through them.

You're obviously too self-righteous to indulge in conversation about things that happen to people in the real world. Back to your dungeon you go, sucking yourself off. Have fun Mr. Alpha. I'm sure your skin will be extra silky smooth from all of the extra protein it'll be receiving shortly.

LOL dude, seriously? It's that easy to get under your skin? haha, wow.

I was saying all that in jest, not really taking myself too serious, and this is the type of beta response I get?

Dude, you're a freaking beta. There's no doubt about it. You want real world? 7 strangers living in the same house?

*punches chosen_one6 in the gut*

Real enough for you?




"organized sports are so fatuous, it makes me sick"

Infiltrate the dealer, find the supplier.

You = beta.

[Bandito]

Right, because being a fan of a sports figure clearly means I live vicariously through them.

You're obviously too self-righteous to indulge in conversation about things that happen to people in the real world. Back to your dungeon you go, sucking yourself off. Have fun Mr. Alpha. I'm sure your skin will be extra silky smooth from all of the extra protein it'll be receiving shortly.

[Dresta]

You really can't do anything.

Just give him up as a lost cause and then wait until the whole thing falls apart, which it eventually will.