How can you encourage your girlfriend to lose weight?

[AirTupac]

Any pics so we can assess the full situation?

[Draz]

Don't be stubborn. You chose her because she obviously made you happy right? Why change her. Lets be real about it. She can change her appearance as much as she likes. But, once she starts feeling prettier, chances are she's going to start thinking she can do better. Not saying you're doing a bad job at all, it's just human nature.

Be polite about it, be respectful. It can really damage her feelings.

[Overdrive]

Cope with it or tell her straight what's the deal. Everything else leads to drama in the long run.

Buying 2 fitness studio subscriptions is so obvious.

[outbreak]

Lose weight with her, tell her for the new year your planning on losing 5 kilos or something and could she help you diet and exercise? Most people can stand to lose a little weight and if you get a woman hooked on calorie counting and exercise they generally get into it abit.

[Dresta]

Don't be stubborn. You chose her because she obviously made you happy right? Why change her. Lets be real about it. She can change her appearance as much as she likes. But, once she starts feeling prettier, chances are she's going to start thinking she can do better. Not saying you're doing a bad job at all, it's just human nature.

Be polite about it, be respectful. It can really damage her feelings.

Isn't this the guy that's all upset that his girl once sent out a nudie picture? Read your own post and apply it to yourself plz.

And how do you know she was fat when they first started going out? Getting fat once you know someone won't leave you is just rude. lol @ damaged 'feelings' - tell people the truth: if your chick is fat then tell her she is fat; it does no good to lie to people and fill their heads with pretty little delusions.