How do you go about casual sex?

[BrooklynZoo]

pretty much all the girls I've been with (not that there's many), i've had to string along with at least a chance that a relationship could result... but damn that's too much work lol. I jus started talkin to this chick but i aint tryna get into a real relationship with her. Anyone with good pointers on how to mess around without gettin tied down?

[~primetime~]

alcohol...use the "we were just drunk" line after

[tgan3]

Just ask or go touchie on her when in the right mood and setting, 9 out of 10 times you get a slap but you are rewarded every 1 time.

[Dresta]

Go to a nightclub and take your pick of average looking sluts.

[TheReal Kendall]

Just tell them you just got out of a serious relationship and you not ready to jump in another one yet.

Tell them you just wanna chill and wing it to see where it goes.

Works every time for me but eventually they start catching feels hard

[Bandito]

Alcohol her and then just ask her

[Pushxx]

Never express emotions. Ever. Just do everything normally except for expressing emotion or showing care for anything.

It's your best chance.

[christian1923]

You just gotta be flatout with these girls. Tell them what you want.

[Draz]

Dam I've had casual sex with everyone besides my current long term girl.

[JohnFreeman]

You are putting the pvssy on a pedestal

[Kakapopo]

Wrong place to ask, most posters here haven't had sex.

[KyleKong]

You are putting the pvssy on a pedestal

This.

[zoom17]

Wrong place to ask, most posters here haven't had sex.

Speak for your self.

[BasedTom]

Casually.

[BigBoss]

-Firstly, know what your good qualities are and use that against women who lack those qualities to fill a void in their life.

-Understand what girls like. They seek security in a partner, whether it be in a relationship OR feeling secure enough to open their legs in a one night stand. For guys we don't think twice about sex, but as a female their perception of it is difference. Some girls have high sex drives and like sex, but the MAJORITY get anxiety about taking it to that next step because physiologically we're the dominant AND they're are societal stigmas against sluts, so they need to get over that barrier mentally if they haven't already. Foreplay is a MUST. In bed AND in courting her. Get her to TRUST you. Be HONEST about your intentions ALWAYS. Furthermore, to get a girl attracted to you you need a few of these qualities. Looks aren't everything. You need a personality/charisma too. Some things like 1) Independence. 2) Confidence. 3) Has money OR is going somewhere in his life. 4) Can think for himself. 5) Personal hygiene/cares about his body. 6. Do NOT be a pu$$y. If you want it, take it. Or the next guy will. As with anything in life. 7. Stop thinking about alpha/beta talk or how you should be such and such. Less thinking more action. Just do it. 7. Talk to more girls then once, so you don't give a $hit if it doesn't work out with one. 8. The mindset has to be 100% sex, do NOT catch feelings. This is chess.

The list goes on, but you need to posses, or at least fake a few of things. It helps.

There's two types of woman:

1) One who know what they want, and are independent thinkers.
2) Dependent girls who need a man. Generic personality.

Type 1 girl: If you meet a girl like this, and you think she is dtf then just be direct, because chances are they are looking for the exact same thing. I find these girls are in the 30+ range. Their biological clock is on the down end of and they've made the decision to not make it a priority, or have a relationship. Talk to her at an equal standing and get her to trust you before bringing it up/making a move.

Type 2 girl: If you meet a girl like this. Come off as a complete douche yet well mannered to everyone else, ignore her/don't give her unnecessary attention, etc and have her come to you. Girls are emotional, and if they think they aren't good enough, it'll drive them crazy and they'll give you attention. Most guys who show these girls attention are suckers. What these girls want is a man. So once again be direct, but once she is attached/trusts you. These girls are in the 18-22 range and dumb/emotional as $hit.


23-29 range is a trap. These girls are looking for Mr. Right deep down, so they aren't quick to give it up.

-Party girls are DTF, but too much gossip going on so make sure you don't know her friends.
-Good girls TAKE a lot of work, but are the biggest freaks.
-The older you get, the easier it gets. Younger girls like you more. Older women like younger guys. If you're in your higher teens/early 20's it's BEST to practice with older women. Then the older you get switch back to younger.
-Don't discriminate with age. Anything is fair game if it's legal and fukable. YOLO.

Step by step breakdown:

1. Meet a girl.
2. Talk and assess the situation. If she is type 1 or type 2.
3. Plan accordingly which version of yourself to show to her.
4. Talk to her with confidence, always be in the position of power.
5. Pull away at some point as if you've lost interest. When she comes back that establishes position of power, then it's smooth sailing.
6. Invite her over.
7. Wine. Movie. Done deal.


Good luck.