Laws of Attraction: Pre-Selection
So one of those pop up videos came on my computer and this dude is explaining how "pre-selection" is the main focal point in attracting females. For those of you that don't know what it means, here's a little explanation from the author and I am paraphrasing here....
It says that if there are two males, the females are usually attracted to the brightest or more colorful fish to mate with. Now when there are two very colorful males....the females will usually breed with the male that is breeding with other females.
In other words they will naturally go where other females go to.
Now to put in perspective, this might seem great and all and makes a lot of sense but in real world encounters. How does one pull this off? Now if I go and talk to every female in the room and have them fall for me, just to get the one I really want....does that work?
Wouldn't we be looked upon as "players" from a real world perspective?