Quote Originally Posted by Timmy D for MVP
Yeah this is good stuff. I really fell like there is serious pressure in our society to settle down with someone quickly. There is also, from my experience, an idea perpetrated by media that relationships just work out. And if it goes bad it's a bad relationship and you should just bounce. Instead of working sh!t out. If it isn't magic and you have rough patches it's apparently a bad relationship.

People need to take their time. The measure for me is: okay after you fight what is your mind frame? Are you looking to get even? Or are you trying to figure out how to fix what's up? A real relationship is hard work. You'll know it's a good one if you find it worth it to do that work.
I think the key to bounce back after any fight, is really the ability of whether or not the two of them can put that past history away.

To treat it as if it never existed.