For those guys who are in what they consider a "serious relationship" with a significant other, what do you consider cheating? What do you believe you or your girl can get away with, that the other one can not.
You typing on messageboard boards about her = cheating. She's gonna dump you tomorrow dude...
In all seriousness.. it's not cheating if she doesn't find out .. get my drift? If you know for sure she'll never find out (trip to Vegas with the boys!), then do it.
If you really love this broad and dont wanna risk it, then don't do it. Some girls are more possessive than others. I know this girl that says she'd get mad at her boyfriend if he simply jerked off to porn. Then there's other chicks that wouldnt care if their man flirts with another chick right in front of their face, as long as he keeps bringing in the bread... all broads all different..
alright so im just tryin to figure out what can be said about the definition of cheating. I mean, it seems like every guy whos in a relationship cheats. Ive seen my friends bring their "serious" girlfriends to clubs and while she walks away with her friends, he's talkin to the girl beside's him and askin her for her number.
I've heard many guys justify to their girlfriends innocent pictures and text messages that they said was "nothing" or that "it never meant anything and i never cheated on you"... I dunno. I just dont get the trend of unfaithfulness
You posting this on a basketball messageboard right now asking a bunch of strangers about what is or isn't cheating means you are desperately trying to get with this chick, have a guilty conscience, and you want us to make you feel better by saying "Go ahead.. fuhk the biitch!"
I mean... you should know your own girlfriend better than we would. Does she get mad at you when you guys goto the mall together and she catches you glancin at another girl? Does your girl get mad that you watch porn? If yes, then your girl is probably very possessive and she would probably consider the slightest thing "cheating" If not, your girl might be more lenient.
Don't get it twisted though. If my girl got some dude's number, I'm gonna set that bytch straight! But if I never find out, how can I get mad? Like I said. It's not cheating if she doesnt find out. Keep it discrete. If this chick that's giving you her number is fine, who am I to say you should be faithful? Women are maaaaad sneaky too. Don't think for a second that just because you won't cheat on your wifey that she won't cheat on you.