Theres a girl that I wanted about two years ago.. I figured at some point it wasn't gonna happen so I gave up... a year later one of my buddies nails her and they start dating..
About 5 months ago they break up... tonight is the second night I see her since and I get with her.. a bunch of my friends see us leaving together... I try to play it off like it was all her.. I tell them I'm just going home.. but they know... they all say, "man, just go for it"... and I do.. and I succeed...
What do I do about my friend? Should I tell him? It seemed like such a great idea at the time and its only about a half hour later now and I'm stuck.
Before my friend went out with her I felt like she was the kinda girl I could date..
and now I can't see that happening just cuz of him.. but if I were to imagine him out of the picture I could still see it.. it's just the thought of one of my good buddies disapproving that kills me.
and dude it also really depends on how they broke up and how close you are to the friend. if it broke up because she was a total ***** to him and did some messed up stuff then you should probably take that into consideration before getting into a relationship with her.
on the other hand, if they just mutually broke it off and aren't on bad terms, then it should be okay in my opinion
Before my friend went out with her I felt like she was the kinda girl I could date..
and now I can't see that happening just cuz of him.. but if I were to imagine him out of the picture I could still see it.. it's just the thought of one of my good buddies disapproving that kills me.
It'd be a big deal if it was the dudes wife or some ****. They only dated for 7 months or so? Just be up front with yer dude but if you're into her, go for it.
I appreciate what you're all saying, but we live in a pretty small place where everyone knows everyone else, so it just makes every little thing a lot more complicated.
I guess I should probably just tell my buddy what happened and see where it goes from there. He's half my size so the worst that will happen is he gets mad and I just step on him haha
haha good luck dude, i agree with marlo. if you really like her then it's always worth a shot. hopefully you won't lose a friendship out of it, but if he gets that upset over this then he probably isn't much of a friend anyway
Theres a girl that I wanted about two years ago.. I figured at some point it wasn't gonna happen so I gave up... a year later one of my buddies nails her and they start dating..
About 5 months ago they break up... tonight is the second night I see her since and I get with her.. a bunch of my friends see us leaving together... I try to play it off like it was all her.. I tell them I'm just going home.. but they know... they all say, "man, just go for it"... and I do.. and I succeed...
What do I do about my friend? Should I tell him? It seemed like such a great idea at the time and its only about a half hour later now and I'm stuck.
your friend should be down for the cause. If he isn't call him out, the rest of your boys will take your side.
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