Knowing your girlfriends sexual past, good or bad idea?

[Riddler]

I try to hook up with chicks that have been in long term relationships...

If a woman's (age 25-35) longest relationship is only a year or two...
something is probably wrong with her, and more importantly...
it usually means she's slept with a lot of dudes.

If you're hooking up with chick that's been in a 7-8 year relationship...
Unless she's a cheating scandalous whore, it usually means the number
of guys she's slept with is pretty low.

[Raz]

let's do the math .. 80 by the age of 28 .. that's 8 every year since age 18 .. that's ****ing 1 guy about every 1.5 months for 10 yrs straight .. na not much at all

this 18 yr old told me she had fked 12 guys in the past year(she was a virgin the year before) .. so that actually means about 20 guys in a year .. that's more than one guy every month she was fking .. and then she told me this gem .. she said she wanted to fk 100 guys by the age of 32 .. said she wanted to 'have fun while she was still young' .. say you're in your 30s and you meet this girl after she's done with her 'adventure' .. you'd be proud to bring that home to mama raz ?

I wouldn't care. It depends on the person they are today. I know I have been with quite a few people, so I can't judge. If I could erase some of them, sure, that would be great. However, it's all a learning curve - helped me to be the man I am today.

8 people a year is not that many.

[-p.tiddy-]

Are you serious?

80 isn't that many for a 28 year old chick?



Anyways... I guess if you've been with the chick for three years and your dick hasn't fallen off yet...
it might not be such a big deal, but before you enter into a serious relationship... you might want to do a little interrogating.


I've had my fare share of women... and I always bring this topic to the table within the first week or two...
and it's not always because I'm concerned, sometimes there just isn't anything else interesting to talk about...

Sex is a fun subject to bring up when you're having a boring conversation.



I usually work my way into the "NUMBER" question... I don't just flat out ask "HOW MANY GUYS HAVE YOU F*CKED?"

it usually goes something like this:

"Ever been with a black guy? Ever hooked up with a chick? Do you still know the exact
number of guys you've been with (if not, can you give me an estimate)?"

yeah I agree, the "number" is bound to come up in conversation one way or another just due to talking about sex and past sexual experiences with a girl...it's kind of unavoidable unless you just keep that subject hush hush altogether

[Riddler]

You sound like an insane person.

okay?


Let me clarify:

On the dating website that I use to go to...

The profile would state what the woman's longest relationship has been.


For example:




This chick is 29 years old and the longest relationship she's been in is under a year.... I'll pass.

[Raz]

You sound like an insane person.

He also sounds insecure.

[DaHeezy]

If she's sticks around after sleeping with 80 doods you must be a champ in the sack. Just make sure she's not targeting 80 more.

Personally I'd rather know that detail than finding out she had slept with a close friend before I had met her.

[-p.tiddy-]

He also sounds insecure.

how is that?...he is making perfect sense to me

[-p.tiddy-]

okay?


Let me clarify:

On the dating website that I use to go to...

The profile would state what the woman's longest relationship has been.


For example:




This chick is 29 years old and the longest relationship she's been in is under a year.... I'll pass.

yeah she is insane or weighs 300 lbs...one or the other

if she had her shit together she would have been a few long term relationships...

[dude77]

so raz you'd be ok with marrying a porn star or an escort .. taking her as your beloved wife .. that's crazy shit .. to each his own

[Riddler]

He also sounds insecure.

what part of my post made me sound insecure?... please explain.

[Raz]

how is that?...he is making perfect sense to me

It's clear he has issues with how many d[COLOR="Black"]i[/COLOR]cks have been in a woman. He's obviously worried how he will measure up and/or whether she will stick around.

Some people just don't enter long term relationships until they find the right person. One of my good friends was single until 28, notoriously single. She met a guy she finally liked (liked all aspects of him) and now they're married. She had a bit of a sordid past (quite a few sexual partners) but she's as honest as they come and does not mess around.

A lot of you sound insecure - searching for virgins. You may as well all convert to being Muslims.

[dude77]

It's clear he has issues with how many d[COLOR="Black"]i[/COLOR]cks have been in a woman. He's obviously worried how he will measure up and/or whether she will stick around.

Some people just don't enter long term relationships until they find the right person. One of my good friends was single until 28, notoriously single. She met a guy she finally liked (liked all aspects of him) and now they're married. She had a bit of a sordid past (quite a few sexual partners) but she's as honest as they come and does not mess around.

A lot of you sound insecure - searching for virgins. You may as well all convert to being Muslims.

has nothing to do with being insecure and everything to do with the chick having self respect .. if she doesn't have any self respect as a lady why should I respect her ? in fact, that's just it .. I won't respect her if I know she's stuffed 80 different cocks into her mouth .. bitches who go around sucking every guy's dick are trashy and not worthy of being made into a wife .. of course though .. there will always be some sucker out there who will marry them after they've been used up like a cuum rag ..

[dude77]

so what's the story op .. is this person you or what's the deal

[-p.tiddy-]

It's clear he has issues with how many d[COLOR="Black"]i[/COLOR]cks have been in a woman. He's obviously worried how he will measure up and/or whether she will stick around.

Some people just don't enter long term relationships until they find the right person. One of my good friends was single until 28, notoriously single. She met a guy she finally liked (liked all aspects of him) and now they're married. She had a bit of a sordid past (quite a few sexual partners) but she's as honest as they come and does not mess around.

A lot of you sound insecure - searching for virgins. You may as well all convert to being Muslims.

there is nothing insecure about wanting a girl that doesn't have a damn sex addiction...

[Tarik One]

It depends.. Only advice I ever give to other dudes on the subject is

"Don't ask questions if you don't really want to hear the answers"

If you can handle it? go ahead and ask


If you can't? acknowledge that and don't ask.. If you trust her, then that's what is important.

When you cant' handle it, you f*ck your own head up by finding out thing s you don't need to know.

Women do things.... don't doubt it.. but you don't always need to know everything

Reminds me of that Chris Rock joke: "No matter how many she says, to us it's always going to be too many. "TWO! Well I guess that's how you were raised"