How do you have confidence if youre really ugly?

[nathanjizzle]

How? i feel ugly sometimes because of a car accident i had when i was 16 that left me with a unsightly scar on my face. it makes me self conscious in public sometimes. And i hate when i have to have face to face convos with people because they can see my imperfections.

[BrainDead]

Some dudes just have mad game. Others have so much money it doesn't matter if they're ugly

[zoom17]

How?

If this guy can pull chicks whats you're excess?

[Real14]

If this guy can pull chicks whats you're excess?

he has money, that's why.

[nathanjizzle]

Some dudes just have mad game. Others have so much money it doesn't matter if they're ugly

so if you have personality it doesnt matter?

[stalkerforlife]

Money.

Looks.

Big member.

You better damn well have one or you're a beta bitch for your entire life. (Like me)

[Le Shaqtus]

Whip it out.

[Real14]

so if you have personality it doesnt matter?

personality as to being money.

[zoom17]

he has money, that's why.

Yup these hoes would sleep with anyone ugly as long that he has money

[Real14]

Yup these hoes would sleep with anyone ugly of he has the money

yup most definitely especially in 2014, itz money for everything wit these hoes.

[stalkerforlife]

so if you have personality it doesnt matter?

With ugly to sometimes average girls, it may help.

Since you're beta and what not, I suggest you find someone on your level. Maybe a fat chick, ugly chick, etc.

Try plenty of fish. Free dating site.

[Real14]

With ugly to sometimes average girls, it may help.

Since you're beta and what not, I suggest you find someone on your level. Maybe a fat chick, ugly chick, etc.

Try plenty of fish. Free dating site.

a fat or ugly or both chick works sometimes but its not worth it with them. We have to admit it that more success and money brings us to more guaranteed sex wit tha honeys So we all have to reach for tha sky

[stalkerforlife]

a fat or ugly or both chick works sometimes but its not worth it with them. We have to admit it that more success and money brings us to more guaranteed sex wit tha honeys So we all have to reach for tha sky

The OP could win the lottery, I guess.

[BrainDead]

so if you have personality it doesnt matter?

It matters, but the only way you can charm them with your personality is if you have the opportunity. Like if you see a woman at the gas station she may not give you a second look if you're unattractive, but if you work with this woman or go to school with her you have the opportunity to WOW her with your personality/charm.

[joe]

When I was a teenager, so many girls thought I was cute. A lot of girls liked me and I was one of the best at getting girls in our school.

I realized after school that I was putting a lot of stock into my looks. When I thought I looked good I could feel sky high confidence. If I didnt look good, it went way down.

I was using the past tense in that last sentence, but truthfully, I still can and do get insecure when I feel I look ugly. So this is a life lesson I am still trying to learn, but I think its good advice.

You as a person, if you are a good person, deserve good things. If you have honest intentions and effort and you arent meaning to hurt others... the way you look shouldnt define you.

So confidence should come from knowing who you are inside. Learning to be comfortable with yourself and have inner happiness. Real confidence and happiness comes from within, not from your exterior looks. Looks are fleeting. All of us will age and not look nearly as good as we used to. What will you do then about confidence?

Easier said than done. But that is the right track, I think.