How to help a friend that is extremely p-whipped?

[I<3NBA]

**** his girl and then tell him what you did. you might lose him as a friend but i can guarantee he'll definitely leave the girl.


or not - if he's a bigger bitch than i thought.

but that girl sounds like a real bitch. she definitely needs to be taught a lesson.

[YouGotServed]

Sounds like someone is jealous because his man was stolen away from him.

This. Why you all up in his business? Quit worrying about another man's life like a f*cking loser and mind your own business. He's a grown man, he doesn't need your advice.

[Nick Young]

This. Why you all up in his business? Quit worrying about another man's life like a f*cking loser and mind your own business. He's a grown man, he doesn't need your advice.

Cus not only is he a friend he used to be a productive business partner and now he doesn't do jack shit, just rots and moans. Because the guy is one of my flat mates, I hear him moan a lot, I even just started leaving the room when he starts to moan and he follows me in to the kitchen to complain about some bullshit, or to brag about some boring bullshit his girlfriend did. You're right though, can't let negativity drag me down anymore, gotta move on and drop the dead weight.

[niko]

You really can't do anything.

Just give him up as a lost cause and then wait until the whole thing falls apart, which it eventually will.

This.

[1987_Lakers]

I was in a similar situation.

I have a friend who was extremely p-whipped and the worst part of it is she was/is a complete bitch. She would disrespect my friend's parents (my friend's sister hates her), he would never hang out with us without her presence. She wanted him all to herself, over-attached type of girl. There was a time when I didn't hang out with him for a 6 month period because she caught him cheating, my friend's whole family dislikes her and my friends think she's a total bitch. The final straw was when she caught my friend smoking weed and she overreacted BIG time, she started cusses him out, disrespecting him and moved out the house. Seriously, who the f*** acts like that over some weed? She told my friend that she would get back with him, but he has to stop smoking weed and he has to change his number and never talk to his friends again.

Me and other friends pulled him aside and told him straight up that's not a healthy relationship, you can't let her control you like that. And he finally took our advice and she moved out.

OP have you at least pulled him aside and told him how you feel?

[1987_Lakers]

In your experience what's the best way to help out p*ssy whipped friends? Should I try to intervention and tell him the honest truth about how he's throwing away his life to a 5/10 loser chick and becoming boring and pussy whipped,

Do this, in a respectful way of course, if you can tell other friends to join you, that would help.

[KobesFinger]

Do this, in a respectful way of course, if you can tell other friends to join you, that would help.

how do you respectfully tell your boy his chick is ugly and a bitch?

[Swaggin916]

Those guys are always disappointing.

Just the type of dudes you cant rely on. I've seen it happen so many times, a dude catches feelings and becomes a slave to the girl. Just lose their drive, their manhood. They turn into drug addicts or some shit. They NEED that girl.

I've always been independent, a leader, an 'alpha' so to speak. Had plenty of girls on my dick throughout schooling, never phased me. I continued to live in the moment and take care of business. Kept pushing forward, never got consumed by the temporary satisfaction of having a mate, didn't get attached, or distracted.

Which is why I consider myself to be better than mostly everyone else. Self reliant and mentally strong and well rounded.

GOAT material.

Typical sterotypical male afraid to connect with anyone other than himself and those who will help him.

[niko]

how do you respectfully tell your boy his chick is ugly and a bitch?

You don't. It won't work. I've had people drop off that you tell over and over what is going on, either they ignore, or they blame you, or they turn on you since you are against the great love of their life.

It's a lost cause.

[Swaggin916]

Nick Young tell your friend he is doing this girl a real disservice and being selfish for disillusioning this girl about how the world works. I have seen this same thing with my friend and his girl is so delusional about how life works and totally dependent on others to do anything. She gets depressed when she's on her own and cut her wrists a few weeks ago. She takes days off from school that others are paying for and probably will lolly gag when it comes to getting a job. I just hope she will get a job and the employers have patience. She needs to learn.

That's the type of person your buddy is creating. If he doesn't care then just let him be and help him out when the shitshow falls apart. He's going to need it. I just hope he doesn't get her pregnant... That just makes things so difficult.

[Nick Young]

I was in a similar situation.

I have a friend who was extremely p-whipped and the worst part of it is she was/is a complete bitch. She would disrespect my friend's parents (my friend's sister hates her), he would never hang out with us without her presence. She wanted him all to herself, over-attached type of girl. There was a time when I didn't hang out with him for a 6 month period because she caught him cheating, my friend's whole family dislikes her and my friends think she's a total bitch. The final straw was when she caught my friend smoking weed and she overreacted BIG time, she started cusses him out, disrespecting him and moved out the house. Seriously, who the f*** acts like that over some weed? She told my friend that she would get back with him, but he has to stop smoking weed and he has to change his number and never talk to his friends again.

Me and other friends pulled him aside and told him straight up that's not a healthy relationship, you can't let her control you like that. And he finally took our advice and she moved out.

OP have you at least pulled him aside and told him how you feel?

We told him a few times you arent doing jack shit in the business because you're spending all your time with that chick, he then works hard for like 2 days and goes back to doing nothing and being whipped after that. We told him he doesnt do anything anymore and he just says "I know." and starts moaning about how hard his life is. Where he used to stick up for himself, nowadays when confronted he just bitches out looks down at the floor and apologizes.

Or he makes a shit load of p-whipped bitch excuses, how he has too look after his girlfriend, how he has to go to church with her (dude was a hardcore atheist before dating this girl), how he has to lay in bed all day with her all weekend cus she's sad or some shit, etc. I just dont get how do you lay in bed all weekend with a chick you aren't even boning. I would not deal with that shit. He basically worships this low quality bitch as if she was a god and my business and finances are suffering because of it.

Never told him before this chick isnt worth the effort and how whipped he's become but deep down I am pretty sure he knows it, he has no confidence at all anymore and is boring to hang out with, dude is a lost cause.

The business is still going without him. Just kind of hard to write him out of it Zuckerberg style, but it seems if things keep going like this thats going to have to happen.

[Jailblazers7]

If my GF asked me what porn I watch I think I would just laugh in her face.

But honestly, it doesn't sound like their is much that you can do unless you are a really persuasive personality. It seems like a toxic relationship that either needs to get better over time or just end. At some point the dude will realize it but it could take a while.

[macmac]

You do realize that selling hand drawn comic books on the streets of Europe to passerbys who feel better about themselves this holiday season after helping someone they deem destitute and probably mental ill, isn't really considered a business right?

[Nick Young]

You do realize that selling hand drawn comic books on the streets of Europe to passerbys who feel better about themselves this holiday season after helping someone they deem destitute and probably mental ill, isn't really considered a business right?

Thats not the business but i make decent money from doing that. I dont sell comics in the street, only at conventions, in stores and online. I think I'm 2 years away of hard work on improving my skills of being able to do that for a living though.

Until then though, I got the other business with my friends, it's just small time right now but atleast in the green finally and slowly growing.

[ace23]

Pics of the chick?