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Old 09-14-2017, 08:52 PM   #31
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Yet you still think you can "tear an MRI," so maybe do a little bit more of the school part.

Anyway, there is no "game," that's OPs first and foremost problem.

the "game" is a euphemisn for planning an effective and efficient life that is well timed, fun filled, well rounded and meaningful. play the game right.
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Old 09-14-2017, 11:18 PM   #32
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Why not enjoy these with her?

When your married you can't take as much risks
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Old 09-14-2017, 11:32 PM   #33
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So everyone who finds some one young is insecure??

Its probably better to have a partner young who sticks with you whilst you're still developing (asuming youll do well later in life) making mistakes in life etc, then to only find women who can only deal with an already made man.

Atleast trust wont be an issue.
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Old 09-14-2017, 11:33 PM   #34
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Heed these words: Marry young... or don't marry at all. You want to marry when you both don't have a clue what you're doing. You learn together and support each other. What's the point of marrying at 30+? How old is she going to be, 30? 20? What does a 30 year old have in common with a 20 year old (I'll allow a 5 year age difference)? You're already bitter and jaded. You've firmly formed an opinion of how things work. Drop your nuts and go it alone. You will get old. You will die, just like everyone else. None of this will keep that from happening. And there's girls at bars and online and high class escorts to satisfy your animal urges. There's also porn and imagination

We men folk could ideally live isolated in the woods. You touch nothing, and nothing touches you. It's different for women. The feminists will disagree, but we're biologically designed differently. They need emotion and comfort, and they're physically weaker. You can't take a stroll in the AM if you're a woman - it's little things like this that a male-dominated society doesn't understand. A woman should seek to be married; the younger the better. A man should seek marriage when young, but avoid it at all costs once they've fallen through the cracks (if you seek to marry for financial reasons, I'll permit it). Consider it a blessing. You've found the flaw in the system. Don't worry, the human species will be just fine. Your neighbour will compensate for your lack of output in the offspring department. The locusts will thrive.
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Old 09-14-2017, 11:40 PM   #35
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Heed these words: Marry young... or don't marry at all. You want to marry when you both don't have a clue what you're doing. You learn together and support each other. What's the point of marrying at 30+? How old is she going to be, 30? 20? What does a 30 year old have in common with a 20 year old (I'll allow a 5 year age difference)? You're already bitter and jaded. You've firmly formed an opinion of how things work. Drop your nuts and go it alone. You will get old. You will die, just like everyone else. None of this will keep that from happening. And there's girls at bars and online and high class escorts to satisfy your animal urges. There's also porn and imagination

We men folk could ideally live isolated in the woods. You touch nothing, and nothing touches you. It's different for women. The feminists will disagree, but we're biologically designed differently. They need emotion and comfort, and they're physically weaker. You can't take a stroll in the AM if you're a woman - it's little things like this that a male-dominated society doesn't understand. A woman should seek to be married; the younger the better. A man should seek marriage when young, but avoid it at all costs once they've fallen through the cracks (if you seek to marry for financial reasons, I'll permit it). Consider it a blessing. You've found the flaw in the system. Don't worry, the human species will be just fine. Your neighbour will compensate for your lack of output in the offspring department. The locusts will thrive.

What age do You think is when there's no turning back for men? After 34?
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Old 09-15-2017, 12:05 AM   #36
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The world is not one-size-fits-all.
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Old 09-15-2017, 12:10 AM   #37
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What age do You think is when there's no turning back for men? After 34?
No, you can always turn back, but why would you want to? If you have younger siblings, they may have already gotten married. There's something comfortable in doing things in a certain order. Your friends, married. In exceptional circumstances, sure, go for it. But the rush is over (oddly, most people start rushing at 30+). If you marry young, most likely you'd be working on your relationship with your significant other daily... or you're sick and tired of all their previously charming idiosyncrasies. It puts you in the same position as an unhitched gentleman - with baggage. Put simply: if you're comfortable alone, ignore society... you've won the lotto. If you're not comfortable alone, reassess your life and find some passions. If you still must be married, do it. Deep down you know what's right for you... never be swayed by external pressures.
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Old 09-15-2017, 12:10 AM   #38
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because you could put together the images or ideas of all the female role models, or those that are "leaking", and not put together a picture of the woman you want to marry

play the game? talk about breaking the stereotype that women date men off of a check-list
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Old 09-15-2017, 12:49 AM   #39
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Getting married isn't bad because suddenly you have double income and only about about 1.5x the expenditure. Your partner can also be your support and motivation to achieve great things and vice versa, provided you have chosen a good one.

Having kids are the ultimate doom to your hope and dreams because they just suck so much out of your life, especially your time and mind, if you don't have enough money. Even with enough money, they're still a chore but at least your time is now free because you can afford to hire someone to take care of them.
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Seriously though... I need a ruling...

would a younger woman like Victoria Justice be completely impossible for an older gentleman?



you people are trying to destroy my hopes & dreams.

I don't like the way this thread is going.
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Old 09-15-2017, 02:14 AM   #41
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30 & 50

20 year difference.





I feel better about life now.
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Old 09-15-2017, 02:16 AM   #42
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Seriously though... I need a ruling...

would a younger woman like Victoria Justice be completely impossible for an older gentleman?



you people are trying to destroy my hopes & dreams.

I don't like the way this thread is going.
with enough money, ANYTHING is possible.
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Old 10-06-2017, 01:03 AM   #43
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The game sounds horrible to me, why have all these side chicks that have had 50 dudes inside of them when I can get one and grow with her, mold while the clay is soft so to speak

...This. Having dealt with girls like this, it's not fun. I remember one in particular who wouldn't really hit me up until she drank or out of the blue felt lonely. Played on my mind for awhile but realized she just uses guy for her own satisfaction. Got warned by a ton of friends who knew of her not to get serious with her because she had that reputation.

I have a thing for innocent, fun-going girls who make you work for their affection and the eventual dating/relationship.
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Old 10-06-2017, 05:04 AM   #44
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Who are these guys you speak of? Girls are still getting married--to guys in their 30s...

I got married at 24. I did not know one single male my age who got married before me.

I'm 28 now. Several guys have caught up with me. Most though... I just don't know what they do all day. After your mid-20s it's like... listen, college is over. Get a life.

It's never even occurred to me to be jealous of someone who isn't married and is just floating around. At times I'm jealous of people who have devoted their lives to something other than a mate (music, art, writing, teaching, priesthood/ministry)...
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Old 10-06-2017, 06:59 AM   #45
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Who are these guys you speak of? Girls are still getting married--to guys in their 30s...

I got married at 24. I did not know one single male my age who got married before me.

I'm 28 now. Several guys have caught up with me. Most though... I just don't know what they do all day. After your mid-20s it's like... listen, college is over. Get a life.

It's never even occurred to me to be jealous of someone who isn't married and is just floating around. At times I'm jealous of people who have devoted their lives to something other than a mate (music, art, writing, teaching, priesthood/ministry)...

grass is always greener on the other side
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