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Old 10-01-2017, 09:14 PM   #31
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Default Re: She took my babies; they were the only reason I had to live...

Mothers take children and hold them hostage.

The deadbeat father myth is perpetrated by the liberal media.

Most fathers that aren't in the lives of their children have been systematically uprooted by a biased court system and evil women.
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Old 10-01-2017, 09:22 PM   #32
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Fathers for the most part just accept that the mother calls the shots. I know plenty of fathers who just didn't stand for it. My old assistant put his sons mom on child support.....
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Old 10-01-2017, 09:34 PM   #33
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Fathers for the most part just accept that the mother calls the shots. I know plenty of fathers who just didn't stand for it. My old assistant put his sons mom on child support.....

It's going to cost me 400 just to a file a petition, but i'm on social security for depression and I have been arrested many times in the past.

I have low testosterone and I think that has worsened my depression, so my doctor has prescribed me a gel.

My depression does not deter me from taking care of my children in any manner. I go to my doctor appointments and I am being treated.

All I can do is hope for the best.
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Old 10-01-2017, 10:24 PM   #34
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Bro I know this is not the right time, but I found the JWill Kings jersey. Where am I sending it? It will make you feel better for a moment, and I'm good with that.
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Old 10-01-2017, 10:39 PM   #35
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Bro I know this is not the right time, but I found the JWill Kings jersey. Where am I sending it? It will make you feel better for a moment, and I'm good with that.

You don't have to do that, man.

Thanks so much for trying to help me.

No good deed will go unrewarded.
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Old 10-01-2017, 11:08 PM   #36
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Real talk....

I also grew up without a dad ( mine left when I was 2) and only saw him once 10'years later....it sucks man.....but you got keep moving forward.

Just do your best and try to make sure your kids know you love them.

Even if you aren't there everyday .....make sure you tell them and spend quality time with them when you can.....it makes a difference.

Be the best dad YOU can be ......even in a fed up situation....for your kids


"You don't have to look far to find someone worse off then you"...... get up and go get it.
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Old 10-01-2017, 11:42 PM   #37
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wait this cant be real right?

why did she let u blow your load in her, or even hook up with u?
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Old 10-02-2017, 01:47 AM   #38
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You're a really ****ed up person
Same could be said for stalker.

Karma on display.
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Old 10-02-2017, 02:17 AM   #39
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Losing access to your kids is a bit like being raped in prison.....a tragedy? Sure. But at some point you have to allow it. You acquiesce to defeat and accept it. Your kids aren't gone till you're in the grave. Plus you have to think long term. When they get high school aged they have a bit of freedom. Stay involved and they could decide to keep you in their lives. Your kids are your kids forever. Long after they are grown. Don't bitch out and let them forget what having a father is.

My dad bitched out when I was about 9. By the time I was 16 he wanted back in and I was done with him by then. Had he stayed in contact even we might have a relationship today.

Fatherhood isn't a sprint. It's a marathon. Let your kids remember why they love you and they will return of their own accord in time. A woman can't take your kids. Only relocate them. The kids take themselves from you if the relationship isn't maintained. If you gotta take a bus once a month do it. If you have to put your home on air bnb as short term housing to do it....**** it. If you have to sell dime bags, pick up cans, or do Craigslist day labor...do it.

Be a man or don't. If you aren't willing to go that hard your kids can't be that great a priority.


Do you got kids?
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Old 10-02-2017, 03:23 AM   #40
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We know why she left you but what was the final straw for her?
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Old 10-02-2017, 04:08 AM   #41
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What happened to my poast ??

Dang bro

Stay strong.

Most haters on here donít have kids; theyíre kids themselves. Living off/with mommy

Youíre a good dad. Straight up.

Fucc

Fucc

Stay strong as you can. Move there if you have to. Keep it cool with their mom for now. You donít want to piss her off.

Lemme know anything you need cuz.
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Old 10-02-2017, 04:55 AM   #42
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When I would go to my daughter's class and pick her up, she would scream "THAT'S MY DAD!"

She was proud that I was her dad.

No one has ever been so unashamed of me.
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Old 10-02-2017, 04:56 AM   #43
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What happened to my poast ??

Dang bro

Stay strong.

Most haters on here donít have kids; theyíre kids themselves. Living off/with mommy

Youíre a good dad. Straight up.

Fucc

Fucc

Stay strong as you can. Move there if you have to. Keep it cool with their mom for now. You donít want to piss her off.

Lemme know anything you need cuz.

Thank you.
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Old 10-02-2017, 05:05 AM   #44
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And what happens if I move there in the middle of nowhere, not knowing anyone, and she still refuses to let me see them?

Her family hates me.

They would likely kill me in a 'hunting accident.'

So? Is that really any worse than drowning away in misery complaining to a message board full of strangers while you are dying just to see your kids? Fear is a powerful thing, but those are your kids man. I know inside your brain you are wired to fight and to die for them.

I believe strongly that every kid should have a father influence in their life and I think it will make a huge difference in quality of life and self worth if they see you doing what you can to see them even if it is only once a month that will mean so much to your kids, and to you as well.

Good luck.
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Old 10-02-2017, 05:23 AM   #45
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Don't forget to pray.

it helps.
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