Would you marry a woman if she slept with over 20 men?

[Dresta]

Well people at ISH kiss girls on the lips who just gave other guys head so I would assume no number of a girl's partners would be too much.

shut it you sexual prude.

[niko]

shut it you sexual prude.

That's the nicest thing you've ever called me.

[Dresta]

Can you find any stats that are updated? Right now, my stats are the only ones we have to base anything on.

And I don't think we should let the 30-40 different women in a term statement slide. That is too ridiculous to sweep under the rug, lol.

Man, i don't care enough about the definition of a slut to search for stats on it.

Don't let it go, i don't give a shit. I'm just saying what it was like, and using it to illustrate a point - i don't personally view at as something worth bragging about any more. I think there is a point with most non-banal individuals when that kind of shit becomes redundant.

edit: actually remembered a decent story that illustrates how easy it was: me and a friend of mine were sitting near the bar at a club (away from dancing/loud music area) and these two girls walked down a nearby set of stairs toward us; my friend said to me 'quick, ask that girl for sex' and i turned to them and just said 'ssex?' - they then sat down next to us and it wasn't long before i was back at one of their places.

True story, with witnesses.

[Josh]

Looked up some stats. I'm off, but not way off.





The number to have 21 or more by age 18 is 3%. Some of those others in the 11-20 range would certainly leak into the over 20 range. Still, that would be a small %. More than 20 male sexual partners by age 21 is far and away higher than average.

http://www.iub.edu/~kinsey/resources/FAQ.html

Myth, you gotta think those how many of them girls do you think are being 100% truthful? I think it's safe to say most women (especially these younger generations) will lie about how many men they've gotten under the sheets with. I'd say very few of them are entirely truthful.

Most women sleep with more men than they allude to. I would say any survey of that caliber, regardless of which institution did it, how accurate or scientific they claim it is, the numbers are going to be askew to some degree. Besides weight, this is the one thing women will lie through their teeth about without fail.

[Josh]

Also, I don't get why all these little boys freaking out about 20 partners in three years. Maybe it's not the (real, truthful accurate number) average but it's probably much closer than people believe or that women would want you to believe.

... and ... it's like another poster said, once she meets you if she stays faithful and isn't super loose LOL, it shouldn't mind-rape you endlessly. Now, if you want to double that number to 40, OK then we're getting into waters that go deep, and that deep water isn't something I'd want to be in. That many partners especially in such a short time is a mental image I don't want to venture into.

The basic and simple truth is - women are closing the gap in being as sexually active as men. They're viewing porn more, doing more exotic things... some people say women are in the middle of the most significant sexual revolution since the middle-to-middle-late 20th century. Knowing that, men should understand a lot of women are not going to be these sweet innocent 5 partners or less role model wives.

[Myth]

Don't let it go, i don't give a shit. I'm just saying what it was like, and using it to illustrate a point - i don't personally view at as something worth bragging about any more. I think there is a point with most non-banal individuals when that kind of shit becomes redundant.

edit: actually remembered a decent story that illustrates how easy it was: me and a friend of mine were sitting near the bar at a club (away from dancing/loud music area) and these two girls walked down a nearby set of stairs toward us; my friend said to me 'quick, ask that girl for sex' and i turned to them and just said 'ssex?' - they then sat down next to us and it wasn't long before i was back at one of their places.

True story, with witnesses.

Your stories don't make any point that makes a girl with 20+ guys under her belt any less of a slut. Just because there are other sluts and it is easy to have sex, doesn't mean that choosing to have sex with a large amount of people in a short amount a time is any less slutty.

[niko]

one day your wife will be old.

you have all your adult pictures in password protected thing

I have a ton of pictures of my wife. The important stuff is in my head. I remember. I don't need pictures.

[Derka]

The "super loose" thing is incredibly stupid.

A chick could only be with one guy for a year or two and have a loose ***** if they f*ck all the damn time...and you'd be none the wiser. Stick that in your pipe and smoke it.

You guys are such catty broads about this.

[Dresta]

Your stories don't make any point that makes a girl with 20+ guys under her belt any less of a slut. Just because there are other sluts and it is easy to have sex, doesn't mean that choosing to have sex with a large amount of people in a short amount a time is any less slutty.

But i have a lot of stories .

I'm just saying that, from my experience, a high percentage of young women go out looking for sex, either consciously or unconsciously. If someone approaches them that they like the look of enough, most will put out; and then i'm also saying that the number 20 could be reached without even seeking it in this way, and having one-night stands.

I also think the notion that if someone is a slut between the ages 18-21, or whatever, that they can't grow up or change as a person, and remain a slut forever, is ridiculous. I've slept around a fair amount, and yet i've been in a relationship now for nearly 3 years (lived with her for 2), and not once entertained a serious thought about cheating. People change, and they can change drastically when they're in a serious relationship (it has been shown actually that the brain becomes more plastic when a person is involved in an intense emotional relationships). But by all means everyone should keep up the OMG 21 and slept with 20 guys - SLUT!! SHE GONNA CHEAT ON YOU DAWWWG!!!

[I<3NBA]

The "super loose" thing is incredibly stupid.

A chick could only be with one guy for a year or two and have a loose ***** if they f*ck all the damn time...and you'd be none the wiser. Stick that in your pipe and smoke it.

You guys are such catty broads about this.

shout out on the avy. man, i love that film. superb soundtrack.

[Myth]

But i have a lot of stories .

I'm just saying that, from my experience, a high percentage of young women go out looking for sex, either consciously or unconsciously. If someone approaches them that they like the look of enough, most will put out; and then i'm also saying that the number 20 could be reached without even seeking it in this way, and having one-night stands.

I also think the notion that if someone is a slut between the ages 18-21, or whatever, that they can't grow up or change as a person, and remain a slut forever, is ridiculous. I've slept around a fair amount, and yet i've been in a relationship now for nearly 3 years (lived with her for 2), and not once entertained a serious thought about cheating. People change, and they can change drastically when they're in a serious relationship (it has been shown actually that the brain becomes more plastic when a person is involved in an intense emotional relationships). But by all means everyone should keep up the OMG 21 and slept with 20 guys - SLUT!! SHE GONNA CHEAT ON YOU DAWWWG!!!

I do think there are different levels of sluttiness. Frequent 1 night stands is certainly more slutty than what I was talking about.

As to the bolded part, I completely agree with you. If I were 21 and met a 21 year old girl who said she had sex with 20 guys and we were mutually interested in each other, I would be more hesitant to put my trust in that girl than a girl who said 4 guys, but that wouldn't mean I would dismiss her as unable to be faithful. I actually am friends with a girl who was pretty slutty when I met her my freshman year of college, but she started dating another friend of mine sophomore year. She came up to me and declared very excitedly "Guess what, I'm not a slut anymore!" I thought it was an odd thing to tell somebody, but she seemed to stay true to that 9 years later (has been in a few long term relationships, one that led to marriage a little over a year ago).

[oarabbus]

u just described a slut bro