Originally Posted by bokes15
Yeah, my thoughts exactly. Sure it sucks to have someone f*ck one of your ex's but it's an EX... That person has every right to screw whoever they want just as you do. This guy just sounds extremely desperate and/or pathetic. And yeah you could probably file a restraining order, just make sure to save all the messages and whatever else he's been sending you so there's actual evidence rather than your word against his.
Yeah I was thinking of getting one I'm just really busy with the hospital, school, getting the car fixed, part-time job etc. But the cops said that he is giving him a warning so I'm not sure if that's going to make it better or worse. Apparently he's not allowed to contact me directly or indirectly anymore.
I know it seems like a ***** move but I just don't want this guy hanging around my house. I still live at home and I don't need people lurking around my house late at night smashing shit with a metal club and risk my parents getting involved and possibly hurt. I'm an average sized guy, 6'1 190-200, and can handle my own but my parents have certain medical conditions that they wouldn't be able to defend themselves against a 20 year old kid around the same size as me.
It's not my safety I'm worried about it's my parents and valuables considering this insecure **** knows where I live now (If it was actually that guy.. still just speculating).