Bruh, you don't have to nut in the condom
Back before I was married and messing around, I would tell (never ever ask) the girl I was having sex with that I was going to finish on her belly, chest or back (depending on the position we were ATM) and if we were feeling friskier, in her face or mouth.
Most women are way kinkier than you think, no need to ever bust a nut into a condom, big dawg.